Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Okay breh.

so you think its wise to just pay for hoes when they ask you to, you're a human atm breh. you may as well buy hoes shyt on there amazon wishlist while you're at it.

 

[Chill]

So you just paid for 9 dates in a row with 2 women and havent even kissed them. Spent hundreds of dollars to get a hug and a "You're such a nice guy" text. Be a Simp in 2015 Brehs.

I haven't gotten that text in a long ass time so .

so you think its wise to just pay for hoes when they ask you to, you're a human atm breh. you may as well buy hoes shyt on there amazon wishlist while you're at it.

nikkas jumping to straight conclusions. Despite knowing the constant variables that are infulencing the date as well as the dating game itself and the two people on the date.

I'll let y'all have it.

 

[Medicate]

I remember years ago I took a fly ass chick on a date. The date went well and we even made out in the parking lot afterwards. The next day I went out to a sports bar with my boys and saw her on a date with another dude. She didnt see me because I posotioned myself in a way that she wouldnt be able to see my face. Two days later I was walking around at the mall and saw her in a restaurant with another dude. I deleted her number. These women getting all these free meals from guys and the guys wont even get a whiff of the p*ssy.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

I haven't gotten that text in a long ass time so .




nikkas jumping to straight conclusions. Despite knowing the constant variables that are infulencing the date as well as the dating game itself and the two people on the date.

I'll let y'all have it.

even if you was hittin every chick you date, its still stupid. very stupid were trying to help you, help you

 

[Chill]

even if you was hittin every chick you date, its still stupid. very stupid were trying to help you, help you

Nah, we are looking at different goals here.

You can have it.

 

[Jahmal]

I haven't gotten that text in a long ass time so .

But if you did get a text like that you would be paying...

 

[Chill]

But if you did get a text like that you would be paying...

No.

 

[KenyaDoll]

Nah, we are looking at different goals here.

You can have it.

Many of these guys are very young, some don't really like women, and some probably haven't felt the touch of a woman who genuinely cares about them in years (if ever). Ignore them and do you. I wish you the best and hope you find a woman who can play her role with the same level of rigor that you play yours.

 

[Jahmal]

Nah, we are looking at different goals here.

You can have it.

I understand what you are looking for but you cant be taking every chick you meet out to multiple dinner dates. These chicks are using guys like you for free meals. They will tell you that they are looking for a relationship just so you can take them out and spend bread on restaurants. Ifyou really want to know if a woman like you then invite her out for a walk at a Park. If she flakes on your then you know what it is. My best dates have been hiking up Stone Mountain or Walking around at Piedmont Park. No money spent(not including gas).

 

[Jahmal]

No.

You've already admitted that you would have paid the bill. You cant backtrack now.

 

[Jahmal]

Because that's just how I was raised to play the dating game .

I would just rather pay, I feel like it's an insult otherwise.

Insulting her? She is Insulting you by inviting you out and not paying!

 

[Chill]

You've already admitted that you would have paid the bill. You cant backtrack now.

Then in all honestly I accept my fate to spend money. I'm not one who is trying to be cheap or get the most return value on a date. I can afford it so I'm trying to enjoy myself so I'm going to spend money.

 

[Jahmal]

Many of these guys are very young, some don't really like women, and some probably haven't felt the touch of a woman who genuinely cares about them in years (if ever). Ignore them and do you. I wish you the best and hope you find a woman who can play her role with the same level of rigor that you play yours.

A woman telling a guy to keep tricking his money on dinner dates. You Go Girl!

 

[Jahmal]

Then in all honestly I accept my fate to spend money. I'm not one who is trying to be cheap or get the most return value on a date. I can afford it so I'm trying to enjoy myself so I'm going to spend money.

It has nothing to do with being cheap. I can afford to take women on $500 dates but why would I do that on a woman that isn't my wife?

The purpose of a date is to talk to get to know eachother better. A walk in the park would be a more effective first date than sitting across from each other at a table like an interview and watching each other stuff overpriced food down our throats.

 

[Chill]

It has nothing to do with being cheap. I can afford to take women on $500 dates but why would I do that on a woman that isn't my wife?

So let me get this straight...you are going this route to avoid being used and putting your money into a woman for no reason right?