Rich black man explains to poor black man why he needs to pay 100% of the bills. Is he speaking facts?

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Sure is. You have more power than you think. You lack game and were doing too much. Take it on the chin and learn the lessons instilled rather than bytch. Why would you as a man ever move in to a woman's space? Buying all the bills for a woman that's not your wife? Why? This generation has so much backwards.
She moved into my place.
What are you talking about?
Has nothing to do with game.
 

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Ay...just hit me up when y'all done w/ this BS. I'm fina run it up real quick and get on some b!+çhê$.

*Sees a phat ass walk by*

Ay mamas, come check it out real quick! :myman:


*Follows aforementioned buttocks*
 

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So glad my girl isn’t insane and she makes six figures and still does what she as a woman should do :blessed:

These threads and similar convos online and IRL always depress me:francis:
 

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Sorry, read it wrong and it is absolutely tied to game. Game is knowledge. Letting a woman live with you and paying all her bills when she has not earned that position is dangerous.
she had done stuff to earn it to be honest. she had serious skin in the game but thats neither here nor there lol
I took an L and will learn from it. simple as that. She took an L too all things considered
 

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This is only an online topic. Most families cannot afford a single bread winner to take care of all the financial responsibilities

Tell that to,@Peachstate who believes that men gotta pay 100% of everything to be cooperative
 
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IMO, a man should live within his means. If a man can afford to pay 100% of the finances and chooses to do so, then cool.

But, that doesn't make him more of a man than someone who is paying half or 2/3rds of the expenses.

Where I live, I suspect that the average couple is sharing expenses @ varying percentages. It is difficult for a family to live on one income in certain cities & states.

All I know is that I am not gonna pay for everything and I am not the only person working! All able bodied adults who live with me gonna pay something!

Because if I have to work everyday or almost everyday to pay for everything, then we aren't going anywhere! No trips! No mini vacations, no big weekly eating out, nothing! *shrugs*

A woman who wanna stay at home can do so with someone willing to provide that lifestyle for her. Isn't gonna be me! *shrugs*
 

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Tell that to,@Peachstate who believes that men gotta pay 100% of everything to be cooperative

The guy on the left wasn't wrong. That man's woman doesn't respect him. He said she works 16 hours a day, cooks every day, cleans, and takes care of the kids, and he makes $14 an hour and has no plan to do better.

I know it's not realistic for ALL men to pay 100%, but there's gotta be a happy medium for couples like that. She's miserable. He talking about "we're in the trenches." That's for men at war, not the woman you claim to love.
 

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I'll go 100% of the bills if she's 100% submissive
Exactly

At that point don’t argue or have any wants. You’re basically a child

If my income pays everything and hits every tax required, and we still live comfortably, you can’t really tell me shyt unless it’s extremely important :yeshrug:

This is how those dudes think which I think it’s funny how women really want those kinda dudes then literally complain in the relationship. You’re living for free at that point
 
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