She left me brehs
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Sounds like they’re the same age (30)
She probably believed he was wasting her time/leading her on because he never proposed after years.
We gotta remember women are on different timelines to us
I don’t think she was creeping probably just a “I’m 30 now, getting older and been with him for 5 years, given him time and he still hasn’t married me or proposed. What am I doing?”
Good advice.
Jaylen Tatum
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Sorry for your loss
Sounds like they’re the same age (30)
She probably believed he was wasting her time/leading her on because he never proposed after years.
We gotta remember women are on different timelines to us
I don’t think she was creeping probably just a “I’m 30 now, getting older and been with him for 5 years, given him time and he still hasn’t married me or proposed. What am I doing?”
yeah, if they're both 30, chances are his next relationship will be better.
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Mirin4rmfar
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Welcome to the club, I just went through this months ago 
I just went through this last month. My story is similar to yours.
-Know for five, dated for three
-was pushing me through propose last year to a rough patch that led me to move away with just the clothes on my back
-she begged for us to get back together and I did
-We got back in August, every time we flew to see each other, we argued because she thought I was cheating on her, there was never another woman in the picture. She accused me of cheating with a female friend and read our messages , it became a huge blow up. Zero interest in dating this particular woman or even fukn her because I know she a nut case and know all her business.
-In february, I got accused again of cheating with multiple women, she blocked me on everything, mind you I am ready to buy a ring and propose( she was also pushing that shyt on me last year when I was about to ready to leave her ass).
-Despite how tempting it is to cheat long distance, I never got with another woman . Don't get me wrong, I am a man, I have thought about but I just couldn't do that to her
-Anyways, she dumped me, I left VA, she was suppose to come to ATL the next week. When I landed I realized I was blocked on everything. She texted my mom and dad that she discovered I cheated on her with multiple women. I don't know what it was. There was never another woman in the picture, I was extremely busy with work.
-After trying to get in touch, my boy and family talked some sense into me and I moved on
-I am enjoying the fuk out of this emotional peace I have
I told her I was hesitant about getting back together because I liked finally being in peace mode. I do think about her at times, I do miss her(not the arguing) Especially when I went back to our favorite city for work but no way I want to go back.
I just went through this last month. My story is similar to yours.-Know for five, dated for three
-was pushing me through propose last year to a rough patch that led me to move away with just the clothes on my back
-she begged for us to get back together and I did
-We got back in August, every time we flew to see each other, we argued because she thought I was cheating on her, there was never another woman in the picture. She accused me of cheating with a female friend and read our messages , it became a huge blow up. Zero interest in dating this particular woman or even fukn her because I know she a nut case and know all her business.
-In february, I got accused again of cheating with multiple women, she blocked me on everything, mind you I am ready to buy a ring and propose( she was also pushing that shyt on me last year when I was about to ready to leave her ass).
-Despite how tempting it is to cheat long distance, I never got with another woman . Don't get me wrong, I am a man, I have thought about but I just couldn't do that to her
-Anyways, she dumped me, I left VA, she was suppose to come to ATL the next week. When I landed I realized I was blocked on everything. She texted my mom and dad that she discovered I cheated on her with multiple women. I don't know what it was. There was never another woman in the picture, I was extremely busy with work.
-After trying to get in touch, my boy and family talked some sense into me and I moved on
-I am enjoying the fuk out of this emotional peace I have
I told her I was hesitant about getting back together because I liked finally being in peace mode. I do think about her at times, I do miss her(not the arguing) Especially when I went back to our favorite city for work but no way I want to go back.
Now i kinda feel bad for negging you in the Coliseum yesterday. 
it'll make feel even worse negging you now, but i just did
it'll make feel even worse negging you now, but i just did
ok, yeah some women in that 29-31 range get weird and take their stable relationships/marriages for granted. Seen it happen a few times. It's some weird phase that if they listen to it they make bad decisions. Alot of them dont listen to those feelings/thoughts, and alot do.
5 years and no proposal and she’s 30? Yeah the clocking was probably ticking after year 3.
But marriage should always been on YOUR timeline and when you’re ready. Something was preventing you from going pulling the trigger breh. You said she had mental issues it was probably that.
BUT this might be a bluff from her to force you into proposing. If you see yourself with her marriage wise and really want to be with her you might as well send her a picture of the ring like another breh said and get the marriage shyt over with
She did him a favor..the favor of a lifetime.
He just doesn't realize it yet
Keep it moving breh. She's most likely been planning it for weeks/months and is already emotionally checked out.
You just have to let it go. Don't go out of your way to contact her unless you really need to (ie. she has your stuff or vice versa) and certainly don't try to convince her to take you back. Being dumped sucks but you still need to move with a certain amount of pride.
You just have to let it go. Don't go out of your way to contact her unless you really need to (ie. she has your stuff or vice versa) and certainly don't try to convince her to take you back. Being dumped sucks but you still need to move with a certain amount of pride.
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