Shaq keeps it 100% (Confiding in women)

[number21]

Whether you like it or not, you have to treat your woman similar to how you'd treat your child... in other words, you do NOT go telling her all your business and making her feel scared or jittery because you're always complaining or worried about something. You're supposed to be that rock she can depend on, not that husband homegirl she's sharing juicy gossip and all your life details with. Sharing information with her that makes you look like you don't have it all together, you're weak, you're scared or whatever is going to make her lose respect for you and get away from you.

All them movies and weak rnb songs got mens' minds messed up thinking their woman is their homeboy or therapist. We got different roles, and your role as a man is to be a leader, and in return you demand her obedience. All of this equal, equal, she's mah buddy nonsense is going to get you destroyed. If she can't look up to you she's going to look down on you.

Great post breh.

 

[HARLEM AL]

As I said before. You are nothing but a fake ass internet tough guy. If you going to talk tough on the internet, at least learn what the word "hear" means. Cause all I "hear" is you running your internet tough guy fingers across the keyboard. Stay in your lane and keep my dikk out your mouth. If you're going to be a coli tough guy, learn how to put together a sentence first. Remedial ass nikka. Like I said before, I'd slap the taste out of your mouth talking like that to me IRL.

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You're nothing but an emotional ass bytch. Take that coli tough guy act somewhere else and keep my name out your mouth. Cause I'd legit beat the ho out of you real quick.

Like i said in the Dm you sent me p*ssy. You wouldnt do shyt. Trust me lil nikka.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Their actually not. It's just that most men only ever deal with women who don't respect them, because they not a man worth respecting in the first place. They think the things they deal with when it comes to women are how women are...when its really its just the way women treat them.

When a man says "women can't be trusted". What he means is "no woman i ever dealt with respected me enough to be truthful with me."

So basically be more alpha.....

Straight Comedy. nikkas be so Alpha they get their bytch caught up giving head fakes in a staircase by a nikka who own a twin mattress with batman sheets on it.

 

[Lord Bison]

Like i said in the Dm you sent me p*ssy. You wouldnt do shyt. Trust me lil nikka.

And like I said in the DM young kid. Come to where I'm at and run this fade. Since you want to uphold this reputation as the Coli tough guy, let's see how tough you really are when I call you a bytch to your face before I put you on a gurney and spit on you p*ssy.

 

[HARLEM AL]

And like I said in the DM young kid. Come to where I'm at and run this fade. Since you want to uphold this reputation as the Coli tough guy, let's see how tough you really are when I call you a bytch to your face before I put you on a gurney and spit on you p*ssy.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Their actually not. It's just that most men only ever deal with women who don't respect them, because they not a man worth respecting in the first place. They think the things they deal with when it comes to women are how women are...when its really its just the way women treat them.

When a man says "women can't be trusted". What he means is "no woman i ever dealt with respected me enough to be truthful with me."

Sounds like some emasculated simp babble if I ever heard it
some female trained you well.

 

[Scipio]

I got friend of mine was seriously struggling with gambling addiction. Told his gf and she really helped him get over it, sponsored him through gamblers anonymous meetings and all that i think. Years later they married

But what happens when he pisses her off?

 

[duckbutta]

Sounds like some emasculated simp babble if I ever heard it
some female trained you well.

Not as emasculated as "i told a woman a secret and she told everyone you can't trust any of those hoes"

Meanwhile women sitting in prison for not telling secrets about a man she got real feelings for

 

[maxamusa]

Yeah he’s right but he’s talking about women who don’t respect you on a basic level.. meaning as a man not as the man they currently see ie: money and fame…

If your wife genuinely loves you and respect you as a man and a human being you should be able and comfortable to tell her anything.. and even if y’all have an argument she would never throw anything you said to her back in your face..

But when you mess with low character women that type of shyt is bound to happen

real spit

 

[JNew]

Lets take it a little deeper.

what are you telling your women? that you cried when your mom died. yeah a decent women is not going to throw that in your face or use it against you.

or are you telling her you feel insecure by your boss. yeah thats a type of weakness a women is going to see as something else and will make her feel some type of way about you.

But if your a tried and true tested man you shouldn't be confiding in your women on some BS.

See alot of males are walking around thinking jus cause they hit a certain age their a Man, especially nowadays and cant tell the difference between game and simpin.

 

[Space Cowboy]

But if your stresses and mental health issues don't get released on a constructive way, you will flip out and harm a lot more people

This is why you have the close male friends and a male therapist.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Why are they calling us bitter in this thread? We are being honest and real. It's why our grandfather's were distant and didn't tell grandma everything. This is man knowledge passed down. A man must be stoic in the eyes of a woman. He shoulders the pain and burdens for her. He is her rock. This doesn't mean we are bitter. We just know our role as men.

 

[Big Boss]

facts

 

[Wild self]

Why are they calling us bitter in this thread? We are being honest and real. It's why our grandfather's were distant and didn't tell grandma everything. This is man knowledge passed down. A man must be stoic in the eyes of a woman. He shoulders the pain and burdens for her. He is her rock. This doesn't mean we are bitter. We just know our role as men.

In the age of mental health awareness, bottling up your feelings will harm your internal functions of your body. Its been scientifically proven time and again, that repressing your feelings for a prolonged period of time will kill you early.

 

[Space Cowboy]

In the age of mental health awareness, bottling up your feelings will harm your internal functions of your body. Its been scientifically proven time and again, that repressing your feelings for a prolonged period of time will kill you early.

No one said anything about bottling up feelings. The post above you literally says this is why you get close male friends and a straight male therapist. It's good to express yourself and worries and doubts. Just not with your woman. You're supposed to be strong for her. Women have the luxury to be weak; men do not. That is our role that God gave us. Embrace it.

“Hit dogs gonna holla”

Like I thought, you are a bytch. No grown ass man going to say that. Listen hear you dike ass bytch, go take your dildo out the fridge and stop worrying about what grown men are talking about. Go iron one off your flannel shirts and durag bytch.

Hold up now. Flannel is one of the manliest things a brother can wear. Ease off on the flannel breh.