Should a man dating a woman pay for her airfare and accommodation?

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Paying $$$ for trips is something my wife will get one day.

A woman I'm dating is not getting that treatment.

These women are working, too.

Don't be a sucker spending all your money, while she's busy stacking hers! It's 2017. Women have good jobs, 401(k) and savings accounts!

If she's really into you and want to spend quality time with you, she'd be willing to contribute. You've got to set a precedent during the dating stage. If you're always the one busting open your wallet, do you think that shyt is going to magically change once you get married? :mjlol: Set expecations early. That begins prior to marriage!

Now, if you're out here dating broke ass chicks, you need to re-evaluate your life, brehs.

You can't be an investment banker outchea dating a fry cook at Wendy's!
A lot of nikkas are just out here wingin it on the relationship journey. No standards or expectations set from jump and then be scratchin their heads when she starts acting up and relationships or marriage fail

When I was with my girl, I made significantly more money than her. We went to Miami beach and I made her pay for her own flight, but I covered the hotel stay, food, and all other expenses. It was more than fair for her.

Edit*= STOP fukkING WITH BROKE WOMEN. I don't do that shyt anymore.
B-bbb-but that ass though. All my homies say Damn when I'm out with her. Money isn't everything you know :troll:

That's the thing that also gets overlooked, if you and you're lady are at similar levels financially, she will have no problem covering some of those costs.
:whew: took a nikka a long ass time to learn this lesson. Dating became so much easier when I stopped fukkin broke bytches.

Didn't read... date at ya level brehs. Y'all dudes really fukked up on here man. Forever women bashing no pu$sy broke boys. My girl and I been together for 6 years. I've been broke, she's been broke, it was never an issue of who wants to go where. I've accommodated, and so have she as well as we split down the middle. End all is get you a woman that's down for you 100% and don't like to be the person that's always willing to receive and not give.
Nothing like a woman who would give you her last dollar just cause she's that down for you :ohlawd:


But 6 years and no marriage tho.
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If she need it, I got it, she usually got it but just fukked up right now, and more importantly she would get me if I needed it, absolutely :myman:
 

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It's not. It makes sense. A lot of you nikkas are so scared to go outside and live life because you so afraid of taking an L. Type of nikkas that will have a broad all into you, willing to build or do whatever to make you happy but you scared to wife because wwwwhat if she cheats? she's American she will cheat on me.

Yall rather be lames sitting on the sidelines lonely as fukk because of fear, having to pay for prostitutes just for a woman to even touch your ass, talking bout #GMB #HOH :troll:

Ain't shyt guaranteed in life but death and taxes.

Investigate the broad. Look out for red flags. Then when you feel odds are in your favor, take a chance scared little nikka
I think the reason these cats so insecure is because they know they either ugly and or broke so they like what I got to offer the chick that any ole dude can't "take" her from me. That's the only way I can see cats sooo concerned about being cheated on. If it happens it happens but you can't be like I'm not going to get into a relationship because of something that may or may not happen.
 

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I am not going on vacations with women I am dating, she wants a vacation..she can go to disney land. I got the $100 for the ticket:mjgrin:
 

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A lot of nikkas are just out here wingin it on the relationship journey. No standards or expectations set from jump and then be scratchin their heads when she starts acting up and relationships or marriage fail


B-bbb-but that ass though. All my homies say Damn when I'm out with her. Money isn't everything you know :troll:


:whew: took a nikka a long ass time to learn this lesson. Dating became so much easier when I stopped fukkin broke bytches.


Nothing like a woman who would give you her last dollar just cause she's that down for you :ohlawd:


But 6 years and no marriage tho.
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No worries engagement on the anniversary. GMB :to:
 

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These the types of red flags dudes ignore early on in the flick. A woman that's worth keepin wouldn't even let you pay for everything if you offered.

Then nikkas be wondering why they end up in the situations they end up in. Straight sucka ass nikka shyt
 

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If we serious & I can afford it...sure. I'd also expect the same from her.

Also paying half of everything seems fair on trips etc....
 
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