Doesn't help.
The strength of a nation, the foundation of any people is in the ability to reproduce, procreate. If you're able to disrupt that ability, you have set that nation on the path to death.
We're supposed to be reinvigorating our numbers by promoting strong family households, I have openly told my grandparents that I envy them (father's side), they've been married for over 60 years, when we do holidays...they literally hold court at the house, they're like royalty and their counsel is excellent when I talk to them. The game my grandmother has taught me about relationships....

I wonder how it feels to see damn near 50 to 60 of your progeny huddled around you, seeing the faces that ONE single union has produced. Family reunions, forget about it..you're talking about a 100 living easy. These folks lived through and SURVIVED Jim Crow, my nikkas...gone through REAL hardships and were able to MAKE it yet from them we have a destroyed generation of children.
The ability to see the forest from the trees has hit our people so damn hard, black women rest their laurels on careers which TECHNICALLY are not controlled by them but by the puppet's hands of major corporations and people who have DESTROYED your own people, your own goddamn BLOOD. Black men....

we have lost our ability to be men, white folks gave us a pass and said "fukk all the bytches you want, have all of the kids you want...shyt, you don't even have to be there as long as you cut a check each month." and we took it because we're too fukking lazy to put in the work to build strong fukking households, you shame the men you came from who were able to check the white man's bullshyt and fought to keep their households under their care. It's not easy because we're truly in the Matrix brehs and brehettes but ya'll are some intelligent folks and hopefully some of you are willingly to put down them force fields and unify for the cause in giving birth to a generation of black boys and girls who will not have to SUFFER through this shyt and have normal relationships through and through