"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

[capt_saveahoe]

So you had a bevy of white, Hispanic and Asian girls who locked in on you because of your potential, but you curved them all because you were waiting for a Black girl?!

So now you’re open for business for all races instead of just…focusing on Black women who are in their “prime”?

this isn't really uncommon. When I think of black women having no game, I say it in the context of black women not valuing potential in black men at an early age. If you do not fit a certain archetype or look black women aren't interested. This changes with age but then you are dealing with broken women tons of baggage looking for a savior, a "protector and provider"

 

[High Art]

They like light skin too but its a subset of white men that go crazy for dark skin women. Even outside for regular life, look at the famous dark skin women, white men be hunting they ass down. Dolph Lungren went and got Grace Jones, Gaborey Siddbay got her was white man, Lupita the list goes on. The dark skin woman to white man pipeline has been well documented. I'm just not not seeing where a white man dating a dark skin woman is healing the world.

Yes but that subset is a lot smaller. That's how we get clips like this girl showing her mental illness. A white man is a lot more likely to try for a light-skinned white chick, bonus points if she has "european" features. I forgot what the word for it is that the whites use to signal that they just wanted a woman who is basically white, be it in skin color or features but is not white. I used to study these fukkers and long forgot the weird terms they use sometimes.

 

[Wiseborn]

So you had a bevy of white, Hispanic and Asian girls who locked in on you because of your potential, but you curved them all because you were waiting for a Black girl?!

So now you’re open for business for all races instead of just…focusing on Black women who are in their “prime”?

non Black women were around but I kinda choose not to be around them.

We could completely disagree on everything but the second you go into that mixed club you made a choice.

Same thing making a declaration to do something is weird no one moves like that really you can't be super pro Black to the point that you notice that usually they captialize white and lower case Black.

But I cannot deny reality either I deal with a Black woman here and best believe I got to compete with every other Man.

In America a tell is a Black woman who favorite singer is non Black, My ex's favorite singer is Romeo Santos the epidome of the spicy brehito.

I'm booless but not bunless so if a random venezulean spicey cac gives me motion and I eat I'm not getting the Umar stamp of approval by saying I'm just fukking. So if she's good enough to smash she's good enough to be given a title.

really unlikely I'll end of with a non Black woman though.

Last FBA I dated was the same age as me and she was kinda unstable.

 

[Gloxina]

this isn't really uncommon. When I think of black women having no game, I say it in the context of black women not valuing potential in black men at an early age. If you do not fit a certain archetype or look black women aren't interested. This changes with age but then you are dealing with broken women tons of baggage looking for a savior, a "protector and provider"

And I get that.


What I’m saying is a breh can say fukk it and just date younger Black women who get it and don’t have baggage.


But instead of that, this is used as an excuse to date the rainbow.


“The dark skinned girls who were around me when I didn’t have anything didn’t want me back then, so now all I’m dating are light skinned, mixed or other races now that I’m up”. When all them other girls were curving you in your youth as well!

 

[HarlemHottie]

She’s trying to respond to that, but this isn’t the way to do it.

I’ve had white women try to play like they must be prettier than me cuz they were white, until their asses realized I wasn’t wearing makeup and my blemish and wrinkle-free skin was natural.


Literally had a white woman look at me and a Black doctor and say “Wait you guys aren’t wearing foundation?!” at work once. We both looked at her, looked at each other, and looked back at her like “what? No hahaha”. And she sat there looking stuck.


White women try to play stupid games with Black women but you have to be around them enough to know what it is and not feed into it, or be petty in your own way.

Someone like Lori Harvey wouldn’t have a bunch of white women questioning her beauty to this extent, but even if she did she’d play it differently than this girl because she’d recognize it for what it is and make them look silly.
Being interviewed by a white woman and telling her that ppl don’t expect you to be desired by a white man is insane.

All of this!

I was at a work event with SO when this chubby, very well connected (in ways I can't even get into, but shyt was deep, hence her cockines) Jewish girl tried to play me. Me: slim thick, a sun kissed goddess vs a short limbed descendent of neanderthals. Hating like a mf.

Our guys, co workers, were talking and I mentioned something about the p.i.t.a it was to get my hair blown out that day cuz my usual girl wasn't there. She responded by mentioning the blow out kinda loud, ngl, and saying some dumb shyt, but in a 'cute' way. Matching energy, I was like, "Girl, looking at them roots, I know you're VERY familiar with a blow out. "

When I tell you them wp around us snickered! Cuz they didn't like the bytch neither!

 

[Wiseborn]

You don't think we all come across sm tales of the fukkedupness of bp everyday.

I'm starting to think that's the point of sm and everybody else is in on it.

In highschool, I wrote an article in the school paper about interracial dating. My feelings havent changed, tbh, but that's not why I mention it. It was so weird bc the white people was really trynna argue me down. Racist wp, mind you, in the town where I was first called n****r, and where they'd held klan marches a scant 20 yrs prior. It was hilarious. They hate not being wanted.

I'm glad we have people like you to make sure their self esteem stays high. All they have to do is idly peruse sm and we got bp jumping out the gd window to get at them.

You might got a point on the Sm thing. I don't know if it would better if I beleived that Black women just didn't engage in IR. Even though when I went to the only mixed high school in DC there were two Black girls way into New Kids on the Block.

Every chick I knew listened to New Edition.


But c'mon I worked at a underground club at 19 and they way I talk it seems like I beleive all girls are like that (even though I don't)

But I like I said don't you agree that despite great parenting the kid could be a crackhead?

I had a fake cousin who's father was a cop and mom was a MPD civilian employee and he became a stick up kid and beleive me I talked to him nikka was determined even when I told him that nikkas would kill him.

I guess he found out when they found his body in the woods.

 

[TheAnointedOne]

Remember this thread?

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/i-look-at-black-women-the-same-way-i-look-at-cacs-nowadays.1097060/

 

[Gloxina]

Yes but that subset is a lot smaller. That's how we get clips like this girl showing her mental illness. A white man is a lot more likely to try for a light-skinned white chick, bonus points if she has "european" features. I forgot what the word for it is that the whites use to signal that they just wanted a woman who is basically white, be it in skin color or features but is not white. I used to study these fukkers and long forgot the weird terms they use sometimes.

This is true. That’s why someone like Meghan Markle could blend into white society easily and marry Prince Harry. British women will be quick to remind mixed women that they are still nikkas to them, but in the US it isn’t as bad. Someone who looks like Markle or Mariah Carey or Alicia Keys could just choose to associate with white society solely and they would find a dude easily because they still have white skin and look “ambiguous”. The kids they birth would basically be white.

 

[HarlemHottie]

We agree than Men and women are different. I don't want to argue and to the extent that you "get mad" ( I never heard you say anything) about pawging shyt don't matter. Accountable Commentary could say The Reachback 5million times most Black people who get married will be married to Black people and that's including Black women who are single mothers.

You got it.

About what in particular? Pawging? I usually 'let' yall enjoy your safe space, but this instance was so... ugh... I had to say something.

I don't understand the second bold. Is that a sm personality?
I don't agree, nor have I ever stated, anything close to whatever that was at the end. As a KS fan, I could never.

 

[capt_saveahoe]

And I get that.


What I’m saying is a breh can say fukk it and just date younger Black women who get it and don’t have baggage.


But instead of that, this is used as an excuse to date the rainbow.


“The dark skinned girls who were around me when I didn’t have anything didn’t want me back then, so now all I’m dating are light skinned, mixed or other races now that I’m up”. When all them other girls were curving you in your youth as well!

In my case those other girls weren't curving me, I just won't marry nonblack woman cos I dont want to deal with their families or have mixed kids. I mostly go out with black women now and it almost never go past one date or one encounter cos they aren't subtle in their attempt to be a gold digger. Other women obviously care about money and finding a guy that can provide but they aren't demanding shyt of the bat. The last black woman I went out with literally asked if I could help her get out of credit card debt on a second date.

 

[HarlemHottie]

It’s almost comical to see how theColi (and really people in general) went from denying to having to call a Spade a Spade

One very interesting thing I noticed itt is that there's no push back. We all agree she's a c00n. Both American and foreign bm all on code, right? We done got to the point itt where we reached a consensus on pg 1 and are now just talking about the wider issue.

Now lets see what they do for the next African bedwench. Foreign bm protect the hell out of theirs and, here go FBA men, can't wait to throw us under the bus in front of the same outsiders that don't think we deserve reparations. Shyt is both funny and sad.

See yall in the next pro FBA thread tho.

 

[capt_saveahoe]

Yes but that subset is a lot smaller. That's how we get clips like this girl showing her mental illness. A white man is a lot more likely to try for a light-skinned white chick, bonus points if she has "european" features. I forgot what the word for it is that the whites use to signal that they just wanted a woman who is basically white, be it in skin color or features but is not white. I used to study these fukkers and long forgot the weird terms they use sometimes.

Fax. I am not sure how the narrative of white men preferring dark skin black women became so popular. Mixed/light skinned black women date out more, they have been non-black men's preference for as long as I can remember.

 

[Gloxina]

All of this!

I was at a work event with SO when this chubby, very well connected (in ways I can't even get into, but shyt was deep, hence her cockines) Jewish girl tried to play me. Me: slim thick, a sun kissed goddess vs a short limbed descendent of neanderthals. Hating like a mf.

Our guys, co workers, were talking and I mentioned something about the p.i.t.a it was to get my hair blown out that day cuz my usual girl wasn't there. She responded by mentioning the blow out kinda loud, ngl, and saying some dumb shyt, but in a 'cute' way. Matching energy, I was like, "Girl, looking at them roots, I know you're VERY familiar with a blow out. "

When I tell you them wp around us snickered! Cuz they didn't like the bytch neither!

Exactly!!! And good for you!
See, this is the stupid stuff we have to deal with that Black men don’t see or acknowledge.

This is what the young lady is dealing with on a major scale, but she doesn’t know how to handle it!

 

[Rell84shots]

In their minds this is perfectly normal behavior, but in reality the world looks at them like they're mentally ill. Keep in mind these are the same type of women that'll go on podcasts talking about black men not protecting them. I'm actually glad that this deranged mindset is being exposed more, because delusional black men need to see what's going on in our community.

 

[Wandissimo]

One very interesting thing I noticed itt is that there's no push back. We all agree she's a c00n. Both American and foreign bm all on code, right? We done got to the point itt where we reached a consensus on pg 1 and are now just talking about the wider issue.

Now lets see what they do for the next African bedwench. Foreign bm protect the hell out of theirs and, here go FBA men, can't wait to throw us under the bus in front of the same outsiders that don't think we deserve reparations. Shyt is both funny and sad.

See yall in the next pro FBA thread tho.

Why do you feel like they’re (or we) throwing y’all under the bus?