Serious Question - How do we get young black men to stop hating each other so much?

[UberEatsDriver]

2 parent household…. There’s your answer

 

[Kenny West]

Adults need to seize control of the culture. Make comradery, education, life skills, taking care of your family, handling your business cool instead of killing, trapping, scheming & scamming. Mock nikkas for wasting their lives being crashouts, peaked in high school lames, drug addicts, being deadbeats, being ignorant, being theives & criminals etc. Grown ass adults are just as big fans of the garbage as lost teenagers, often being influenced by the same shyt. Then they wake up one day at 35+ and the script flips on them: now the women want a man with his shyt together and the men want classy women. After giving props to hoes and lost nikkas the other 95% of their lives.

Also I always found it strange that in the world of stunting, the only frowned upon version of it is flaunting education or a good career.

If you get a bag via rap or committing a crime and wave the money around people in poverty: "Real nikka! "

However if you get rich via educating yourself and a career/good business that likely : " uppity negroe" " c00n/uncle tom" " This boule/bougie nikka right here.... "

To me this was always proof that media was dictating the terms of the culture. Grown folks need to be aware of whats happening and put their hands on the wheel

 

[TEH]

Gen-X started this cycle by destroying their own communities with gangbanging and selling crack. Then they started making music about gangbanging and selling crack. The damage is already done

Baby Boomers started the Gangbanging and selling crack … Gen X continued that and wrote crack raps, hymns, carols and anthems making Gen Y / Millennials want to do it too… Gen Z is now smoking taking crack equivalent shyt…

 

[BobbyWojak]

You brought it up. I said it doesn't exist bc it essentially does not exist on any popular level. I'm sure there's "music" where someone let's a dog bark on a record for 10 mins. Does it exist? Sure.... Does it matter? No. Because the masses aren't listening.

Whens the last you heard a death metal song on a national tv airwave ? When's the last time an artist sold or even streamed a any amount that matters?

I saw Griselda performing on Jimmy Fallon with the gunshot adlibs and talking about dead bodys stinking, selling crack. Find me a death metal song on family tv like NBC going into the minds of MILLIONS of ppl.

Music plays a part in this thing whether you like it or not. There are ppl who are mentally able to separate life from entertainment and there's those who cannot

It's an example, here you are again ignoring the latin equivalent that is extremely popular and mainstream, so you just want to hear people pat you on the back in an echo chamber.

That other genre u named....i never heard of it, so it doesn't matter.

be proudly ignorant and try to argue brehs

 

[I Really Mean It]

these are attitudes inculcated in black people by the society in which they live. surrounding them is a daily influx of propaganda that programs them to live in shame because of their skin color, which encourages self-destructive behavior that is oftentimes directed towards other black people.

most black people live with an all-consuming inferiority complex, motivated by envious aspirations to emulate whiteness, seething with boiling resentment against other black people

it is unreasonable to think that centuries of enslavement implanted in the white mind the concept of black inferiority, but left the black psyche free of this conditioned disdain for blackness.

short of revolutionary change, the most effective means of combating these attitudes and behaviors is good parenting that instills in our children an understanding of our history and a love of self.

 

[VoxSphere74]

Death metal is such an underground thing now it's not even relevant. Furthermore, death metal is to white ppl what crunk music is in hiphop. It's moreso just about aggression.

Not shooting your fellow brother, not stealing your homies girl, not selling drugs to your own family members, not wishing death on your brothers

Also heavy metal was never mainstream.

And most white music of any genre is suburban cornball music. Because being white in the US is so safe it's dull so all you have to complain in your music is boring suburban drama.

And as the other poster said though rap is just the manifestation of the anger that's already there due to what cacs have done.

Now Black America as a country wouldn't be filled with angry Black men and women because they could set the economic and political agenda for Black people collectively.

But when you're in pro-white/anti-Black country like the USA where your every attempt at success is frustrated, destroyed, blocked, or slowed down. And you have to beg for jobs, housing, loans, political attention, economic benefits, etc...from your racial nemesis.

And add onto that you have to watch your people get snuffed by cops and random cacs at lest several times a year knowing full well said cac will probably get a slap on the wrist well you might actually lose it.

And you'll certainly carry around anger all the time. And since you're not going to do anything about what cacs do you take it out on other Black men or Black women so that's why they hate each other.

Displaced aggression.

 

[seabreeze80]

death metal, narcocorrido, it's not the music

Those genres were not mainstream. White boys who listened were seen as weird outcasts. With rap its different.

 

[badboys11]

Father's in the household everyday.....living there and seeing what's going on.....not just showing up every other weekend like u some kinda check

 

[BobbyWojak]

Those genres were not mainstream. White boys who listened were seen as weird outcasts. With rap its different.

Real drill music isn't mainstream, you won't see 22gz perform at the superbowl. Even if it was, it wouldn't affect young men to the point where they would kill over it, whenever these types of kids get violent there were dozens of precursors before the music. It's just not something you can prove, there's too much data to support the alternative, which is poverty.

 

[seabreeze80]

Real drill music isn't mainstream, you won't see 22gz perform at the superbowl. Even if it was, it wouldn't affect young men to the point where they would kill over it, whenever these types of kids get violent there were dozens of precursors before the music. It's just not something you can prove, there's too much data to support the alternative, which is poverty.

Rap is mainstream and majority of whats mainstream is about hating enemies, sex, stuntin or murder. A cool factor comes with rap. Blk boys that don't listen are seen as soft.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Brehs covered it here, but it all leads to raising the esteem of young brehs everywhere.


There parents also need esteem

 

[Still Benefited]

How can we hate ourselves when we love our "bruddas". If anything having a pack mentality in many of our communities is part of the problem. Why? Because the pack isnt lead by intellectual and righteous black men. Its usually lead by some washed up OG trying to inspire kids with their glory years tales. Some old head who wants to be friends with the kids,or lead them on a path to nowhere. And most of all,you have a bunch of kids taking on the role of pack leader. So you essentially have Lord Of The Flies playing itself out in hoods accross America.



Meaning you have good kids getting caught up in dysfunction simply because they are afraid, easily led,and are still sheep. Plus sometimes its safer to be a sheep wearing wolf clothes for your own protection. But at the same time that can also put you in dangerous predicaments.

It seems complicated,but its really all just the nature of any other animal. If you want to figure it all out,look no further than the animals in a zoo. Obviously that will sound offensive on the surface. But the basic rules and energies still apply

 

[BobbyWojak]

Rap is mainstream and majority of whats mainstream is about hating enemies, sex, stuntin or murder. A cool factor comes with rap. Blk boys that don't listen are seen as soft.

How old are you?

You sound like you're not around a lot of young people, most of these rappers are soft.

 

[Will Ross]

We don't hate each other we simply don't value each other.

 

[seabreeze80]

How old are you?

You sound like you're not around a lot of young people, most of these rappers are soft.

Idc if they soft tho. Blk boys who aren't into rap are outcasted. Yall complain about the pookies and ray rays and city girls. Rap promotes all that.