Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[MikelArteta]

Always get there early and tell the waitor separate bills

Let the chick gobble on that tender 35 dollar steak, than 5 dollar drink, that dessert

Go right ahead eat up


I already know because of my aura of kindness and my introverted laid back personality these brehettes eyes light up.

Like uncle Phil playing pool I'm all dimwitted and wow I've never been on a date with a woman like this before wow tell me.

But I've been here before , I've seen this before :smugasian:

 

[Taadow]

Me personally, I only date women who contribute to the cause. I don't condone close-fisted, tin cup-handed, "me me me" b#tches. I like oblation.

You see, real chicks bring sh#t to the table. Real chicks don't expect something for nothing. Real chicks like doing nice things for their dude on special occassions and just because. Real chicks date real dudes who expect them to contribute more than p*ssy, so they act accordingly because they want to keep said real dude instead of having to date lames.

Real chicks are used to winning, so they don't trip off dates. If a woman likes you, she'll pay for you....that simple.

Basic chicks want to squeeze as much free sh#t and favors as they can out of the dating game. Basic chicks barter sex and/or the chance of sex in order to get as many free dinners, movies and gifts as they can. Basic chicks never want to open their purse because A. they are cheap and B. they are usually broke. Basic chicks always have an excuse for being basic.

Basic chicks are used to losing, so they use the dating game as a way of upping the ante. Dating for them is a contact sport.

Chicks are a collection of their experiences and who they've dated. So, if a chick is real, then she most like dated real dudes in the past. Same for a basic chick.....she most likely dated thirsty, broke, lames who jumped through hoops and played into her mind games.

With all that being said, you can't be a lame and get real chicks, so that may be the larger issue for many of The Coli.

Peace

This was almost a 100% perfect post, then we got to the bold.

You can absolutely be lame and get real chicks, and vice versa. It happens all the time.
Everything else is on point, doe.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Always get there early and tell the waitor separate bills

Let the chick gobble on that tender 35 dollar steak, than 5 dollar drink, that dessert

Go right ahead eat up


I already know because of my aura of kindness and my introverted laid back personality these brehettes eyes light up.

Like uncle Phil playing pool I'm all dimwitted and wow I've never been on a date with a woman like this before wow tell me.

But I've been here before , I've seen this before :smugasian:

LOL!!!

 

[Yup]

Why should men always pay?

Because they are men. I have never met any men that has ever had an issue with this.

 

[mcdivit85]

This was almost a 100% perfect post, then we got to the bold.

You can absolutely be lame and get real chicks, and vice versa. It happens all the time.
Everything else is on point, doe.

Where does this happen? I see lames getting chicks but not cream of the crop. And by cream of the crop, I don't mean just looks or just credentials. And if they do happen to catch one, it doesn't last.

But maybe it's different on this side.

Peace

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I don't pay for shyt....I found out early in life how many free things females get just for existing so I make sure to be the living reversal for that. I wouldn't put a dollar in a bytch's hand to get away.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Where does this happen? I see lames getting chicks but not cream of the crop. And by cream of the crop, I don't mean just looks or just credentials. And if they do happen to catch one, it doesn't last.

But maybe it's different on this side.

Peace

You can't predict or quantify that. It's totally random and chemistry supersedes anything else. Sorry breh.

 

[Taadow]

Where does this happen? I see lames getting chicks but not cream of the crop. And by cream of the crop, I don't mean just looks or just credentials. And if they do happen to catch one, it doesn't last.

But maybe it's different on this side.

Peace

Playboy, I see it all the time...but this is the midwest, doe. Lotta these people got married at 20
and got stuck with somebody lame.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

If you "expect" a woman to pay for the dinner date, you are emasculating yourself. It has nothing to do with modern day relationship standards. When you "look" like a mooch, "act" like a mooch, have expectations of a "mooch", then that is what you are. Word gets around. Your reputation is one of a boy, not a grown man. You want to know who is wearing the pants in a relationship where the woman is paying for the meal? It definitely isn't the dude. Go to a work-related Christmas party, everyone will look at you like the cheapest d-bag of the universe. "Oh, you're so-and-so's boyfriend. I've heard lots about you. Nice to meet you. <fake smile>".
If the relationship has been going along for awhile and she wants to 'treat' you, that's different.

So you let hoes trying to get free things and a 50 year old social standard define your masculinity for you breh?
Yup and I'll be that cheap d-bag with a pocket full of my own bread looking fresh as fukk.

 

[Taadow]

Because they are men. I have never met any men that has ever had an issue with this.

Lemme get this straight -
you have never, ever, met "any" men who took issue with "always" paying?

 

[Amphibious]

I pay for my own shyt, as for her...she's on her own.

 

[Amphibious]

Yup men should always pay.

Give a good reason why. Since you support inequality then you have to obey my every order since I'm paying for your life. Any disobedience from my orders may result in death.

 

[William F. Russell]

Yup men should always pay.

What happened to all that talk about women being independent and equal to men? :wengerknows:

 

[Taadow]

What happened to all that talk about women being independent and equal to men? :wengerknows:

I'm over here crackin' up, mayne.

It's funny to me how they can feel that's just the mans' role...
and then freely admit they ain't gonna "always" be cookin' for a man...
and if you go to their place, it ain't really that clean (that's me taking it easy)...

WHO BYTCH THESE IS??

 

[Yup]

Give a good reason why. Since you support inequality then you have to obey my every order since I'm paying for your life. Any disobedience from my orders may result in death.

Paying on dates mean now that you own my life? Lol!