Reclaiming "Jaded" Women for 2016

[wickedsm]

These chicks suddenly found a voice now that their icon has returned

Also anyone noticed that chicks with partners and/or children are nowhere near this thread? Says it all doesn't it?

*looks at wedding ring and boobs* I been all through this thread.

We definitely do not all agree with one another.

Also agree that @The M.I.C. post quoted above is hands down the best post in this thread.

I can't rep him again yet.

 

[Diondon]

Them embracing their inner hoe is primarily one of the reasons they end up alone in the first place so..........

........

I'm saying

 

[MoonGoddess]

Available for 2016, it's a new world out here breh

First day cop

 

[Draje]

What we allow you to do right now in society. Only thing we need y'all for is sex and kids. Everything else is smoke screen X mirrors.

Sounds like you wanna fukk men. More power to you.

 

[Software]

Sounds like you wanna fukk men. More power to you.

You're a well known simp who is insecure about himself. keep defending women who shyt on your gender daily brehs

 

[cunce]

1st message. Congrats...

thanks

 

[DrX]

Ehhh most of those things r about strength rather than some trait specific to males. Id argue that you could just get a strong ass woman to do it. And if u don't think women can protect lead and build if encourage you to look at black family structure. Many of them are matriarchal and women are the glue of that family.

Saying that women don't NEED a man is certainly not to imply that they don't WANT one, which I believe many do. Which I believe is where ur point holds up better. Because although I technically could do those things u mentioned, I simply don't want the responsibility of lifting heavy objects, being the first line of defense in a war, etc

yeah and its fukked up....!

but i said i wouldnt but this BM vs BW thing anymore so im mute on the topic

 

[Spectre]

I pity this generation when it comes to finding love

 

[serial]

Doesn't help.

The strength of a nation, the foundation of any people is in the ability to reproduce, procreate. If you're able to disrupt that ability, you have set that nation on the path to death.

We're supposed to be reinvigorating our numbers by promoting strong family households, I have openly told my grandparents that I envy them (father's side), they've been married for over 60 years, when we do holidays...they literally hold court at the house, they're like royalty and their counsel is excellent when I talk to them. The game my grandmother has taught me about relationships.... I wonder how it feels to see damn near 50 to 60 of your progeny huddled around you, seeing the faces that ONE single union has produced. Family reunions, forget about it..you're talking about a 100 living easy. These folks lived through and SURVIVED Jim Crow, my nikkas...gone through REAL hardships and were able to MAKE it yet from them we have a destroyed generation of children.


The ability to see the forest from the trees has hit our people so damn hard, black women rest their laurels on careers which TECHNICALLY are not controlled by them but by the puppet's hands of major corporations and people who have DESTROYED your own people, your own goddamn BLOOD. Black men.... we have lost our ability to be men, white folks gave us a pass and said "fukk all the bytches you want, have all of the kids you want...shyt, you don't even have to be there as long as you cut a check each month." and we took it because we're too fukking lazy to put in the work to build strong fukking households, you shame the men you came from who were able to check the white man's bullshyt and fought to keep their households under their care. It's not easy because we're truly in the Matrix brehs and brehettes but ya'll are some intelligent folks and hopefully some of you are willingly to put down them force fields and unify for the cause in giving birth to a generation of black boys and girls who will not have to SUFFER through this shyt and have normal relationships through and through

This should have ended the thread pretty much... truth is we need each other......

 

[DarkHorse23]

Things are going get worse before they get better /thread

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

In 2016, you really believe something like #wastehistime will help these ladies? Its going to push them further into the depths of loneliness

Nah. A lot of dudes like being treated like shyt. In fact the more u treat them like crap, the better you treat them. Some talk a mean game about #HOH and the like, but those are usually the ones who simp the most when you ignore them, use them, waste their time/money.

These dudes see the drama as earning her heart. If ur nice to them they don't take you seriously. U have to run them through an emotional gauntlet and they become a sucka for love. Shawty ain't even gotta be that nice. They automatically associate excessive emo abuse with intense love.

We usually talk about chicks that are like this but there are many damaged dudes like this too. They also usually chase chicks leagues above them...shyt is sad.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

But yeah these double standards gotta stop. We're at a point in our society where men and women have to transcend using JUST traditional ways of relating to each other.
(Note I said "just" implying that these traditions don't need to be dismissed wholesale, but they cannot be the only way to relate to each other).

History has pretty much led up to men and women having to accept the differences while respecting their shared humanity. This is what creates successful relationships. Women no longer need men just for provision and protection, because opportunities exist for them to see to these needs independent of men.

In turn, because of this change, men can no longer merely objectify women they wish to build with, they have to see them as human in a way men weren't required to do before. But they also can't be just a wallet or a dikk to women either. Women objectify men just as men do women...

Both men and women have to interact with each other based no longer on pure necessity but on an actual desire to know this person.

Those who can't understand this will be frustrated, bitter, lonely and unstable b/c they will be unable to get their companionship needs met. These are the people who permeate the internet to bash the opposite sex.

I like it cuz it filters out the true a$$holes although it's a little sad that the gender bashers themselves don't see how they look online.

 

[PeridotPuss]

But yeah these double standards gotta stop. We're at a point in our society where men and women have to transcend using JUST traditional ways of relating to each other.
(Note I said "just" implying that these traditions don't need to be dismissed wholesale, but they cannot be the only way to relate to each other).

History has pretty much led up to men and women having to accept the differences while respecting their shared humanity. This is what creates successful relationships. Women no longer need men just for provision and protection, because opportunities exist for them to see to these needs independent of men.

In turn, because of this change, men can no longer merely objectify women they wish to build with, they have to see them as human in a way men weren't required to do before. But they also can't be just a wallet or a dikk to women either. Women objectify men just as men do women...

Both men and women have to interact with each other based no longer on pure necessity but on an actual desire to know this person.

Those who can't understand this will be frustrated, bitter, lonely and unstable b/c they will be unable to get their companionship needs met. These are the people who permeate the internet to bash the opposite sex.

I like it cuz it filters out the true a$$holes although it's a little sad that the gender bashers themselves don't see how they look online.

Wow

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I agree with letting them all die in the woods but...background checks can only save a few of these hoes.

I just encourage women to focus on their own independent lives and goals and to treat men EXACTLY as they ACTUALLY treat you. Fair is fair. If men didn't treat women so poorly to begin with the idea of us doing the same wouldn't cause so much outrage.

That is why double standards have to go. I've come to understand that a lot of men genuinely have a mental block when it comes to applying the golden rule to women.

The reason why they are clueless about women is because they can't relate to our shared humanity.


Dudes will ask a question like what do she want in some of these scenarios. You'd be surprised at just how much u can understand the opposite sex if you understand urself.

And I'm not dismissing any differences either. I'm not on this whole flimsy jellyfish ambiguous ass no gender role shyt.

I'm just talking about common human decency. A lot of men allow hormones and their dyx to obscure a woman's humanity.

Like these nikkas genuinely surprised that another human being wants love or attention or respect.

Shyt be seeming obvious to me but...common sense ain't common.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

People take this gender shyt so far that they will justify anything their gender does.

That's why u got dudes tryin to justify rape and chicks out here afraid to call hoes out.