She left me brehs

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Could be that. Or it could be that she just didn't feel attracted to him anymore, people change. Or maybe her friends convinced her the grass was greener elsewhere. Or maybe there's another man she met and caught feelings for.

Or some other reason. At the end of the day it doesn't matter, if somebody doesn't want you the only thing you can do is move on :yeshrug:
this is some of the best advice in the thread. idk why there were so many posts like “she’s probably fukking some other dude, she’s got a new man in mind already”. that doesn’t do anything for op. it doesn’t matter what she’s doing. he just needs to live his life.
 

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this is some of the best advice in the thread. idk why there were so many posts like “she’s probably fukking some other dude, she’s got a new man in mind already”. that doesn’t do anything for op. it doesn’t matter what she’s doing. he just needs to live his life.

it helps to kill hope fast
 

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Breh

The chick I been fukcing with since I was in college cut me off a few years ago. I'm gonna be 50 in a couple weeks.

20s we were together for a year. 30s was about a year long distance. 40s we live about 10 min away from each other. We had been seeing each other for four years pretty much straight before she ghosted me.

That shyt hurts. I was thinking we would always be there for each other since we have known each other since kids damn near.

Besides that got a long term gf and a wife that both broke up with me. Had me getting skinny and not wanting to talk.

This is to be expected from women. They get bored after years, whereas men become more attached over time.

Just gut it out. And when you find a new piece, just know the clock is ticking.
Wait— is this a woman you ever married? Not even the “girlfriend” title. You’ve been in and out of each other’s lives with no commitment?

Honestly, she probably sensed that she was just “the chick you’ve been fukking with”. If she wasn’t important enough to hold on to over all those decades…:manny:
 

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Call up her mama, auntie, Or granny and find out what the hell is going on. Be honest with the situation


Call her up and just say you want a discussion for some closure. Maybe let her know about the ring if the convo allows for it.






Start posting money phone and money spread pics with vague cryptic captions taking subliminal disses


Buy some amiri clothes and some jewels. Become a fukkboy. Sleep with her cousin or best friend.


Move on to a new relationship but continuously compare it to hers with subliminal social media posts :myman:
 

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it helps to kill hope fast
i have not seen my friends do that. my last break up i was single for three years.

and even if she is or isn’t that shouldn’t matter to op cause either way she’s not around any more. and thinking about my ex is now fukking wouldn’t help me get over them it would actually just piss me off more. i don’t care what they’re doing now, why should i? how does that help me move on?
 

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Breh

The chick I been fukcing with since I was in college cut me off a few years ago. I'm gonna be 50 in a couple weeks.

20s we were together for a year. 30s was about a year long distance. 40s we live about 10 min away from each other. We had been seeing each other for four years pretty much straight before she ghosted me.

That shyt hurts. I was thinking we would always be there for each other since we have known each other since kids damn near.

Besides that got a long term gf and a wife that both broke up with me. Had me getting skinny and not wanting to talk.

This is to be expected from women. They get bored after years, whereas men become more attached over time.

Just gut it out. And when you find a new piece, just know the clock is ticking.

Wait— is this a woman you ever married? Not even the “girlfriend” title. You’ve been in and out of each other’s lives with no commitment?

Honestly, she probably sensed that she was just “the chick you’ve been fukking with”. If she wasn’t important enough to hold on to over all those decades…:manny:

Sounds like she smartened up and stop wasting time with you. You said "been fukking with" her for 30 years and only been somewhat serious for 5. That wasn't good for either one of you :hubie:
 
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for the next few the months
youre gonna notice the subtle
signs during your relationship
that you ignored.

dont let images in your mind of her being bent over
while a dude with shaq sized hands plunge his thumb
deep into her butthole without spit lube,her looking back
at him with a whore's wreckless passion
in her eyes while biting her bottle lip
and telling him to make it hurt like
only he do haunt you..

UKVu0t8.gif
 

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I see this alot. What's the connection between being depressed/stressed out and hitting the gym?

The last thing I want to do when I'm in that state of mind is go to the gym. I'm not lifting shyt when my brain is all over the place.
It makes you feel good/releases chemicals
 

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It makes you feel good/releases chemicals

I get the benefits aspect but I'm more confused about the motivation part. When your mental state is all over the place, hitting the gym is not something that the average person will think of doing. Lol
 

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I get the benefits aspect but I'm more confused about the motivation part. When your mental state is all over the place, hitting the gym is not something that the average person will think of doing. Lol
It takes your mind off of it. Its just you, your music, and the weights.
 

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We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do :mjcry:
This is written perfectly. Captured the scene brilliantly.


*Duck smoking cigarette gif*
 
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