Breh
The chick I been fukcing with since I was in college cut me off a few years ago. I'm gonna be 50 in a couple weeks.
20s we were together for a year. 30s was about a year long distance. 40s we live about 10 min away from each other. We had been seeing each other for four years pretty much straight before she ghosted me.
That shyt hurts. I was thinking we would always be there for each other since we have known each other since kids damn near.
Besides that got a long term gf and a wife that both broke up with me. Had me getting skinny and not wanting to talk.
This is to be expected from women. They get bored after years, whereas men become more attached over time.
Just gut it out. And when you find a new piece, just know the clock is ticking.