Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..

BaldingSoHard

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WOMEN WERE CREATED TO SUBMIT THO

THATS WHY THEY THE ONES WHO BEND OVER N GET FUCCED WHILE WE THE ONES DOIN THE FUCCIN

ITS IN THEIR NATURE

IF U BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN BEIN SIBMISSIVE ISNT THE BUSINESS, THEN U LET SOCIETY DO A NUMBER ON UR MIND.


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Where a breh wanting a woman who shops alone becomes a question of his manhood.

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Agree to disagree.

My mother was my father's equal. She's a bad mf'er. I'm not settling for a woman who isn't at least as good as me. Not necessarily in the same ways, but she has to bring something to the table other than p*ssy and noise. They're out there.
How is she his equal? Not trying to be funny or anything this is a genuine question.
 

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Women People naturally want a leader bruh.

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But yeah, most women want a dude who knows where he's going and is capable and willing to lead. If you do that the way you should and you're dealing with a decent chick, it's in their nature to submit to you, at least on some levels.

I'm not a bytch ass who wants / needs a submissive female. I need an equal. I want a woman who knows what she wants to do, but has the situational awareness to know damn well that I don't wanna do that shyt and the wherewithal to do it on her own.

How are you defining submissive? I don't think there's anything wrong with a submissive chick

I think people tend to confuse girls that may lack in intelligence, have no backbone at all, and are not able to contribute ideas or anything of general value to the relationship with submissive women. Those attributes can be attributed to a "strong independent" woman just as much as a submissive woman. And there are women that can be deemed submissive that make great partners and don't have any of those traits.

Rejecting women across the board with submissive tendencies is an L imo. Cooperative tendencies are a positive sign for me.
 
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You have to end up doing that going shopping together shyt or eventually another dude will do it for you. I know from experience.

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Who gives a fukk. Plenty more fish in the sea. She probably would've fukked dude anyway had you gone shopping. Y'all gotta stop being pussies out here. All that programming is fukking men up.
 

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How is she his equal? Not trying to be funny or anything this is a genuine question.

They met at Columbia in medical school. They both graduated same year. He is a general (gastrointestinal) surgeon, she is an ophthalmologist.

He got into Columbia despite his grades being shytty (undergrad GPA of like 2.1) on an affirmative action scholarship because his father knew the admissions director (nepotism). She finished undergrad in 3 years and got in because her grades were stellar without... taking... the.... MCAT as a black woman in the 1960's.

Early in their marriage, he opened a private practice. She went into business with a partner. He was the breadwinner for, maybe, the first 25 years.

She parlayed her experience to one of the larger healthcare providers in the country. As his career started to stagnate, hers skyrocketed.

She became the breadwinner. Never gave him a hard time, never emasculated him, never even mentioned his earnings. All while cooking his meals and raising his kids.

Their marriage has been... rocky... cause pops had a problem keeping his dikk in his pants. She stayed by his side, cause she chose to be committed to him, while paying (most) of the bills, doing financial planning, and still cooking dinner every night.

Few years back, pops had open heart surgery. She sought out the best surgeons in the state... arranged all of his appointments, ensured his pee-surgery diet was what it should be, took care of him while he was in the ICU, etc... etc... etc...

Now, at the twilight of their careers, she's making 400k, he's basically barely keeping the lights on to his practice because she funnels money into his business to keep it afloat.

She has never said a word to him about "not being the man of the house" or anything like that. She's just a bad mf'er who is committed to her marriage. This comes directly from my father's mouth.

...all while cooking dinner, every single night, for the last 47 years.

Ya'll want a submissive woman, go for it. I'm holding out for that shyt ^^^.
 

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How are you defining submissive? I don't think there's anything wrong with a submissive chick

I think people tend to confuse girls that may lack in intelligence, have no backbone at all, and are not being able to contribute ideas or anything of general value to the relationship with submissive women. Those attributes can be attributed to a "strong independent" woman just as much as a submissive woman. And there are women that can be deemed submissive that make great partners and don't have any of those traits.

Rejecting women across the board with submissive tendencies is an L imo. Cooperative tendencies are a positive sign for me.

Agreed there's nothing wrong with submissive women, it's just not for me.

I define submissive woman as someone who is willing to sacrifice her happiness for mine. That type of shyt is secretly going to build resentment over the years.

What I want is a woman who can see when our desires are mutually exclusive, and decides to go and gets that shyt on her own independent of me or what I want. At the same time, a woman who isn't going to break down into tears if I etch out a modicum of happiness w/o her being involved.

It's actually not really about submissiveness as much as it is about dependence. I need an independent woman. A woman who doesn't need me, but wants me anyway. That's the shyt right there.
 
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They met at Columbia in medical school. They both graduated same year. He is a general (gastrointestinal) surgeon, she is an ophthalmologist.

He got into Columbia despite his grades being shytty (undergrad GPA of like 2.1) on an affirmative action scholarship because his father knew the admissions director (nepotism). She finished undergrad in 3 years and got in because her grades were stellar without... taking... the.... MCAT as a black woman in the 1960's.

Early in their marriage, he opened a private practice. She went into business with a partner. He was the breadwinner for, maybe, the first 25 years.

She parlayed her experience to one of the larger healthcare providers in the country. As his career started to stagnate, hers skyrocketed.

She became the breadwinner. Never gave him a hard time, never emasculated him, never even mentioned his earnings. All while cooking his meals and raising his kids.

Their marriage has been... rocky... cause pops had a problem keeping his dikk in his pants. She stayed by his side, cause she chose to be committed to him, while paying (most) of the bills, doing financial planning, and still cooking dinner every night.

Few years back, pops had open heart surgery. She sought out the best surgeons in the state... arranged all of his appointments, ensured his pee-surgery diet was what it should be, took care of him while he was in the ICU, etc... etc... etc...

Now, at the twilight of their careers, she's making 400k, he's basically barely keeping the lights on to his practice because she funnels money into his business to keep it afloat.

She has never said a word to him about "not being the man of the house" or anything like that. She's just a bad mf'er who is committed to her marriage. This comes directly from my father's mouth.

...all while cooking dinner, every single night, for the last 47 years.

Ya'll want a submissive woman, go for it. I'm holding out for that shyt ^^^.
NO offense breh but it honestly sounds like your mother is getting the short end of this deal.
 
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