Save up $45k just to have your wife spend it all on her student loans behind your back brehs

[SadimirPutin]

They are married?

This is an idoitic post to put men against women shocker.

The minute u married her that debt is urs and Vice versa.

Should she have talked it thru yes but u don't divorce or things like this.

complete and utter nonsense

 

[Turbulent]

Too late to divorce her. Just start building again.

it's never too late to divorce a woman who acts like the enemy.

 

[UpAndComing]

Anyone in this thread who doesnt reply with Murder is a softie

 

[Turbulent]

GET MARRIED BREHS #GMB

Massive L he took here.

It's not like he can get it back so I'm not sure it's worth divorcing her.

At the same time, someone as reckless as her, there's no telling what she'll do next

see y'all are thinking about it from the wrong side. it's not about getting the money back. that money is gone. make peace with that fact.

it's really about making sure you don't get bitten again by the snake living under your roof, sleeping in your bed. she's already proven what she's capable of. if you stay with her and get fukked up again, i'm not even blaming her at that point...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Divorce

Actions have consequences. She has to pay the price

 

[Turbulent]

That's a "cut her ass off" level violation. You sit her down, explain that you are now in charge of finances, you take her check and deal with HER money as well as yours, and she's on an allowance. Non-negotiable. If you're ready to divorce her over it, then that's an ultimatum level offense.

with the way society and courts are today, you'd probably get accused of psychological violence, brainwashing, coercing, manipulation, etc. Once you get married, you don't really regulate your household. the government does. you just have the illusion that you regulate.

 

[Turbulent]

i mean, shyt. if she is paying off her own personal debt, a divorce is exactly what she wants. he needs to stay with her instead, LOL

divorce is still his best option at this point whether it's what she wants or not. Not divorcing her just because it's what she wants means you're still letting her actions and motives control your life.

 

[dakidblu]

"Bae ... what happened to all the money in the account? ... YOU PAID OFF YOUR STUDENT LOANS??? "

You aint shyt bro

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Story is

The entitled reactions are not.
You also wouldn't be saying this if it was a dude who "took" the money.
You'd be in here volunteering to

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

She did him dirty.

^ This is why I'm leaning towards divorce

He really can't trust that ho

If she'll do that then ..what else will she do

 

[Cynic]

High absence of female participation in this thread.

I wonder why

 

[Larry Lambo]

There's really nothing you can do except bounce.

Can't get your money back, can't beat her ass.

Just take your L and move the f**k on. She caught u slipping.

 

[George Gooney]

I'd pretty much murder her.

 

[Yogi]

WHAT?!!?

Oh yeah. And she was fukking the personal trainer that he was paying for.

 

[Gold]

He's stupid in mixing his dough with hers

I dont see it that way

But he might agree with you being down 45k