Sexual confidence is completely gone…

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This dude comes for advice and four pages in of people asking what's the main concern so he can be helped, and he has ignored every question.

Natural selection. He doesn't deserve the p*ssy :yeshrug:

It is what it is. Let him go and fukk up or let him get afraid and ghost and regret it later. Either way. Natural selection.:manny:

He stays passive much longer and some other breh is gonna take over just because he shot his shot and that will be that. OP will have to start from zero again with someone else. And since nothing has changed from now till then..same shyt will happen again and again. And he'll be asking why he isn't getting anywhere in his relationships.. and it'll be because he's not taking action and burdening the woman with leading and taking steps.

I don't even think Op has mentioned wanting any sort of intimate relationship or dating relationship with this woman.

OP like an elephant with a string tied to his foot
 

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This dude comes for advice and four pages in of people asking what's the main concern so he can be helped, and he has ignored every question.

Natural selection. He doesn't deserve the p*ssy :yeshrug:

It is what it is. Let him go and fukk up or let him get afraid and ghost and regret it later. Either way. Natural selection.:manny:

He stays passive much longer and some other breh is gonna take over just because he shot his shot and that will be that. OP will have to start from zero again with someone else. And since nothing has changed from now till then..same shyt will happen again and again. And he'll be asking why he isn't getting anywhere in his relationships.. and it'll be because he's not taking action and burdening the woman with leading and taking steps.

I don't even think Op has mentioned wanting any sort of intimate relationship or dating relationship with this woman.

OP like an elephant with a string tied to his foot

site is fulla weirdos. I'm like hell you spending all this time with a woman that aint ya family then shook of the idea of sex as a grown man? I can see if this was grade school. Dude has herpes and is shook or he is trolling/a sped
 

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I don’t usually recommend this ….. but if you think your gnna underperform for some reason then go pop a gas station pill and wear her ass out the first time. That will give you some time to get your mental in order and hopefully restore your confidence . It also will give you a few more wack sessions before she toss you in the bushes .
 

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People really outraged the OP ain't telling what the problem is and giving us closure

This dude comes for advice and four pages in of people asking what's the main concern so he can be helped, and he has ignored every question.
Natural selection. He doesn't deserve the p*ssy :yeshrug:


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You see this as a bad thing but honestly I think you just saved yourself from future headache. I see red flags all throughout your post. :yeshrug:
 

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I'm going to guess that OP's body just ain't on shyt right now,I am 99% sure. If he was a virgin he wouldn't have ever had "sexual confidence" w/e that is.
I first had sex at 13,had 0 confidence,but was trying to fukk even before then. Confidence has nothing to do with trying to fukk.
OP let me give you a little advice,this is what I've always done when I didn't want to see the body or the face of the women I was smashing.
Turn the t.v on,Turn off the light,Invite her into your bed. Maybe watch the t.v for a good 10-20 minutes before turning it off.
Cuddle her from the back,as she feels the dikk in her back she will make the next move by reaching for it if she's interested.
This will also help you avoid being Cosby in 2021#WeCanAllBeCosby. From there do whatever foreplay comes to mind if you choose.
Turn off that t.v and then go to town. You are now in the dark and neither of you have any inhibitions or insecurities,just two spirits in the night:wow:
Its a win win,women are more sexually confident in the dark as well because they don't feel judged.
 
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