Should bw ONLY date "high value men"?

[JasoRockStar]

Many black women already do that. The problem is when some of you don't get the results you desire either because of the men you choose or your own personality flaws, it becomes black men's fault as a whole. Also "choose better" is spoken in terms of a man's character, not his finances.

 

[skylove4]

Both men and women tend to vastly overrate themselves. Find someone that treats you right, that you can partner with to create a comfortable life and don’t mind fukking for the rest of your life and you will be fine

 

[TM101]

Theres literally not enough high value men to go around for anyone to date, forget BW.

People who want to get in relationships will find decent people to couple with if they really desire to do so.

Relationships are a personal decision, there is no one size solution for any dating demographic.

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[Will Ross]

The biggest issue with black women and dating is they either chase the limited high-value man or deal with the thug.
Than wonder why they don't get a ring or a man that is stable

 

[TreySav]

Regular guys should not be on our radar?

Cause that's what it sounds like yall be pushing around here.

"choose better".

How do you define a high value man and how do you define a regular guy? Can’t have this discussion without clear descriptions

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

Stop this high value/low value non sense. Sane people don't use these terms to describe people. Degrading af.

High / low ‘value’ can be a good bar to live by, but people fukk up by associating ‘value’ with your looks, fitness, income etc.

I look for ‘high value’ In everything from romantic relationships to friendships. but to me ’high value’ means they’re down to earth, empathetic, fun to be around, good sense of humor etc.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Many black women already do that. The problem is when those of you don't get the results you desire either because of the men you choose or your own personality flaws, it becomes black men's fault as a whole. Also "choose better" is spoken in terms of a man's character, not his finances.

Yes, but these same men say a womans value is all in her looks. They not choosing women based on character sohh why are they holding women to a standard they don't adhere to?

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Alot of bw love acting dumb when it comes to dating. Stay dating dudes with no job history, dudes in and out of prison, dudes with no futures then use their dating failures to paint all black men as that way.

 

[ricktheruler321]

My dad was a regular hardworking dude. Kinda like pops from everybody hates Chris. That is my preference.

Yeah. I don’t know why being a regular person has such a bad rep when it comes to dating.

 

[Paradoxx]

Alot of bw love acting dumb when it comes to dating. Stay dating dudes with no job history, dudes in and out of prison, dudes with no futures then use their dating failures to paint all black men as that way.

Now how does that particular demographic of black women that date those types of men, somehow speak for the rest of us black women.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Now how does that particular demographic of black women that date those types of men, somehow speak for the rest of us black women.

Literally every other bw I know falls into that demographic

 

[Houston911]

Many black women already do that. The problem is when those of you don't get the results you desire either because of the men you choose or your own personality flaws, it becomes black men's fault as a whole. Also "choose better" is spoken in terms of a man's character, not his finances.

Over 50 percent of women only 10 percent of men?

 

[JasoRockStar]

Yes, but these same men say a womans value is all in her looks. They not choosing women based on character sohh why are they holding women to a standard they don't adhere to?

They're fools for approaching a serious relationship with that outlook too. It"s no coincidence that many of those types of marriages end in divorce with the woman running their pockets. If your mindset is some perceived tit-for-tat "standard" BS, the result will be the same for you or anyone else. A woman's personality, interests and values are the most important areas for me. She doesn't need to look like Justine Skye.

 

[JasoRockStar]

Over 50 percent of women only 10 percent of men?

Now where did I say that? I said 'many' to denote a large number, not to say most or over 50%.