She left me brehs

julesocean

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We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do :mjcry:

The hardest part of breaking up with long time partner is losing your best friend. It takes time to get used to not having your second-in-command around. I'm not gonna tell you to block her and never get back together, because I've seen it happen before and work out. Some people need to work on themselves by themselves, and can't do it in relationship. But assume she is done. Assume the worst. Take your time to "grieve", that's healthy. Then just get super busy, let your homeboys be your rock. Do all the things you had on backburners or in planning stages. Put yourself in situations to get noticed and get affection from new people. It's not the end of the world, just a bit of a hard patch where your life will be much clearer after it.
 

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She said i didn't support her the way she needed during some hard times but she didn't realize how she needed to be supported until recently which I don't think is fair.

She also was pushing for me to propose last year but I wasn't ready so I spent the last year getting ready but seems like she spent that time detaching.

For the last 6 or so months sex became sparse and she would get annoyed when I tried pushing up on her and for the last two months we just didn't so anything anymore.
Dodge bullets and regret it brehs :dahell:
 

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Got to Columbia to fukk some bad bytches. Hit the gym, get fly. Remember.. No matter how high you value her rn. She gon be old and washed in a few yrs. You ain't miss out on nothing. She showed you her true colors, and already got her new dude lined up
 

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She'll double back but
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The surprise propose is corny af. People watch too many movies. I ain't doing all that surprise shyt especially if I'm spending some money on it
 
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She's not yours, it was just your turn.

You didn't even necessarily do anything wrong. Women just get bored and think the grass is greener on the other side.

She fukkin a new dude and jamming his dikk back in when it slides out. She not even thinking about you

That's what makes it easy for me to move on. She already has. She doesn't care about your feelings.

If it doesn't work out with the new dude and she comes back, don't take her back.
 

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Breh, look at it this way, if she can do this to you then you were obviously wrong about her and she was never the one. Look at it like that and see it's a blessing. You've dodged a bullet. You could've married the bytch and ended up being stuck paying alimony and shyt.

I ain't gonna act like I ain't ever been there myself or that it's easy to just get over it but it does get better. Trust.
 
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