Rich black man explains to poor black man why he needs to pay 100% of the bills. Is he speaking facts?

[Kasher Juan]

Get this cuck shyt outta here.

 

[Richard Glidewell]

Paying 100 percent of the bills and getting fractional shares of the p*ssy.......never fails........he think that money makes him immune.........

 

[Gloxina]

The guy on the left wasn't wrong. That man's woman doesn't respect him. He said she works 16 hours a day, cooks every day, cleans, and takes care of the kids, and he makes $14 an hour and has no plan to do better.

I know it's not realistic for ALL men to pay 100%, but there's gotta be a happy medium for couples like that. She's miserable. He talking about "we're in the trenches." That's for men at war, not the woman you claim to love.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Exactly

At that point don’t argue or have any wants. You’re basically a child

If my income pays everything and hits every tax required, and we still live comfortably, you can’t really tell me shyt unless it’s extremely important

This is how those dudes think which I think it’s funny how women really want those kinda dudes then literally complain in the relationship. You’re living for free at that point

He treats me like a child.

He never lets me do what I wanna do.

Aye, you asked for that environment.

 

[Shadow King]

Right. I don’t understand why a man would be expected to pay all the bills for a GF. So you should move in together and cover the whole household?

2023 numbers.
2/2 apartment $1800
Electric $200
Internet $75
Gas $150
Phone $125
Insurance. $250

Thats $2600 a month. You save on insurance and phone. Do you expect me to feed you as well and pay for dates? Hair and nails as well?

I’m assuming these discussions are referencing those who date.

Coli women, do expect your boyfriend to pay all of that? What are you doing with you money for this “group” economics situation?

@Studious one
@Gloxina
@Booksnrain
@HarlemHottie
@RehReh


I’m glad I’m not in these streets.

But, honestly if I was making what I’m making now and brought a woman in, I’d pay all of that.

Don’t ask me for hair and nails money. I’m not paying your debt nor car note. We splitting all dates money. I’ll provide all the food for the household within a reasonable budget.

You will not be on my lease nor will you get any mail sent to my place. That’s how we move until you prove to me you would be a worthy Wife, mother of my children, and partner in life.

 

[David_TheMan]

Lol, if you are married of course you pay 100 percent it's all coming from the same pot.

That said, if it's a date, no don't pay 100 percent for a chick on the first date.

Not wise

As for the shaming language the rich guy is using that alone should let you know you should disregard or take with a heavy grain of salt anything he says.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I'm not watching that dumbass video.

It's 2023 not 1954. Women work now too. Any woman who expects you to pay all bills is lazy AF, doesn't love you; and doesn't understand math; since it isn't even feasible anymore.

She also doesn't GAF about her kids because clearly you can do more for them with 2 salaries vs one.

Edit: Also men can't be out here demanding "submission" from someone who works just like he does. Men ought to be looking for mutual respect and helping with domestic duties.

 

[re'up]

This is poisonous stuff.

I feel like half these conversations didn't even exist before social media.

You just met someone and if you vibed you dated.

Now you gotta meet 25 requirements just for a woman to consider dating you

Only online of course

very observent and true, waiitng for a book with in depth exploration on these kinds of dynamics.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

All women care about is money. She wants all of yours while spending none of hers.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Sorry, read it wrong and it is absolutely tied to game. Game is knowledge. Letting a woman live with you and paying all her bills when she has not earned that position is dangerous.

He did actually everything that looked perfect on paper and still lost

 

[Umoja]

Riddle me this.

Why is it always "My man needs to pay all of the bills" not "My man pays all the bills"


Believe it or not, most women have their head screwed on tight when it comes to these things. I've only encountered this "maintain me" type behaviour from women with rich dad's or women who run a small business (catering, cleaning, selling cheap gems).

 

[Umoja]

Here’s the deal- your fathers were MARRIED MEN with a PLAN. Any smart woman would appreciate that and ride with them.

When you look around the community right now, we don’t have married men with a plan building with wives. We have serial babydaddies and babymommas with separate households. And then we have childless people being influenced by scarred fools on social media.


No one cares if you’re 27 making 45k married to a woman who is 25 making 43k. You’re married and committed to building with each other!

The problems arise when you’re 27 saying you aren’t ready for marriage but have a babymomma you aren’t even living with. Or when a chick is talking about her standards and what she deserves while spreading her legs for a man who wouldn’t even fill up her tank.

The other issue is that there are women who are down with men in the beginning who get left when that man gets the new/better job because now he has “outgrown” her (I.e. she doesn’t look like someone on his level). Some women are “in the trenches” with a $14/hr guy like the one in the video and get left behind when he elevates.

What a surprise to see you in here talking shyt.

Eat a dikk. The numbers show that we don't have serial baby daddies. It is some shyt like 1 in 10 black men accounting for the kids in single parent homes. Why don't you shove that up your fat ass and fukk off

 

[Hawala Man]

My last girlfriend moved in with me from another country last yr.

Out of genuine kindness and selflessness I did everything a man is "supposed to do"

Told her she could live with me
I offered to pay all the bills til she finished her english classes and got a job. She said she wanted to pay sumn though, so I paid 80% of all the bills approx.
Paid for a significant portion of the english classes
I helped her with her homework for said lessons
I would pay for almost all the dates
I got her resume up to the Toronto standard
Would send her jobs to apply to and try to connect her to ppl for future HR roles
fukked her good

etc etc.

That didnt stop her from driving me crazy with her dissatisfaction. That didnt stop her from being uncooperative. It didnt seem to earn me any extra bit of respect/appreciation.

Any man who thinks a man's "job" is to pay for everything in 2023 is a sucka. Its that simple. This aint the 50s.

Sounds like you were a steeping stool for a chick looking for a come up. You never made her earn shyt and women who get stuff for free never respect a man 100%. You got played for a sucka and she took full advantage when she saw that you were giving her the easy ride.

If you would've told her role and laid down the law from the get go you wouldn't have wasted all that time and go through that "uncooperative" stuff you spoke of.

You played stupid games and found out..

 

[Ohene]

Sounds like you were a steeping stool for a chick looking for a come up. You never made her earn shyt and women who get stuff for free never respect a man 100%. You got played for a sucka and she took full advantage when she saw that you were giving her the easy ride.

If you would've told her role and laid down the law from the get go you wouldn't have wasted all that time and go through that "uncooperative" stuff you spoke of.

You played stupid games and found out..

She fukked herself over as well
Eventually had to go back to her home country and start over

 

[Buzzed Lightyear]

This lil scamming nıgga Yoda wild as hell. I dug up one of his old posts from well before he jumped in Derrick Jaxn's lane back when he was on the pro-black/health tip. So I hit his inbox up & quoted it because he contradicting himself & next thing you know he added it to his next caption.