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overall, the things you shouldn’t tolerate.

on a micro level:
1) Getting a better understanding for why they’re like that (no father, abuse, control issues) makes screening girls in the future a better experience.

2) The “fun” about them is the abnormal behavior you’re experiencing. Nothing about her is “better”

3) I personally had (working on correcting it) ego/pride issues. I saw the red flags but both of those emotions wanted to be on top.
 

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The women you attract represent facets of your inner realm.

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They're just there to show you this in the flesh so listen and deal with your ish or see the same pattern again and again till it clicks.
 

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The women you attract represent facets of your inner realm.

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They're just there to show you this in the flesh so listen and deal with your ish or see the same pattern again and again till it clicks.
something similar to this. who you date is a reflection of what you think of yourself.

if you're into fat ugly brehette/brehs, you think thats what you deserve and how you feel about yourself
 

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overall, the things you shouldn’t tolerate.

on a micro level:
1) Getting a better understanding for why they’re like that (no father, abuse, control issues) makes screening girls in the future a better experience.

2) The “fun” about them is the abnormal behavior you’re experiencing. Nothing about her is “better”

3) I personally had (working on correcting it) ego/pride issues. I saw the red flags but both of those emotions wanted to be on top.
All good stuff

Screen hard as fukk is crucial
 
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