Doobie Doo
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Normally I don't trip if she's 10 minutes late but if she ain't text me beforehand and let me know she was on the way I assumed she ain't going.
She Showed Up 10 Minutes Late to The Date
- Thread starter Doobie Doo
- Start date
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A legit baddie might get that grace period. But not in this case.
Piff Perkins
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I like it. Social media is full of women telling you what they demand. I got no issue with standards, and it's time for dudes to play that game too. Lot of shyt would change if men had higher standards.
This...im tired of all of these demands and if you do something that isn't perfect its a
for them.I wouldn't have left if I was in the situation nor would I have been annoyed but I know people that would've done the same thing. Especially certain women because they don't give some men any slack
Studious one
Change names, like change clothes; stay a fly girl
You fukking right. I’m a stickler for time. I would have done the same. She didn’t text before hand but 10 minutes after the date was supposed to have started? fukk that. What the hell was she doing? I understand shyt happens and I always factor that in when I’m timing things but that just made her look bad. Proper planning prevents piss poor performance
His time his choice
If he felt disrespected that she wasn’t on time and didn’t give him notice ahead of time, that’s fine. Everyone has their pet peeves.
But I don’t agree with him ghosting her like that. I think he should have communicated his frustration and disappointment.
Men aren’t shy about complaining about women to other men. Somehow it’s quite convenient to stay quiet when it comes to telling a woman why you’re upset? Ok.
But I don’t agree with him ghosting her like that. I think he should have communicated his frustration and disappointment.
Men aren’t shy about complaining about women to other men. Somehow it’s quite convenient to stay quiet when it comes to telling a woman why you’re upset? Ok.
I've done this before. My view is that it is self-explanatory.
I don't get to talking about my frustration with people I don't trust. You expressing your frustration can get twisted into "I was running 10 minutes late because I had to pick up my mum from the doctors. I explained this to him and he just flipped on me".
Suddenly you get presented as this unreasonable and aggressive person.
Time is wayyyyyyyyyy more valuable than any box he MIGHT have gotten on that date. Breh is better off going to the gym instead. Better use of the time.
Hopeofmypeople
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OP did you watch the video? She wasn’t 10 minutes late. She texted him at 6:10 stating she was on her way and pulled up at 6:50. Breh did the right thing and bounced, clear lack of respect on her part.
Well I don't think the reason for being late matters. Not to me.
I think it's about setting the appropriate expectations. I mean this is common courtesy.
If you're going to be late, a quick call or text lets the other person know the situation and they can respond accordingly. Either he can leave, make other plans, or wait. But you're on the same page.
I mean we all do this in other aspects of our lives.
You're at your job and your boss wants you to complete a report. What do you do? You let them know when they can expect it, right? You don't just let the deadline pass and then email it 2 hours later.
I'm just making a broad point but you know what I mean, right?
So I'm not defending the girl. I just think the guy could have said he was leaving and she was inconsiderate and left it at that. Move on. I just don't like the ghosting part. Just my opinion.
She refers to herself as NellGuwop. He won just off that