Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Lol at paying

 

[Art Barr]

because the man is supposed to be the head of the household and the bread winner. If he can't pay for a few dates here and there than he cant take care of a family.

subscribe to times and laws when women were slaves.
that were phased out as the main practice of the civil rights movement.
Then, preach equality in the same breath, brehettes.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Guys like pumping gas?

yeah, but since y'all call chivalry thirst.
a nikka can't open the door or pump your gas, without females ack'n like a twit.
that nice guy shyt y'all females outlawed to get some p*ssy.
Pump'n gas was apart of that nice guy shyt.
that real.nikkaz used to do, till y'all bum birds started having issue with chivalry/manners.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

men love gender roles until it comes to paying for a damn date I know most of the guys complaining got to be broke because if you have money dishing out money for a basic date aint that serious to you.

you, females of the coli never break kayfabe, do you.
Y'all think you got people fooled.
with this fake virtue bullshyt online.
y'all be posing like you really about that, when it is a boldface lie.

Art Barr

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

my original post stated that women should pay too. I simply said men should pay more though.

why should men pay more? what logical foundation has bought you to that conclusion?

 

[Colicat]

Maybe women should carry themselves as human beings who think rationally instead of carrying themselves as commodities willing to be bought by the highest bidder.

My developed my () is thinking rationally about the situation. Your mind, on the other hand, is less refined by default and cannot grasp the simple concepts the brehs are articulating in this thread.

 

[Art Barr]

Long story short, you are bitter and full of shyt

he is bitter, but the comment about females and dating is real.
Black women don't date who are high value committal types.
they let you spend time and get to know you.
way before all that going out shyt.


Art Barr

 

[Colicat]

he is bitter, but the comment about females and dating is real.
Black women don't date who are high value committal types.
they let you spend time and get to know you.
way before all that going out shyt.


Art Barr

When was the last time you were a Black woman? Help me understand...

 

[Art Barr]

I see it like this. If paying for dates is too much for him then is paying bills to much for him? Is he ever going to do special things for me? is he selfish? Should a man be paying for dates has only came into question in this generation because men are cheap and want everything from a woman for nothing. Your parents, grandparents, and great grandparents all knew that men should be paying for the dates but you 2010s men seem so overwhelmed with it. The bottom line is that there are gender roles. Men are expected to dish out more financial just like a woman is expected to do the most raising the kids and cooking and cleaning.

and yes what I said was opinionated.

marriage law changed from that 1950's bullshyt you talembout.

im a throwback so i cant even imagine not paying for a first date.

Ol let's take it back to when females were slaves.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

When was the last time you were a Black woman? Help me understand...

take offense to not being a non-committal type and be vested in gold-digger game, brehettes.

Art Barr

 

[Colicat]

take offense to not being a non-committal type and be vested in gold-digger game, brehettes.

Art Barr

Lump all Black women as non-committals and gold-diggers brehs

 

[Art Barr]

No lie breh you're a prolific poster!

kevm3 = best all time in the TLR.

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Lump all Black women as non-committals and gold-diggers brehs

be a bitter little prude twit, who uses gold digger game then gets mad when it is exposed, brehettes!

Art Barr

 

[beanz]

marriage law changed from that 1950's bullshyt you talembout.


Ol let's take it back to when females were slaves.


Art Barr

nah im more of a combo. i prefer a woman have the ability to pay but i also prefer if she didnt have to.

 

[FTBS]

I think what troubles a lot of men is the fact that women just have way more options. Most of the time these women already know who they attracted to but yet and still go get free food with some guy they not even feelin like that. They give you that hug and but...while they go chase the guy they wont. To me its just not enough honesty in the game.

And that honesty starts with yourself. If a woman is feeling you she is gonna make sure you know it through her actions. Same thing with a dude. The problem is you have a lot of grown ass men and women who are either oblivious to the signs that the opposite sex gives or they are delusional. What troubles men is the amount of time and effort they put into attracting women with poor results. That's not women's fault, just like it isn't mens fault when those tables turn later in life.