I see it all the time on this website. People that are so called "cool" with a certain poster but then they're quick to say how they really feel if, for instance, you are exposed or made to look like the bad guy. Whatever the case. They may try to apologize, but they already revealed their true nature. So many people on this website are stupid and phony tho. This is why I have no friends here.
Red Flags For People U Call “Friends”
- Thread starter MaxPain
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As you get older your time becomes more precious (actually, you finally come to realise your time is precious - when we young, we give it away too freely).
Put friends into two categories:
- people just to chill with at the end of the week, shoot some chit, nothing serious. Dont expect anything from these guys except a good time
- closer friends who you will give time to help them out, because they would do the same to you
Golden rule: note those who give back (make sure they shout you a few rounds when its their turn, celebrate your successes, give you lifts, give you life advice) and those who are just there for company and want to take your time to make themselves feel good (cause they lonely) — givers vs takers. Got no time for pure takers in my life, learnt that over the years
Put friends into two categories:
- people just to chill with at the end of the week, shoot some chit, nothing serious. Dont expect anything from these guys except a good time
- closer friends who you will give time to help them out, because they would do the same to you
Golden rule: note those who give back (make sure they shout you a few rounds when its their turn, celebrate your successes, give you lifts, give you life advice) and those who are just there for company and want to take your time to make themselves feel good (cause they lonely) — givers vs takers. Got no time for pure takers in my life, learnt that over the years
Particularly when you are not around. That is a true test of loyalty.
A real friend would be like: "Hold on, bruh......"
If they hating on you you must be doing something rightI've always hated that saying
fukk I wanna be around or keeping tabs on some hating ass nikkas for
Men have to stop living for the attention and approval of other men
DaRealness
I think very deeply
- If you don't have my back and don't defend me, then you're not worth shyt in my eyes.
- Throwing rocks and hiding their hands i.e. being disrespectful under the guise of "playing" and acting like you're sensitive when you call them out on it.
- Acting funny with you and/or showing off at your expense whenever there's females around because they see you as a threat.
- Never there when you go through hard times, but when you pull through and things turn around positively then suddenly they come back out the woodworks with a bunch of "reasons" why you never heard from them.
- Jealousy/envy. Making underhanded remarks...you change your car and they're calling you "rich man" more than once. You start a new and better job "you weren't at your previous job THAT long you changed already" even if you were there for six years.
- Keep their cards close to their chests about their own shyt but always wanna know everything about you.
Elle Driver
Veteran
Has a problem everyday with no solution in sight and always complaining.
Always in the mix of gossip/bullshyt (starting it or spreading it), also known as “tea.”
Always in the mix of gossip/bullshyt (starting it or spreading it), also known as “tea.”
Damn... I don't have any red flags when it comes to friendships. It's instinctual. Either I fukk with you off the get, or I don't. If I don't it's because I "felt" something was off about you the first time I met you. I'm selective about who I choose to be friends with, at the very beginning, so I don't form friendships with you if my instincts feel off about you.
I really haven't been fukked over so far by any friends, or had any real bad experiences with friends either, so my instincts haven't failed me yet. I have about 6 close female friends. I know a lot of women can be grimey, but I just haven't had any of my close girls fukk me over, so I guess I've chose the right group of girls to befriend.
I really haven't been fukked over so far by any friends, or had any real bad experiences with friends either, so my instincts haven't failed me yet. I have about 6 close female friends. I know a lot of women can be grimey, but I just haven't had any of my close girls fukk me over, so I guess I've chose the right group of girls to befriend.
I don't have a lot of friends..i just care about myself. I'm tired of hearing about people's. All my friends do is complain
My best friend growing up hated on me to women...10 years later women tell me
AnotherRoute
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Good list so far,
I am going to say all they ever what to talk about is fukking chicks. Its cool when you young but once you start getting older it makes me wonder about what’s really important to people
I am going to say all they ever what to talk about is fukking chicks. Its cool when you young but once you start getting older it makes me wonder about what’s really important to people
Taking to long when I’m trien to do drugs with u
Is my hugest pet peeve
Ya boy: (cooking heron in the spoon)
You:
HURRY UP nikka I NEED MY FIX
ya boy:
chill nikka da rock cooking be patientYou:
fukk DAT RUN MY FADE...ya boy: (needle in his arm)
its..all..goood..baybaaayyy
Amused Mastery
All Star
lol dudes in their 30s talking like they’re in a high school locker room
DaRealness
I think very deeply
We all know red flags in relationships...but let’s talk about people u deal with longer than most relationships...
This one to me is very important....I’d say a little more than relationships bc who u associate with or befriend can mean life or death sometimes...or dray u down in life.
We all think just cuz we drink & have fun with someone they’re ur friend...when they just tolerate u. Then u wonder why ur so called best friend set u up/smashed ya gf or ex/stole from u etc....
Here’s my list over the years....
Lies all the time...even trivial stuff
Always downing ur accomplishments (that girl u bagged wasnt even cute)
Always taking subtle shots/comments (there go big money man buying something else again)
Always humored at ur expense/ L’s...(haha, u got finessed out that deal)
Doesnt have a car
Raised by a single mother/has too many female tendencies/emotionally reactive
Hot head
Has no passion in life, wants to bum around
Doesnt strive me to do better
Scared to tell me the truth even if it pisses me off
Soft/pushover
Two faced
Gossips alot
Always asking for money
Anytime he gets a gf he dissappears/doesnt have time anymore
Tries to put u down/show off infront of females
Is a simp
With the above I can MAYBE make u an associate....but I’ll never make u an honest friend. I keep squares out my circle.
Females drop ur comments...cuz y’all are worse than dudes it seems. If I was a female I’d have like 1 female friend
@HarlemHottie @Nicole0416 @Booksnrain @Hungerpain @Luck @Serious @Barnett114
Another thing:
- Stay the fukk away from people who always bring up negativity from your past. If you got an athletic build, they gotta mention how you were overweight 5 years ago. You making good money, they gotta remind you that you used to be broke. You're confident and making friends, getting women etc they just have to remind you of when you were taking social Ls back in the day. Drop that person TODAY.
- Somebody who always feels the need to be a contrarian. Of course you don't want a 'yes man' in your life, but if you got a 'friend' who always feels the need to contradict what you say, sideye that person at the very least. They ain't down for you.
- Always has to bring things around to a negative even when you try to see the positive side eg you lose your job and you mention that even though you know things are hard, you're confident you will get another job real soon and rather than encourage you to keep pushing they gotta say some shyt like "yeah, but the job market isn't easy right now and you're gonna struggle you probably not gonna get anything for a long time". No shyt!
You trying to see the bright side and they still gotta kick you down somehow.
You pretty much summed it up, but to piggy back off of what you said, even your so called immediate family may not fukk with you like that, let alone a so called friend. I know that the one person who has been day one ride or die for a Breh is the person who gave birth to me! Everybody else? Eh..
Good post! Was spot on!
Clay Puppington
rabid
If a nigya try to play me in front of females then he getting cut off immediately
I could have known you for 10 years but that's that upper echelon fukkshyt that I dont tolerate
I could have known you for 10 years but that's that upper echelon fukkshyt that I dont tolerate