I'm a brat detector and nothing entertains me more than letting anyone ...sucker, chump, bytch, skank ..know how things really are. No bytch who is sponsored is TELLING ME ANYTHING.
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Shaq keeps it 100% (Confiding in women)
- Thread starter hood b. goode
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Really this simple
T'hats the thing, it don't even have to be about confiding some deep shyt with some women. It can be some trivial shyt, they gonna throw that back in your face whenever they cant retort with a sound argument. That's just the way it is.
Chrishaune
Veteran
No their judgemental. A lot of dudes they throw to the side go on to be successful. They don't know how to spot dudes that are going places. They go by the in the moment perception of what people think about the guy they are with. Athletes and guys in certain college majors are the easiest for them to target. Guys that get it other ways are off their radar.
Any argument that relies on ‘never’ is bound to be wrong
There are some women, plenty of women, where this isn’t true. Women by nature are empaths, they wanna fix shyt. They be dying for us to ‘open up’ and plenty of them aren’t doing it to throw it at you later.
But…. then there are women who pretty clearly do not have that type of instinct but we ignore it bc she pretty/got a phat ass/etc. It SHOULD be easy to spot. Like bruh we know. You know if you got a slick mouthed woman. A self centered woman. Etc
But I will say theres different kinds of opening up. Never open up in a way like life is too heavy for you as a man. Bc she will lose respect for you. Open about loss, family relationships, etc. But never let her see you as less of a man.
That may be hard instructions to follow for younger cats so I can see why Shaq just said ‘don’t do it’
There are some women, plenty of women, where this isn’t true. Women by nature are empaths, they wanna fix shyt. They be dying for us to ‘open up’ and plenty of them aren’t doing it to throw it at you later.
But…. then there are women who pretty clearly do not have that type of instinct but we ignore it bc she pretty/got a phat ass/etc. It SHOULD be easy to spot. Like bruh we know. You know if you got a slick mouthed woman. A self centered woman. Etc
But I will say theres different kinds of opening up. Never open up in a way like life is too heavy for you as a man. Bc she will lose respect for you. Open about loss, family relationships, etc. But never let her see you as less of a man.
That may be hard instructions to follow for younger cats so I can see why Shaq just said ‘don’t do it’
This is a very layered convo
Honestly when I think about it
1- It immediately reminds me of women who are like this. But at the very same time
2- Those type of women make it even more clear that some women ARENT like that. Bc it’s a big difference. You know and remember the types you could confide in. I have exes I’ve had who even when i did dirt, even if we didn’t end on good terms at all, they still wouldn’t be on this time.
Granted, I don’t make a habit of pouring my soul to bytches
Honestly when I think about it
1- It immediately reminds me of women who are like this. But at the very same time
2- Those type of women make it even more clear that some women ARENT like that. Bc it’s a big difference. You know and remember the types you could confide in. I have exes I’ve had who even when i did dirt, even if we didn’t end on good terms at all, they still wouldn’t be on this time.
Granted, I don’t make a habit of pouring my soul to bytches
I know the Coli is the the Top Ten of the Talented Tenth but y'all gotta stop dealing with margins and exceptions. For 95% of the other gender Shaq will be proven right at one time or another and waiting till she's "mature"/old is too late.
Better off going to the zoo and talking to the animals and get better feedback out of it.
Not all women are on that type of time, but I’m very careful about what I share.
Even if a woman isn’t throwing that shyt back in your face later, it’s always in the back of her mind.
Be mindful of what you share, she don’t need to know about all those wild rendezvous or any other sketchy or illegal ish you’ve done and got away with.
Either keep that shyt to yourself or be extremely tight lipped about details even with wives and girlfriends.
Women’s minds are always running and they are always trying to connect the dots on some shyt that they’d be better off leaving alone.
Even if a woman isn’t throwing that shyt back in your face later, it’s always in the back of her mind.
Be mindful of what you share, she don’t need to know about all those wild rendezvous or any other sketchy or illegal ish you’ve done and got away with.
Either keep that shyt to yourself or be extremely tight lipped about details even with wives and girlfriends.
Women’s minds are always running and they are always trying to connect the dots on some shyt that they’d be better off leaving alone.
Real easy way to test this out and see if your woman is one of the different ones like the ones described in that post with like 80+ daps 
Tell your girl some fake shyt about yourself that would be embarrassing if it were true and see what happens next time y’all argue
Tell your girl some fake shyt about yourself that would be embarrassing if it were true and see what happens next time y’all argue
YEA I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY
MY WIFE HAS NEVER THROWN
ANYTHING BACK IN MY FACE.
nikkaS JUST GOTTA CHOOSE BETTER.
I mean it's Shaq. People don't fukk with him for whatever reason. Kobe threw shyt back in his face too.
BunchePark
Coli N Calisthenics
outside of ya wife or your mother
what other woman really qualifies to be telling your secrets to like that any damn way
what other woman really qualifies to be telling your secrets to like that any damn way
Hoodoo Child
The Urban Legend
They kill me with this shyt. "I never encountered a woman like that, so I doubt they really exist. Women don't treat guys like me that way, so it must be you."
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