"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

[jay83]

Also just another example of why this "colorism" debate is pointless and should be ignored or taken with a grain of salt by BM.

At the end of the day, its been revealed that some of these women really just want validation from white men over all

They literally say it out loud, very openly, unprovoked. It's to a point where even other BW have started to recognize it and can't even blame BM anymore

It’s like the far right wing dudes who talk about and shyt on gay people all the time and it turns out a year later they are in a hotel with another man having gay affairs.

These women that go super hard on black men for colorism and dating white women are literally projecting,

 

[Wiseborn]

I said trained to see you as FUTURE PRO ATHLETESbut she

Cacs don’t know which one of yall that will be so you get a chance to crack Becky because her family is telling her you might make it one day

We could go into the weeds of seeing potential clearly.

The fact is Black woman's autonomy is greatly valued, You were told to use your mind because that would sustain your autonomy when the looks fade.

Traci Ellis Ross is an old bug eyed half breed but she's stil a boss.

All I know is when I was shooting in the gym no Black woman locked in on me because of that.

white folk are kinda racist though.

 

[Wandissimo]

Yo the sole reason this is even a discussion here is because of the need for the reachback.

If Black americans moved like Latin americans and white americans didn't move like latins Black women would be overcooked.

what saves them over here is proximity ( good luck on finding a whitey in 95% Black Qiubdo) and what saves them over here is shaming Black Men and secrecy in the states.

I’m already knowing, it’s to the point where I don’t know how you could trust which one is on this type of thinking and which one is not. It’s crazy, but it’s true

 

[HarlemHottie]

I'd also say this is because a Black woman doesn't feel like she has to finesse a Black Man.

Bw (poorly) finesse bm everyday. You (pl) find yourselves unprepared for even that half-hearted guile for the reasos noted above. Imagine what a girl who was raised on this could do to you. No, don't imagine, just watch how ww divorce bm. Not that they divorced, but how they do it.

Again, be happy.

 

[Gloxina]

Yes, I feel the love.

Ftr, this type of talk is what led to bw saying the most egregious, disgusting shyt I ever heard in my life (I won't repeat it.) You're very blithely calling every FBA woman a wildebeest who can only get men through chicanery, the very worst thing you could say about a woman. Do you even realize it? What you're doing is the equivalent of FBA women broadcasting to the world that yall got internationally-ranked small peen, when we know it's not true, and no such contest has ever been held. You're debasing us in the worst way.

Some of the community is too far gone so it is what it is.

Black men who think like this should totally, totally stick with Becky and Maria because they view those women as better and more attractive than us. And that’s fine.

 

[HarlemHottie]

The fact is Black woman's autonomy is greatly valued,

And why do you think that is?

 

[Wiseborn]

Bu Yes, I feel the love.

Ftr, this type of talk is what led to bw saying the most egregious, disgusting shyt I ever heard in my life (I won't repeat it.) You're very blithely calling every FBA woman a wildebeest who can only get men through chicanery, the very worst thing you could say about a woman. Do you even realize it? What you're doing is the equivalent of FBA women broadcasting to the world that yall got internationally-ranked small peen, when we know it's not true, and no such contest has ever been held. You're debasing us in the worst way.

All I can say is as Men we say shyt in the most frank way to get our points across. but I admit it sounds fukked up.

My only excuse is that I listen to other nikkas say and provide reciepts and I never post shyt on the board like Look at this weird Black woman and I never ever suggested that nikkas big up non Black woman and I have to chill when nikkas post obviously mid Black women on this board.


But I'm a walking contradiction I beleive that Black Man is God and I say nikka 565 times a day on here.

Not perfect but striving for Pefection. I'll try harder.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Black men who think like this should totally, totally stick with Becky and Maria because they view those women as better and more attractive than us. And that’s fine.

Yep. Please go away and stay over there.

 

[Gloxina]

We could go into the weeds of seeing potential clearly.

The fact is Black woman's autonomy is greatly valued, You were told to use your mind because that would sustain your autonomy when the looks fade.

Traci Ellis Ross is an old bug eyed half breed but she's stil a boss.

All I know is when I was shooting in the gym no Black woman locked in on me because of that.

white folk are kinda racist though.

So you had a bevy of white, Hispanic and Asian girls who locked in on you because of your potential, but you curved them all because you were waiting for a Black girl?!

So now you’re open for business for all races instead of just…focusing on Black women who are in their “prime”?

 

[Wiseborn]

I’m already knowing, it’s to the point where I don’t know how you could trust which one is on this type of thinking and which one is not. It’s crazy, but it’s true

well a dude said he looks at Black women the same way he looks at cacs and got roasted I avioded that thread


but I wouldn't and don't trust white people



I also trust all people to do what's in the perecieved immediate self interest.

 

[Wiseborn]

And why do you think that is?

because a Black Man has no rights that anybody is bound to respect.

 

[HarlemHottie]

My only excuse is that I listen to other nikkas say and provide reciepts

You don't think we all come across sm tales of the fukkedupness of bp everyday.

I'm starting to think that's the point of sm and everybody else is in on it.

In highschool, I wrote an article in the school paper about interracial dating. My feelings havent changed, tbh, but that's not why I mention it. It was so weird bc the white people was really trynna argue me down. Racist wp, mind you, in the town where I was first called n****r, and where they'd held klan marches a scant 20 yrs prior. It was hilarious. They hate not being wanted.

I'm glad we have people like you to make sure their self esteem stays high. All they have to do is idly peruse sm and we got bp jumping out the gd window to get at them.

 

[HarlemHottie]

because a Black Man has no rights that anybody is bound to respect.

Neither do we, but you know that's not the answer. Let's list all the ways "black American" (your term) men fail to be attractive in the marriage market, since you like to be so blunt and all. Bet you won't.

And I'm just as hard on bytches, ftr.

 

[MarcP]

While promoting light-skinned women in all their media every chance they get contributing to the issue of colorism? Not even hating, they simply like anything with largely white or close to white features and that's light-skinned women.

They like light skin too but its a subset of white men that go crazy for dark skin women. Even outside for regular life, look at the famous dark skin women, white men be hunting they ass down. Dolph Lungren went and got Grace Jones, Gaborey Siddbay got her was white man, Lupita the list goes on. The dark skin woman to white man pipeline has been well documented. I'm just not not seeing where a white man dating a dark skin woman is healing the world.

 

[Wandissimo]

well a dude said he looks at Black women the same way he looks at cacs and got roasted I avioded that thread


but I wouldn't and don't trust white people



I also trust all people to do what's in the perecieved immediate self interest.

I try to not really comment in them threads either, I’d rather sit back and see how many people try to gaslight or outright deny the reality of how most BW truly feel about WM. It’s almost comical to see how theColi (and really people in general) went from denying to having to call a Spade a Spade