Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[Desirous]

it is the point.
as no law, supports a man committing the whole entire one hundred percent.
plus, the law is fifty/fifty.
so, in the beginning that is why successful black couples who are on committals.
get together by visiting one another, and not spending money on a date.
I know this shyt as a science and know what females do in general and the connotation involved in proposing dates to a female you just mate.
it says you are an insecure fool with low dating experience. That likes to be taken and a female will readily take from you, as that is what they do.
as standard if you click on their taker based initiative by proposing a date before you are intimate.
I know this to be real,...
as I lived it and found the matrix to up game.
that completely works when getting up with females.
plus, getting them to respect you from a male perspective.
where they shut off the take iniative as you never engage it to be taken in the first place.
females, now do.not respect men who court in a traditional sense.
females who are real and will really play you, to just the ones who will get up with you in general.
all know not to get with the guy talembout going on a date as the first thing out his mouth.
if, they bite on a date asker, they are a roster builder/slash gold digger.
I know this shyt, all to real cause I live the shyt and I know what does not work, in nature.
plus, is not represented by any law or actual braintrust of females who are on any side of the spectrum in general.
females know,...
a guy who asks for date are unactualized in the dating game and are equal to food out'chere.

any female disputing it is not breaking kayfabe.
Or, just to hellbent on voicing their exceptions to the rule.
when, life is about generalizations, not the exceptions.


Art Barr

Do what you want. It really doesn't warrant a novel.

 

[Jahmal]

I gave a number of reasons why SOME men in thread are CHASTISING one man because he doesn't mind paying for dates. You can't even follow the conversation so I doubt you can follow logic.

KenyaDoll: Hey what are you doing?
Man: chillin whats good
KenyaDoll: I'm in your area visiting my homegirl. Have you eaten lunch yet?
Man: No I havent
KenyaDoll: Me either, lets get some lunch at Houston's
Me: Ok


When the bill comes, are you reaching in your purse to pay the $72 bill since you invited him?

 

[Jahmal]

More power to you. Don't pay if someone invites you out. I don't really care how other people manage their dating lives.

You seem to care because you are coming to the aide of this Trick

 

[KenyaDoll]

You seem to care because you are coming to the aide of this Trick

I care about calling out stupidity and your failed attempts to try to make him feel bad about the way he lives his life.

 

[Chill]

When did I ever say be frugal on all dates? All I'm saying is you shouldn't be dishing out a bunch of bread when you first meet a female. Many females have dates lined up with Tricks like you and are just using you for free meals. If a female isn't down to chill with you at a park, art festival, hiking, working out at the gym or any activity where money is being spent and will only meet up with you for a date if you are spending money then what does that tell you...

It tells me that she's on some bullshyt. But In my experience I've had a woman return the favor for the dates I take her on. I've even had her invite me to a place that I didn't have to pay for anything and she covered it all. But for the most part I just prefer to pay.

Anyways I'm done with this topic, you have your ways to success and I have mine.

 

[KenyaDoll]

KenyaDoll: Hey what are you doing?
Man: chillin whats good
KenyaDoll: I'm in your area visiting my homegirl. Have you eaten lunch yet?
Man: No I havent
KenyaDoll: Me either, lets get some lunch at Houston's
Me: Ok


When the bill comes, are you reaching in your purse to pay the $72 bill since you invited him?

This conversation sounds like an invitation from a platonic guy friend. I don't expect platonic guy friends to pay for my meals.

edit: oh that's me inviting a guy out. Again, that sounds like a platonic invitation that I'd send to a platonic guy friend. I'd expect us to pay for our own food.

 

[jjj123]

Lol @ nikkas taking females on dates spending $$$ and yall aint committed/intimate...thats sum oldschool simp shyt them ole nikkas laidout back in the day...es no bueno, compadres

 

[Docaveli]

I take my man out and pay for everything because I love his dumb ass. Women should foot the bill every so often...if she's feeling him of course..

Smh, and dudes in here are actuall consigning this nonsense, so ur man is a dumbass, retarded and yet u are still with him?

All the options women have and men too and they still chose willingly to settle for less

Tommorow when something tragic happens no one will hold u accountable instead we gun gt another stream of commercials talking about no more.

 

[Art Barr]

Do what you want. It really doesn't warrant a novel.

deflect on length,..
when, you are a female who needed a lengthy civil rights movement to not be a slave.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

It tells me that she's on some bullshyt. But In my experience I've had a woman return the favor for the dates I take her on. I've even had her invite me to a place that I didn't have to pay for anything and she covered it all. But for the most part I just prefer to pay.

Anyways I'm done with this topic, you have your ways to success and I have mine.

set yourself up to be taken, and then be emotionally hurt.
where you have to learn about the manosphere you originally shunned who could have helped you from enduring the turmoil you put yourself in.
all, because you were to ignorant to pay attention to the pulse of what occurs in the dialectic of male/female.
you, sound like them old ass baby boomers asking me for advice on how I stay happy when dealing with females.
plus, how to avoid being taken for a simp.
plus, never have a woman ever view you in that light to begin with.
you, sound like these old broken divorcee's and don't eem know it.
ol'bae,...
we can make our own idea of marriage.
while, ol girl is playing you for a starter marriage and having opening visions of I can now get fat meme's at your expense.


set yourself up for the fall, and being unable to comeback.
all, because you will be so set in your ways.
that you are always food, breh.


Art Barr

 

[Desirous]

deflect on length,..
when, you are a female who needed a lengthy civil rights movement to not be a slave.


Art Barr

You're just trying too hard to make a point based on your opinion.

 

[Jahmal]

I care about calling out stupidity and your failed attempts to try to make him feel bad about the way he lives his life.

My goal wasnt to make him feel bad. It was to make him admit that he was raised as a Trick and I was successful at getting him to admit that.

 

[Jahmal]

It tells me that she's on some bullshyt. But In my experience I've had a woman return the favor for the dates I take her on. I've even had her invite me to a place that I didn't have to pay for anything and she covered it all. But for the most part I just prefer to pay.

Anyways I'm done with this topic, you have your ways to success and I have mine.

How is your way working out for you? Are you married yet?

 

[Art Barr]

You're just trying too hard to make a point based on your opinion.

my points are welled in fact and actual law.
plus, experience authenicating people who take the exam that governs said laws.
you are the one, either not breaking kayfabe.
or, you are completely ignorant to the law.
plus, men being a provider being dead for half a century plus.
plus, you showed you don't read because I have mentioned marriage law and what it is in basic scope percentage wise numerous times.
you, are an ignorant woman still clinging to slave based ideals.
like not reading, for starters.
when, you were given the right to read and not be a slave.
from people supplying length, you fool.


Art Barr

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

My goal wasnt to make him feel bad. It was to make him admit that he was raised as a Trick and I was successful at getting him to admit that.

prolific posting!


Art Barr