This dude comes for advice and four pages in of people asking what's the main concern so he can be helped, and he has ignored every question.
Natural selection. He doesn't deserve the p*ssy
It is what it is. Let him go and fukk up or let him get afraid and ghost and regret it later. Either way. Natural selection.
He stays passive much longer and some other breh is gonna take over just because he shot his shot and that will be that. OP will have to start from zero again with someone else. And since nothing has changed from now till then..same shyt will happen again and again. And he'll be asking why he isn't getting anywhere in his relationships.. and it'll be because he's not taking action and burdening the woman with leading and taking steps.
I don't even think Op has mentioned wanting any sort of intimate relationship or dating relationship with this woman.
OP like an elephant with a string tied to his foot