Red Flags For People U Call “Friends”

[WesCrook]

Anybody that thinks he's above me and talks to me like I aint shyt, I cant fukk with.
I dont wanna be nobody's "idiot friend" or "pet friend" for them to look down on. While I hate being alone sometimes, its better than hanging around folks that hate you in the inside.

For instance, you go out clubbing to meet some females.

If he comes up and you don't, it's cool with him. If both of you come up, it's cool with him. If neither of you come up, it's still cool with him. However, if he doesn't come up, but you do, he's going to have a problem with it....and may very well try to sabotage your hookup with the woman.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Only calling me when they in a "emergency'

Just broke off a 20 year friendship with someone who only calls me recently when. They in need

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

I'm at the point now that if I sense any hate or negative bullshyt that person is bushes. I ain't having that shyt around me just to say so and so is a friend. fukk that.

Most people value quantity over quality.

 

[kwazzy100]

For instance, you go out clubbing to meet some females.

If he comes up and you don't, it's cool with him. If both of you come up, it's cool with him. If neither of you come up, it's still cool with him. However, if he doesn't come up, but you do, he's going to have a problem with it....and may very well try to sabotage your hookup with the woman.

Yea, like they make you feel like you cant make good choices.

 

[WesCrook]

Bump

The ones who are quick to give you a verbal diary of their lives and problems, when it's your turn they are not trying to listen

 

[Loud Still Coolin]

Lotta homies mad

Ima make homies more mad this yeAr tho

It always be the ones witnessing you Develop that's madd

 

[Complexion]

The wiser I get, the more I realize that most aren't worth my time. Only thing I wish is I'd had this insight as a child as it would've allowed me to build a much better life than investing in their lies. Still, better to realize now than in a few years time...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

1. Browses the coli

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

What's wrong with being a square? I've always been a square but a cool dude. None on the list I've never done besides be soft.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

If we can’t operate in peace, I doubt you’d could be my friend. Whenever I sense enough resistance, I’m become aware of the lack of potential in any relationship...

 

[DaRealness]

Another kind of person to stay away from: people who have no kind of discretion or tact. The type that will blurt out something to you in public "you're getting fat" "you're broke" etc or making other type inappropriate remarks as if they're children.

- people who have no kind of home training. Leaving unfinished drinks in the car,leaving their stuff around your place etc.

- people who don't take shyt seriously. Everything's a joke to them.

 

[thekyuke]

My best friend growing up hated on me to women...10 years later women tell me

This! Dee blocking 'friends' are the worst HATER. They'll take years off your life-you only see them when you're in a world of ishyt and they're openly clowning you. I had a 'buddy' like this for a decade (I swear I'm too nice!). I wised up late 2011 and said,"nikka,lose my number,never call me ever again." You must be firm dealing with haters-YOU OWE THEM, NOTHING.
Its not just women-they'll go out of their way to talk ishyt to your face or behind your back.

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

This! Dee blocking 'friends' are the worst HATER. They'll take years off your life-you only see them when you're in a world of ishyt and they're openly clowning you. I had a 'buddy' like this for a decade (I swear I'm too nice!). I wised up late 2011 and said,"nikka,lose my number,never call me ever again." You must be firm dealing with haters-YOU OWE THEM, NOTHING.
Its not just women-they'll go out of their way to talk ishyt to your face or behind your back.

True dat

 

[ZoeGod]

One red flag is when a friend is supposed to help you with something or pick you up somewhere or drop you off somewhere and shows up mad late because they put last minute p*ssy a priority over your time. That means they don’t value your time at all. That’s a major red flag.

 

[BeBorn]

What the fukk is a friend in 2020
Most friends are enimies undiscovered