She Showed Up 10 Minutes Late to The Date

[Remote]

Wait.

So you would want him to be at the place and then when she texts at 6:10 that she is on her way, that he should spare her feelings and be honest with her, saving her time and energy when she wasn’t respectful of his


Naw, if he drove and showed up and wasted his time, it’s ok for her to waste hers too

I don’t think a man should act based on a woman’s actions. He should act based on his own principles.

“A woman did this so I’m gonna do the same thing”

Sounds petty and cowardly to me.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I was 15 mins late to a date to the riverside (he put a lot if thought to it)
He said straight up

'My time is my money and i dont play with both'

I was never late to meet him again. Respect is respect

 

[Remote]

No offense bro but you’re missing dudes whole point.

No I got it. I just don’t agree.

 

[TL15]

I don’t think a man should act based on a woman’s actions. He should act based on his own principles.

“A woman did this so I’m gonna do the same thing”

Sounds petty and cowardly to me.

It’s not necessarily cowardly, respect should go both ways, it’s genderless.

Holding on to some creed of honor and being chivalrous to someone who disrespects you isn’t something I personally subscribe to but to each their own

 

[Serious]

OP did you watch the video? She wasn’t 10 minutes late. She texted him at 6:10 stating she was on her way and pulled up at 6:50. Breh did the right thing and bounced, clear lack of respect on her part.

He was legit within his means to leave.

I dealt wit in my early 20's but never again.

I make it very clear with women upfront too.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I just don’t understand how y’all can’t tell this shyt is fake, it’s all to go viral

i think as most threads go.... people are just relating their own experiences and feelings under the circumstances. it doesn't have to be real to spark discussion.... as you know from your clickbait antics

 

[Serious]

It was never a problem, but I’m grown so I’m trying to do better.

That's not going fly wit a HVM, unless he's unattractive and thirsty. To everyone else, time is money.

Being attractive don't mean a thing when dime a dozen.

 

[Serious]

I was 15 mins late to a date to the riverside (he put a lot if thought to it)
He said straight up

'My time is my money and i dont play with both'

I was never late to meet him again. Respect is respect

Exactly I take wasting my time as disrespect because I could been doing something else.

True is, if something is important like a job interview or something you really want to do, you're not going be late.

If you're the type of person to be late, that's not the type of person that I vibe wit either.

 

[chkmeout]

Well I don't think the reason for being late matters. Not to me.
I think it's about setting the appropriate expectations. I mean this is common courtesy.

If you're going to be late, a quick call or text lets the other person know the situation and they can respond accordingly. Either he can leave, make other plans, or wait. But you're on the same page.

I mean we all do this in other aspects of our lives.
You're at your job and your boss wants you to complete a report. What do you do? You let them know when they can expect it, right? You don't just let the deadline pass and then email it 2 hours later.

I'm just making a broad point but you know what I mean, right?

So I'm not defending the girl. I just think the guy could have said he was leaving and she was inconsiderate and left it at that. Move on. I just don't like the ghosting part. Just my opinion.

Simp ass nikka

 

[Gloxina]

That's not going fly wit a HVM, unless he's unattractive and thirsty. To everyone else, time is money.

Being attractive don't mean a thing when dime a dozen.

lol I said I’m grown so I don’t do all that.

People let you get away with murder when you’re young. I learned

 

[Remote]

Simp ass nikka

What you eat don’t make me shyt.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

If he felt disrespected that she wasn’t on time and didn’t give him notice ahead of time, that’s fine. Everyone has their pet peeves.

But I don’t agree with him ghosting her like that. I think he should have communicated his frustration and disappointment.

Men aren’t shy about complaining about women to other men. Somehow it’s quite convenient to stay quiet when it comes to telling a woman why you’re upset? Ok.

Boy you moist than a bytch
Sounds about right for nikkas in San Antonio

 

[Silkk]

OP did you watch the video? She wasn’t 10 minutes late. She texted him at 6:10 stating she was on her way and pulled up at 6:50. Breh did the right thing and bounced, clear lack of respect on her part.

Exactly. She lost her fuccking mind

 

[Remote]

Boy you moist than a bytch
Sounds about right for nikkas in San Antonio

I’m not in San Antonio.
Go wipe the pringles off yo mama’s blouse.

 

[Dave24]

Exactly I take wasting my time as disrespect because I could been doing something else.

True is, if something is important like a job interview or something you really want to do, you're not going be late.

If you're the type of person to be late, that's not the type of person that I vibe wit either.

@Serious What if you have to wait 30 minutes to be interviewd for a job? How would you take that? Say you have a job interview for 3:00 PM and then you arrive for the interview at 2:45 PM but they don't actually see you until 3:30-3:40 PM. How would you take that?