Share what a toxic relationship has taught you

[Wig Twistin Season]

1. Never let a woman get too comfortable. She needs to know that any day can be her last with you.

2. If a woman is trying to put rules on you (you can’t do this or that) outside of no cheating or no kicking her ass, check her immediately. She’s not your mother and a relationship isn’t you asking for a personal manager.

3. The minute you catch her in a lie, just know that most of what you thought you knew about her has been a lie.

4. If she’s cheating with you, she’ll eventually cheat on you. fukk them and keep it moving. Don’t ghost, just always be busy.

5. If she’s always talking trash about her ex, she was just as trash. Otherwise, why did she put up with that behavior?

6. The types of friends she has is the type of woman she really is deep down.

7. If she casually discusses sex with past partners or compares your meat to other dude’s meat as a compliment, she’s a ho.

8. If she needs you to do dirty shyt to her to cum or needs to do weird shyt to you, go get tested.

9. If she likes coke (the bear kind) she’s probably had a train ran on her before or at least was in a threesome.

10. If she’s a scammer, you’re getting set up for an eventual scam to be ran on you.

11. If her mother wants to suck your dikk, don’t let her. Not worth the headache.

 

[Mowgli]

Overly arched eye brows

Single mothers

Animal print

Multiple piercings

Septum piercings

Tats past 25 years of age.

Non natural Dyed hair

Are all Huge, red flags

 

[Kasher Juan]

Scary thread

 

[Striving For Greatness]

guy best friends

 

[jilla82]

I never had a toxic relationship

but all my exes discover how tough life is when they leave me

 

[god shamgod]

Pay attention to the red flags , the saying “when people show you who they are believe them” is real

 

[Digital Omen]

Guilt trips
Silent treatments (it got to the point where I stared counting how many days. The most was 4)
Pitting you against your family (it's either them or me)
Ultimatums

^All of the above I experienced with my ex wife. I was trapped for a couple of years until I finally found a way out and bounced. Filed for divorce and never looked back.

Was I an angel? hell no. I never cheated, but did I flirt, text, entertain BS, go out with my "work wife" to happy hour on some "I don't wanna go home" shyt? Yup.

I knew what I was doing. I can pat myself on the back on some "I never fukked anybody else" but emotional affairs? most def. I can say now that her behavior was a reflection of me checking out as soon as she started with the silent treatments after an argument.

What I learned is lead with the truth and check that shyt at the first instance. Could've saved myself lawyer fees and headaches but you live and learn.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

If you’re unhappy just leave. I was the toxic one, I cheated and did a lot of fukked up shyt and hurt a lot of females. If I could go back in time I would just end the relationships. Nobody deserves that type of hurt especially when they’re being loyal.

Yep. That was me too...

Also
Just because she not cussing and acting a fool doesn't mean she's not toxic

 

[Mowgli]

You have to love yourself. You can’t seek validation or love for yourself by how much love your significant other gives you.

If your woman doesn't seek your validation she's seeking it from someone.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

get money / do you

Do only what you want to do.

Before you do something ask yourself “am I doing this for a bytch?”

If the answer is yes then do the opposite

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

The women you attract represent facets of your inner realm.

They're just there to show you this in the flesh so listen and deal with your ish or see the same pattern again and again till it clicks.

This is so true...

 

[blockburna420]

Nothing

 

[Michael's Black Son]

The women you attract represent facets of your inner realm.

They're just there to show you this in the flesh so listen and deal with your ish or see the same pattern again and again till it clicks.

Never trust a big butt and a smile

 

[Vodun]

"If a bytch don’t feel you
She gon peel you.
If she don’t respect you,
She gon reject you.
Proper instruction bring great production.
If she don’t LISTEN….she can’t be corrected and she can’t be directed"

somebody on the coil said this so I'm going use it here
"as long as you never invest or rely on who she is (or pretends to be). whether single or in a relationship, ALWAYS remain as independent as possible"

 

[FeverPitch2]

11. If her mother wants to suck your dikk, don’t let her. Not worth the headache.