I didn't catch that and too be honest, I only had three relationships in my life with the one I just got out of lasting 20 years
Edit: I just read She should know you want the cheeks
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She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...
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Edit: I just read She should know you want the cheeks
Man’s said put us on game lol
When women pop up giving unsolicited advice to men, it ain’t out of the goodness of their heart. It’s coming from a place of frustration.
Bc….what woman has an issue finding men to fukk? No. It’s typically the opposite: a man presented himself as wanting more, didn’t explicitly state he ‘just wanted sex’, and once he got it….he switched up. And that leaves women frustrated and instead of processing that frustration and taking the resulting bruised ego, instead it becomes finger wagging….
Y’all men need to just say what you want!
What Jay say? In disguise in the form of a favor. Lol Ngga nobody asked for this ‘advice’
Never in life has a woman decided mid stroke that she don't want none of this anaconda breh
Y'all telling on yallselves now breh
If you ugly wit small meat just say that
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
Exactly... It was bullshyt from the start because everyone in here stated that they would tell a woman if they didn't want a relationship. Nobody in here was championing lying about wanting more than sex, only to gain sex and switch it up. Nobody was even stating that they'd friendzone their way in. Nor leave out the part where they are clearly interested in the girl and want sex, but won't tell her directly too soon to creep her out...
Suddenly, this thread was about giving good game. The game was "tell a woman if you want sex and only sex, and don't trick her or leave it open for something more serious."
Well, no shyt Sherlock
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
Never in my life has any of this birdbrained type of issues come up, nor do I spend a second worrying if it is.
I'm just laughing at nikkas saying "Yea I make sure to ask her direct if we having sex tonight cause then she can't say......................"
She can say anything at anytime. This "game" isn't helping you with that part
Mister Terrific
It’s in the name
Man if a dude is handsome gang than 9 times out of 10 being up front will work. If you aren’t handsome gang that shyt ain’t gonna work lmao. 
If you not in that upper 5-10% of dudes you better be prepared to wine and dine. Sorry those are facts. Hell there are about 5% of dudes who aren’t handsome gang but have insane game and can finagle some p*ssy out of thin air.
But the majority of men are in that other 85% and being upfront could get you into a lot of trouble lol.
It’s what the whole incel movement is about. Most of these incel dudes aren’t ugly but just average and their beef is why should I be expected to wine and dine when Chad is smashing with a hello.
That’s the whole paranoia about baby mommas is the inate fear that somebody settled for you.
I digress to say that i don’t think being upfront about your feelings is what’s going to cure the rift between men and women with young folk. As older people we have to realize at 20 years old bringing a knife to a gun fight will get you killed.
If you not in that upper 5-10% of dudes you better be prepared to wine and dine. Sorry those are facts. Hell there are about 5% of dudes who aren’t handsome gang but have insane game and can finagle some p*ssy out of thin air.
But the majority of men are in that other 85% and being upfront could get you into a lot of trouble lol.
It’s what the whole incel movement is about. Most of these incel dudes aren’t ugly but just average and their beef is why should I be expected to wine and dine when Chad is smashing with a hello.
That’s the whole paranoia about baby mommas is the inate fear that somebody settled for you.
I digress to say that i don’t think being upfront about your feelings is what’s going to cure the rift between men and women with young folk. As older people we have to realize at 20 years old bringing a knife to a gun fight will get you killed.
Da Bull Ace
All Star
lol relax bruh. I’ve had this convo over 100 times with different women telling me what they like and dont like but it always boils down to “if I like him it wont matter”. I was asking the question to highlight that exact point, which is also what I do in real life when having this convo.Why the hell yall in here asking women questions yall already know the answers too? Yall are here to teach the women in the peanut gallery as black men. You know damn well a man doesnt have to verbally say anything if a woman is attracted. Meanwhile half of the first page was discounting "vibes". I dont think people understand what vibes are
Vibe-"a person's emotional state or the atmosphere of a place as communicated to and felt by others."
Vibes are energy,you use energy to manipulate the atmopshere which will enable the other person to feel what your intention is.
If you are giving off best friend energy,it may cause confusion. If you are giving off "i want to fukk energy" the woman will respond according to how she feels based on the atmosphere.
I know alot of us are old and washed,but this thread is saddening. Remember who you are kings. Yall sound like yall forgot how to ride a bike in here. Yall know EXACTLY what to do,just like a peacock inherently knows its mating rituals. Its engrained in our nature. Even if your too scared to do it,you KNOW what to do. Being "direct" is for g.m.o'd cave men. Do your dance
And I said i’ve had success both ways so I can see both sides but personally I think direct is best way to go
Man if a dude is handsome gang than 9 times out of 10 being up front will work. If you aren’t handsome gang that shyt ain’t gonna work lmao.
If you not in that upper 5-10% of dudes you better be prepared to wine and dine
There is a lot of grey area of “handsome gang”. I cringe when yll say that. Every ngga in the friend zone, getting left on read, gettin blocked, etc, is not ugly pause
They all may be lame tho. And overtly bartering for p*ssy can give you the Lame scarlet letter
Also, there is a LOT of middle area between ‘wining and dining’ and ‘hey bytch, I want da p*ssy’
Cat piss martini
Veteran
This me all day. You're going to either say yes or no.How are ya'll supposed to be "leaders of the household" when you are unable and unwilling to do the EXACT first thing you have to do to establish yourself as the leader...set the tone and pacing.
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I didn't even read the thread your quoting outside the title, and the answer is people (men and women) in general do not like to be that upfront about intentions. Unless they've had too many interactions in the unwanted category, otherwise they'd rather these kind of things be read off of unspoken body language and inferred through out conversations but not directly
no I would not tolerate a woman trying to
me about interpreting her hitting me up to come see me after certain hours. my response would be to admonish her about how the vast majority of people use that kind of "communication time"
I'm a grown man. I have never discussed sex with a woman before fukking them and it works every time...
Breh, that's the story of my life.
I literally wouldn't know how to ask for it, but I stay swimming in it
And I recoil at the thought of what these poor women are hearing from these tragic brehs
You should be charming and handsome enough for it to be known what time it is
this is the differences in the genders you just don't understand and are trying to, but miss the mark. If it's a numbers game being upfront about just wanting sex from a woman willing to talk to you is not a good strategy. applied experience will bear that out for the majority of men. an average guy will experience outright rejection 9/10 times before realizing love bombing, saying he wants a relationship, being noncommital on what he truly wants for a couple weeks to months results in a 20-30% success rate as opposed to 0-10%
men are inherently hornier than woman are, and I don't think that's some unscientific or easily socially disproven statement.
the first realization you have to make is realizing how much effort on average a man has to put into having consistent sex outside of having a relationship. once you realize or comprehend that; you realize the depths of depravity men will go to; to get sex from any and every woman they are talking/interacting with at any given time
lying, faking, waiting, wearing her down, favors, tricking, decieving, etc, etc... to get p*ssy is not some abnormal thing to witness
as I have gotten older and interacted with more and more people I've realized just how many men are not getting action like that. I always thought lying on your dikk was a highschool to late teen mans game. then you get past that age and talk and mingle with men who are past the age of having the ego/shame of lying about that stuff and realize just how many men can't just "have their way" with a bunch of women. they gotta get it how they live
MicIsGod
They like what that mean
That’s regular timing to me. Lol I assumed op was saying be direct and say I want sex
I didn't even read the thread your quoting outside the title, and the answer is people (men and women) in general do not like to be that upfront about intentions. Unless they've had too many interactions in the unwanted category, otherwise they'd rather these kind of things be read off of unspoken body language and inferred through out conversations but not directly
no I would not tolerate a woman trying to
this is the differences in the genders you just don't understand and are trying to, but miss the mark. If it's a numbers game being upfront about just wanting sex from a woman willing to talk to you is not a good strategy. applied experience will bear that out for the majority of men. an average guy will experience outright rejection 9/10 times before realizing love bombing, saying he wants a relationship, being noncommital on what he truly wants for a couple weeks to months results in a 20-30% success rate as opposed to 0-10%
men are inherently hornier than woman are, and I don't think that's some unscientific or easily socially disproven statement.
the first realization you have to make is realizing how much effort on average a man has to put into having consistent sex outside of having a relationship. once you realize or comprehend that; you realize the depths of depravity men will go to; to get sex from any and every woman they are talking/interacting with at any given time
lying, faking, waiting, wearing her down, favors, tricking, decieving, etc, etc... to get p*ssy is not some abnormal thing to witness
as I have gotten older and interacted with more and more people I've realized just how many men are not getting action like that. I always thought lying on your dikk was a highschool to late teen mans game. then you get past that age and talk and mingle with men who are past the age of having the ego/shame of lying about that stuff and realize just how many men can't just "have their way" with a bunch of women. they gotta get it how they live
The thread is about coming into situations clean and honest and safe.
I've said it so many times in this thread but ya'll brains really can't function past the road to easy sexual access being your only priority.
You guys just really be having conversations with yourselves. You don't even bother to engage the topic.
I have read for years ya'll complain about women won't "let us lead."
But I reality, many of you guys lack the most basic principles to lead. A real conversation being beyond ya'll is wild to me.
If the following statements are too much for you the intention of this conversation didn't land:
“I like you, I’m attracted to you, and I’m not in a place for commitment but I’d enjoy something physical if that feels good to you too.”
“I’m drawn to you sexually, and I’m curious about what could build between us if we take it one step at a time.”
I have no interest in debating about how easy it is to fukk people without having a adult conversation. We know that's how most of you live.
But it's also childish and why men (general speaking) tend to struggle with relationships beyond fukking and get jammed up in undesirable situations.
If your only concern is how easily you can get sex this conversation was never for you.
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