Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

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Again, why are you paying for strangers you just met? Were friends until I see otherwise. Lets hit up a bar, get a little tipsy and chop it up. I pay for a round, you pay for a round. Got a issue with that you a beeytchhhhhh
 

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I don't pay for dates when I'm single :manny: I'd rather spend my money on other dumb shyt

Wasting time and paying cash for the off chance that you might get some p*ssy? Nah but that was when I was single

Now me and my lady take turns when we go out and its always been like that with all my women. Let them know in the gate on the first phone convo that its 50/50 and you wont have to worry about it. The leechin ass broads weed themselves out

You're a grown ass woman, pay for yourself. If they don't understand that, then they can:camby: theirs always more where you came from

Exactly. That's how it should be.
 

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On a first date you don't have to spend big bread. Any first date that I went in that involved dinner, I always paid. It's nothin. fukk I look like trying to ask the bytch to pay for half :childplease: That shyt is mad corny and it makes a nikka look cheap.

Some of yall nikkaz must fukk with low budget budget, bottom of the barrel type of females :mjlol:
 

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I'm still team #HOH but I know a lot of nikkaz in this thread are straight up tellin :duck: about goin out on dates (especially) 1st dates and when the check comes, they tell the chick to pay half :mjlol:
 

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I don't pay for dates when I'm single :manny: I'd rather spend my money on other dumb shyt

Wasting time and paying cash for the off chance that you might get some p*ssy? Nah but that was when I was single

Now me and my lady take turns when we go out and its always been like that with all my women. Let them know in the gate on the first phone convo that its 50/50 and you wont have to worry about it. The leechin ass broads weed themselves out

You're a grown ass woman, pay for yourself. If they don't understand that, then they can:camby: theirs always more where you came from

That's where you fukked up breh. :ufdup: that mindset ain't wavy. Equating paying for food to p*ssy ain't the right way to think
 

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I don't pay for dates when I'm single :manny: I'd rather spend my money on other dumb shyt

Wasting time and paying cash for the off chance that you might get some p*ssy? Nah but that was when I was single

Now me and my lady take turns when we go out and its always been like that with all my women. Let them know in the gate on the first phone convo that its 50/50 and you wont have to worry about it. The leechin ass broads weed themselves out

You're a grown ass woman, pay for yourself. If they don't understand that, then they can:camby: theirs always more where you came from

And I bet you are limiting your dating experience.
 

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Again, why are you paying for strangers you just met? Were friends until I see otherwise. Lets hit up a bar, get a little tipsy and chop it up. I pay for a round, you pay for a round. Got a issue with that you a beeytchhhhhh

Why are you approaching strangers with the expectation that she sleep with you cause you think she's cute.
 

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if he can afford it, yes.

if he's poor, he should just tell her beforehand so she can decide and pay.
 
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Why are you approaching strangers with the expectation that she sleep with you cause you think she's cute.
I don't. I'm approaching to see if we can develop mutual interest. Nothing to do with sex.
 

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And I bet you are limiting your dating experience.

What? You sound ignorant and most likely broke. Women that make money usually don't have a problem with it. It's the scavengers that expect a dude to take care of them because they don't make anything or have kids.

I'm 29, no kids, decent job(s) , in good shape, college educated, and tall. I get subtly and sometimes outright asked out on dates by women.

The most a nikka might have to do is cover some coffee or a drink. Dinner and / or movies and all that shyt isn't happening.

That's where you fukked up breh. :ufdup: that mindset ain't wavy. Equating paying for food to p*ssy ain't the right way to think

:heh: I'm not out here looking for a wife but if I happen to find her then cool. And that's something you be straight up with from the jump.
 
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