"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

[Wiseborn]

And I get that.


What I’m saying is a breh can say fukk it and just date younger Black women who get it and don’t have baggage.


But instead of that, this is used as an excuse to date the rainbow.


“The dark skinned girls who were around me when I didn’t have anything didn’t want me back then, so now all I’m dating are light skinned, mixed or other races now that I’m up”. When all them other girls were curving you in your youth as well!

I'm already invested in this shyt.

But if Darkskinned baddie curved holmes in the 6th grade then holmes has the right to curve her when she's 35.


I mean unless you're talking arranged marriages people have the right to be goofy about colorism and it's on them to judge people on the content of their character. If an ugly gang baller fukks up with his preference he loses money look at Tyreek Hill.

 

[GR13]

Damn these phones.

I open YT and this is the first “short” that pops up lmao

Umar babbel doesn't hold up to the pressure of prime white woman

 

[Wiseborn]

Neither do we, but you know that's not the answer. Let's list all the ways "black American" (your term) men fail to be attractive in the marriage market, since you like to be so blunt and all. Bet you won't.

And I'm just as hard on bytches, ftr.

shyt who'se saying Black Men is perfect?

I use Black American because it's a term that a FBA person would accept over say African American

But you know I'm in the Pan Africanist camp, but I'm not opposed to the FBA movement.

To me the worse thing is to be a hypocrite to your own Beliefs like Oshay Duke Jackson.

 

[Piff Perkins]

It's the result of assimilation into a white supremacist world/ economy.

It's counterinsurgency. Eliminate the men and assimilate the women and children. They want black men dead or in jail, and a certain subset of black women are more than willing to justify this with academic, identity-based reasoning. Add in the academic study of power being inherently white male driven, and it's no surprise they want to align themselves with white men to gain it. I guess that explains the anger towards white women too. A white man dating/marrying a white woman is one less opportunity for a black woman to attain power.

 

[Wiseborn]

About what in particular? Pawging? I usually 'let' yall enjoy your safe space, but this instance was so... ugh... I had to say something.

I don't understand the second bold. Is that a sm personality?
I don't agree, nor have I ever stated, anything close to whatever that was at the end. As a KS fan, I could never.

Yes I was saying you don't trip off the wierd Pawg thread and If I could see these random ass basic beckies these nikkas is posting I know you see it. So of them are below mid.

Same thing I was supposed to stay out of these threads but it was so weird I crashed.


There's the obvious New Yorker Accountable Commentary who's on that Don't fukk with keisha shyt. He esposes The Reachback when supposedly Black women will come to their senses that brad ain't checking of them and they'll come back to "productive Black Men"

aka the Clean up Man or Simp daddy

What I'm saying is yes it's weird to assume that Black Men are gonna stop dealing with Black women enmasse and vice versa.


Yes this internet shyt makes people make weird ass assumptions, Same thing with Passport bros listen to Internet nikkas they'll tell you that any day now all non Pookie Black Men will move to the DR en masse. In reality 600,000 Black Men have passports out of 20 million so I reaally doubt that the Compound or whatever club in Atlanta is not gonna be filled with Black Men anytime soon.

 

[Uchiha God]

It's counterinsurgency. Eliminate the men and assimilate the women and children. They want black men dead or in jail, and a certain subset of black women are more than willing to justify this with academic, identity-based reasoning. Add in the academic study of power being inherently white male driven, and it's no surprise they want to align themselves with white men to gain it. I guess that explains the anger towards white women too. A white man dating/marrying a white woman is one less opportunity for a black woman to attain power.

 

[Houston911]

Embarrassing

Some people just shouldn’t talk

 

[Gloxina]

I'm already invested in this shyt.

But if Darkskinned baddie curved holmes in the 6th grade then holmes has the right to curve her when she's 35.


I mean unless you're talking arranged marriages people have the right to be goofy about colorism and it's on them to judge people on the content of their character. If an ugly gang baller fukks up with his preference he loses money look at Tyreek Hill.

Of course! So go get the 30 or 28YO DS baddie is my point. Dudes use one silly brehette from 6th grade as the reason to bush all of them at 27.

 

[Wiseborn]

My algorithm is totally different than yours, I suspect. The only women I got are either gardening, sewing. talking about hair, or talking about history/ religion/ current events with their heads covered. The gardening and sewing girls are hit or miss, but I unsub if I see a wm or mixed kids.

You don't think high schoolers listen to the same music as their friends? My music collection in hs was very eclectic. I liked white bytches who could sing so I had the og Celine Dion and Shania Twain. I had both the Clueless and Grease soundtracks. (My roomie loved Le Mis, so I know all that shyt too.) I liked rap and spoke french, so I listened to Les Nubiennes. I still had, and rocked out to, Motown's greatest hits compilations, Mary and Jodeci, Wu Tang and Big and Pun, etc, Did you talk to them enough to know if they listened to anything else?


I'ma keep it a bean. I think that your vast and varied life experiences gave you a poor opinion of the women most likely to be exploited the worst and/ or the most desperate for that bread (hint: the very same women who have always been in that position in this country and had to do what they had to do, selling cat, whatever).

When we were still speaking, I told the stripper the same shyt about her opinion on bm. You can't have that experience and come out unscathed. Its a seedy world where you see the worst of ppl on a daily, just at the job on a Thursday. That has to have long term consequences on how you see the world.

RIP to your cousin, breh.

You got to have the context of Chocalate city in the 90's. Looking back I didn't know how lucky I was to grow up there you almost never saw any white people I don't want to say where I grew up but every school fukk it I think all Junior high and blowshools in DC where named after Black people. I went to Ballou who was a white person but he was some civil rights dude like Spingarn High was named after the Jewish dude that has the name of the medal that the NAACP gives you

I thought the Black National Anthem was the National Anthem obviously those Black school admintrators was on timing

So in that context you Roll out to the GoGo You live in a neighborhood where as soon as you see a white boy you know he has to be a cop. All your teachers all your doctors are Black and to be a little funny you turn on the one country station one time and think this song is alraight.

As opposed to girls who lived West of the Park and they went into NKOTB and it hit different and I still graviated to the Black kids in the class as opposed to the few white kids.


As far as the Underground shyt absolutely it colored my thinking but Only fans really done it you can't play the Poor desparate hood rat on OF because none of those girls make money it's the failed tennis "stars" that make money That was a long thread too but nikkas was in there asking the questions that I asked P.G, County Norfolk State grads what the fukk where they doing in the club?

And the worse it all of them said without saying is a hoe is gonna be a hoe The girl I'm talking about later when on to be a big time escort to white dudes and the wild thing is she looked vaguely like this girl and her FBA ass pretended that she was Kenyan to get the white boys to break bread.

That's whole nother topic is FBA women pretending to be tethers to appeal to white boys because a Black American no matter her education and background was seen as less than someone from a third world country.

The fake Kenyan is married to another Black American now she could reachback because she was smart enough not to do porn.

 

[Wiseborn]

My algorithm is totally different than yours, I suspect. The only women I got are either gardening, sewing. talking about hair, or talking about history/ religion/ current events with their heads covered. The gardening and sewing girls are hit or miss, but I unsub if I see a wm or mixed kids.

You don't think high schoolers listen to the same music as their friends? My music collection in hs was very eclectic. I liked white bytches who could sing so I had the og Celine Dion and Shania Twain. I had both the Clueless and Grease soundtracks. (My roomie loved Le Mis, so I know all that shyt too.) I liked rap and spoke french, so I listened to Les Nubiennes. I still had, and rocked out to, Motown's greatest hits compilations, Mary and Jodeci, Wu Tang and Big and Pun, etc, Did you talk to them enough to know if they listened to anything else?


I'ma keep it a bean. I think that your vast and varied life experiences gave you a poor opinion of the women most likely to be exploited the worst and/ or the most desperate for that bread (hint: the very same women who have always been in that position in this country and had to do what they had to do, selling cat, whatever).

When we were still speaking, I told the stripper the same shyt about her opinion on bm. You can't have that experience and come out unscathed. Its a seedy world where you see the worst of ppl on a daily, just at the job on a Thursday. That has to have long term consequences on how you see the world.

RIP to your cousin, breh.

My Play cousin... God bless the dead was an a$$hole. He carjacked his real cousin "by mistake" nikka knew the other cousin had the white MPV and still ran up on him. If it was ever someone who had it comming.... To show what he did to get nikkas that mad they beat him then shot him they had to hide the body so it was a cold case being that his father was a cop.

 

[Wiseborn]

Embarrassing.

There is a very large contingent of women whose mental health, self confidence and self worth are heavily based on their sexual access to others - in this case particular, white men. A few days ago we witnessed meltdowns online from two groups: lesbians who were upset Taylor is marrying a man, and black women who were upset that a white man (Kelce) is marrying a white woman. Both groups spent weirdly unhealthy amounts of time living within a delusional alternative reality based entirely on sex. Those who think Taylor Swift is secretly gay, and those who think any high profile white man who dates a black woman is a civil rights leader comparable to MLK - until he dares date a white woman, at which point he is a traitor.

If these were simply personal failures on the part of these people, we could ignore it or be entertained by it. But this nonsense has real world consequences. The obsession with white men, the insane idea that only black men practice colorism against black women...these are all perceived sins that black boys and men are collectively punished for when these women get into academia. Or HR departments. Or law enforcement. Or healthcare. Meanwhile it doesn't matter how many white men reject these types of women - they will always give white men a last chance, hoping that someday their prince will come.

One final thing...this is NOT black women exclusive. Listen to how these weird race/gender grad student chicks talk. Whether they are Indian, Asian, Arab...there's a common theme of them rejecting their men and obsessing over white men. They assume the worst of their race's men while giving every benefit of the doubt to white men. Never forget this dynamic. Every non-white ethnic group of men is dealing with this poison in America.

I'd low key say that Asians are the worst it's just Black women are more vocal about it.

To bothsides it Tommy Sotomayor says wilder shyt about Black women than regular red pillers say about white women.

 

[Wiseborn]

Because the foreigners on here defend their c00ns regardless. Yes, the issue should be discussed. No, not in mixed company. Would you say all this in an explicitly white space? No, right?

This, btw, is how African women got in our ear about colorism. It was always an issue percolating in the background, ofc, but the post 2000 explosion is externally derived, mostly bc the foreign girls felt some type of way about not being chosen by FBA men. So they started a conveniently vague movement to mobilize us against them. Yall might think it worked from your side, but those articles and think pieces done died down, ain't they? Try that shyt now that we (trynna get) on code.

I also think that a good proportion of passport bros are comfortable hopping from country to country bc that's what they were doing anyway. The only one I ever knew irl was a swagless Jamaican who chased bk badgyals until they wore his ass out.

maybe as a Man I knew nothing about this war between Black women

 

[HarlemHottie]

I get what you’re saying, but this is damn near the only (mostly) black site on the internet. And I think the problem is actually there are hella BW nowadays that does what ol girl in the OP just did on camera/Social Media ie in white spaces and the clips/posts go extremely viral; to the point where it’s even getting called out by White People. Like it’s one thing to like what you like, but it’s a way you go about it without it giving other ppl from your race Second hand embarrassment.

I'm not disagreeing at all. My only point is, we're all responsible for our c00ns and we must manage them wisely. Having the conversation here ain't it. It too easily turns into 'black Americans do this,' as you can see in this very thread. Did we forget about Brick Lady? The foreign flags attached to all the 'Black Men are the White Men of Black People'? Why must we discuss our business in the street? They're not.

When we point out their c00ns, they fight you tooth and nail all over sm. They show in-group solidarity. Seem like we still got a lot of nikkas who ain't pick up on the game yet.

@KidJSoul, This is for you too. The only time I mentioned the c00n in op being protected was in reference to her damn daddy. I'm speaking to the wider image of bw, the same way I defend yalls image.

 

[Wiseborn]

Damn these phones.

I open YT and this is the first “short” that pops up lmao

Is this A.I. I can't see white amerikka allowing a Black Man to curve a white girl especially one super thirsty for him.

 

[HarlemHottie]

maybe as a Man I knew nothing about this war between Black women

That's fair, but now that you know, will you look out for it? Possibly soften your rhetoric towards your sisters based on new information?

(Again, NOT the bytch in op. Fukk her.).