Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[mamba]

I would be glad that he is smart enough to do that. Duh who the hell pays more when they can pay less

That's what you say. But, you know damn well you'd feel some type of way if a nikka broke out coupons on a date.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Brehette, that's why you have a man unlike these other entitled chicks.

I hope that breh knows what he has in you and does right by you.

thank you lol

I might as well. He treats me right and works hard..why not spoil him every so often..I just want him to know that he's appreciated and his hard work doesn't go unnoticed..

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

it's amazing..dude grew up without a father in his life and ended up being one of the GOAT fathers besides @twan83 without the positive influence to teach him how...he and I fight like cats and dogs but there's nothing I wouldn't do for him.

 

[mamba]

thank you lol

I might as well. He treats me right and works hard..why not spoil him every so often..I just want him to know that he's appreciated and his hard work doesn't go unnoticed..

You sound like a winner. Chicks like you get wifed up. Keep doing what you're doing, brehette.

If he doesn't wife you up, I can guarantee you another man will.

 

[mamba]

Double post

 

[Desirous]

How would you all feel if a man consistently paid for dates with coupons and Groupons, brehettes?

@Colicat
@Teedot
@KenyaDoll
@Desirous
@Juicy
@Yup

He's still paying, right?

Don't care. Had someone pay for a first date with a Groupon coupon. We ended up dating. It's not about the money.

 

[KinksandCoils]

That's what you say. But, you know damn well you'd feel some type of way if a nikka broke out coupons on a date.

Nikka does your ass know me? I clearly said in this thread that I was cheap my damn self. I don't care if someone uses coupons on a date. If he had coupons and didn't use them I would think he was being silly.

 

[mamba]

Nikka does your ass know me? I clearly said in this thread that I was cheap my damn self. I don't care if someone uses coupons on a date. If he had coupons and didn't use them I would think he was being silly.

 

[KinksandCoils]

 

[Yup]

Yup men should always pay.

 

[Jahmal]

If I'm asking her out, then yeah Imma pay

I hate the whole "Whoever asks has to pay" rule because women rarely do the asking...


Ask a Hundred random dudes if they paid on their last first date and I bet 98 out of 100 say they paid.

 

[philmonroe]

at the end I was saying what gender roles do men have problems with other than paying for something?

I was saying that is basically the only one off top I can think of

 

[philmonroe]

Brehette, that's why you have a man unlike these other entitled chicks.

I hope that breh knows what he has in you and does right by you.

This because when things are equal who do chicks think we would pick? I guess they can say the same thing too so everybody do what works for you. I just don't want to see any complaining on either side about how you can't find somebody because of your choices

 

[Chill]

I hate the whole "Whoever asks has to pay" rule because women rarely do the asking...

I see where yall coming from but that's just part of the game you have to be prepared to take losses. When I'm taking a woman out to date I'm looking at long-term so I'm not too hurt about the money I put into it. If I was in the dating game just to see how quick I could smash and shyt then yeah I could definitely see why paying all the time is an issue.

 

[Jahmal]

I see where yall coming from but that's just part of the game you have to be prepared to take losses. When I'm taking a woman out to date I'm looking at long-term so I'm not too hurt about the money I put into it. If I was in the dating game just to see how quick I could smash and shyt then yeah I could definitely see why paying all the time is an issue.

What city do you live in?