That is why double standards have to go. I've come to understand that a lot of men genuinely have a mental block when it comes to applying the golden rule to women.
The reason why they are clueless about women is because they can't relate to our shared humanity.
Dudes will ask a question like what do she want in some of these scenarios. You'd be surprised at just how much u can understand the opposite sex if you understand urself.
And I'm not dismissing any differences either. I'm not on this whole flimsy jellyfish ambiguous ass no gender role shyt.
I'm just talking about common human decency. A lot of men allow hormones and their dyx to obscure a woman's humanity.
Like these nikkas genuinely surprised that another human being wants love or attention or respect.
Shyt be seeming obvious to me but...common sense ain't common.
This is very true. A lot of damaging and imo abusive behaviors are swept away under any number of the male cliche excuses "you know how guys are..." or "they're just being men" etc.
And I find myself dumbfounded at the social silence around the abuses of women's, as you put it "humanity", or as my mother puts it, "the complete lack of regard"
I'm confused how long it was thought women would quietly comply with lives as male accessories.
I think a lot of women are certainly seeking something MORE in a relationship these days and .....I don't know how that plays out honestly, it's some first generation shyt honestly