Breh real time =/= all time. DMX was a lot of people's favorite rapper in real time. By 2006, people had moved on. You rarely see X in many of these Top 10 lists these days. In 1998-2001 when X was hot, you were called into question if he was left out. Now, nit so much.
In regard to Missy, people did in fact talk about Missy's album. They might not have been discussed in your circle, but they were discussed. I've NEVER had anyone offline tell me how dope Mobb Deep albums were. I discovered their .usic on my own. No knock against them, but I wouldn't say they weren't discussed just because I didn't gear or see it.
And just to put this dumb gay men and women argument to rest. There's a lot of men who listen to Missy who aren't gay. Mike Tyson had her listed in his top MC's list. As far as we know, he isn't gay. I'm not gay and I listen to Missy. There's gay men who love Mobb Deep. So what's your point. Just say you don't like Missy and keep it moving.