Share what a toxic relationship has taught you

rabbid

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As a dude who is recovering from a toxic relationship, most of what yall are saying is hella true.

1.Unresolved Mommy/Daddy issues is a no go.

2.If she needs daily affirmation is a no go.

3.If you have to tame down your happiness because she's always unhappy, RUN.

4.If you have to explain male friends and boundaries to a grown woman, RUN.

5.If she treats strangers (waiters, cashiers, etc) like shyt, RUN.

6.If she has issues with her girl friends, most likely she's the problem, Leave.

7.Wont seek therapy when she know she has issues, no go.

8.Always thinking negative, RUN.
Damn breh... where were you when I was dating my ex SMH.
 

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Toxic relationships thought me to grow up! It taught me that I was a willing participant in being in one.

It also taught me that I don't want to be in one anymore. It further taught me that having inner peace is more valuable as well as taught me to appreciate those who sought the same peaceful relationship that I wanted..

Sometimes, one has to experience it to understand it...
 

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1. Never let a woman get too comfortable. She needs to know that any day can be her last with you.

2. If a woman is trying to put rules on you (you can’t do this or that) outside of no cheating or no kicking her ass, check her immediately. She’s not your mother and a relationship isn’t you asking for a personal manager.

3. The minute you catch her in a lie, just know that most of what you thought you knew about her has been a lie.

4. If she’s cheating with you, she’ll eventually cheat on you. fukk them and keep it moving. Don’t ghost, just always be busy.

5. If she’s always talking trash about her ex, she was just as trash. Otherwise, why did she put up with that behavior?

6. The types of friends she has is the type of woman she really is deep down.

7. If she casually discusses sex with past partners or compares your meat to other dude’s meat as a compliment, she’s a ho.

8. If she needs you to do dirty shyt to her to cum or needs to do weird shyt to you, go get tested.

9. If she likes coke (the bear kind) she’s probably had a train ran on her before or at least was in a threesome.

10. If she’s a scammer, you’re getting set up for an eventual scam to be ran on you.

11. If her mother wants to suck your dikk, don’t let her. Not worth the headache.
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Rhapscallion Démone

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People will try to rewrite reality and erase history to justify their toxicity. They will gaslight if you let them. Don't ever let "love" make you second guess your gut and the facts. "Love" is like money and just like all money ain't good money, all "love" ain't good love. It can be genuine but that doesn't equate to good.
 

Scustin Bieburr

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Some people will never be satisfied because they don't know what they actually want.

When someone can't articulate their thoughts or feelings without seeking to blame someone, you know it's time to move on. Time is the most valuable resource on earth.

If trust is broken the relationship is over. If you suspect anything or if the person you're with puts suspicion on you it won't matter how hard you work to rest their concerns. They just want to torture you. You just have to apologize and end things.
 

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Don't hold grudges and throw things back in their face trying to play the tit for tat game.

Let them keep their own little score and don't give AF when they throw your fukk ups back in your face because you're trying to be the best man you can be and grow and they shouldn't be holding grudges like that with someone they're trying to share a lifetime with.


The more brittle your trust is the more worthless having your trust is.
 
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