Red Flags For People U Call “Friends”

[NoirDynosaur]

Your best friend should be yourself

The problem with a lot of relationship/friendships is the expectations. The entitlement "what can you do for me". When people don't get their way they explode like Hiroshima.

Observe people body's language, mannerisms, principles, morals. Vet them.

Set boundaries

Avoid the unhappy. Life's too short to drown in misery. Lift yourself up! Those who are like minded will motivate you

I had a lot of traumatic experiences with folks, I end up being emotionally closed off. Yes it makes me distant, but at the same, I feel secured. It is what it is.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Here’s my list over the years....

Lies all the time...even trivial stuff
Always downing ur accomplishments (that girl u bagged wasnt even cute)
Always taking subtle shots/comments (there go big money man buying something else again)
Always humored at ur expense/ L’s...(haha, u got finessed out that deal)
Doesnt have a car
Raised by a single mother/has too many female tendencies/emotionally reactive
Hot head
Has no passion in life, wants to bum around
Doesnt strive me to do better
Scared to tell me the truth even if it pisses me off
Soft/pushover
Two faced
Gossips alot
Always asking for money
Anytime he gets a gf he dissappears/doesnt have time anymore
Tries to put u down/show off infront of females
Is a simp

I would never associate with anyone who treated me like this.

 

[Robbie3000]

Never has a nice word to say about anyone when they are not around.

 

[BK The Great]

Talks bad about their family or friends to the person they speaking with


One minute their friendly, next minute they two faced


Always has a negative energy feel towards them.


Ok to meet new friends but act funny with people who checks for them daily.

anyone who says they care for you then really show how much they don’t care.

 

[cyndaquil]

Never has a nice word to say about anyone when they are not around.

I roast all my friends

 

[Robbie3000]

I roast all my friends

Behind their backs?

 

[cyndaquil]

Behind their backs?

Yeah sometime but they do the same to me
But we only roast each other to our other mutual friends

 

[Wild self]

This! Dee blocking 'friends' are the worst HATER. They'll take years off your life-you only see them when you're in a world of ishyt and they're openly clowning you. I had a 'buddy' like this for a decade (I swear I'm too nice!). I wised up late 2011 and said,"nikka,lose my number,never call me ever again." You must be firm dealing with haters-YOU OWE THEM, NOTHING.
Its not just women-they'll go out of their way to talk ishyt to your face or behind your back.

I did that in late 2010, almost the same scenario. Had a group where this one smooth looking dude always said to broads "He lame and broke" while I was working 3 jobs, trying to save some money. He bagged broads, and told other broads not to talk to me. Jokes on him, cause I now got an IRA and a personal savings account that greatly surpasses his

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Another kind of person to stay away from: people who have no kind of discretion or tact. The type that will blurt out something to you in public "you're getting fat" "you're broke" etc or making other type inappropriate remarks as if they're children.

- people who have no kind of home training. Leaving unfinished drinks in the car,leaving their stuff around your place etc.

- people who don't take shyt seriously. Everything's a joke to them.

Having a sense of humor is top tier. Of course show engagement when reality hits the fan otherwise nobody is trying to deal with a debbie downer that's provides no value no support no enthusiasm towards their friends.

 

[Unknown Poster]

They talk shyt on your dreams, goals, and aspirations.

They try to break you down to build themselves up.

They never want to see you rise above their level.

They always want to be in your business, but they NEVER want you anywhere near theirs.

They always want to hold something, but when you ask them for just a $5 they ready to fight

When you trying to get at a woman you've been feeling, instead of giving you tips and game, they just say it ain't gonna happen or try to sabotage your whole damn interaction.

They don't understand why you like what you like or what you do what you do, they just think it's weird cause they don't like it.

 

[Womb Raider]

Entitlement. People really show their ass when you get a new job or house with multiple rooms. Can’t let entitled ass people get too close.

 

[Complexion]

How many of you are truly friends to your Self?

Marinate on that one because you may think you think you are but are you really?


They say the enemy without can never injure if there first wasn't the same within...

 

[PHamm]

Another kind of person to stay away from: people who have no kind of discretion or tact. The type that will blurt out something to you in public "you're getting fat" "you're broke" etc or making other type inappropriate remarks as if they're children.

- people who have no kind of home training. Leaving unfinished drinks in the car,leaving their stuff around your place etc.

- people who don't take shyt seriously. Everything's a joke to them.

Preach

 

[semicko82]

How many of you are truly friends to your Self?

Marinate on that one because you may think you think you are but are you really?


They say the enemy without can never injure if there first wasn't the same within...

 

[Jean Jacket]

Vital thread.