Since gender roles are reserving anyway. Wouldn't it make sense for women to approach men?

[FSP]

How many women on that Bumble

 

[Vice Queen]

I agree. I also think everyone should suffer rejection to build up a tolerance.

It builds character.

 

[Lo-Co]

If you gotta do all these stunts and shows to get a man's attention, that's desperate.

Walking up to a man, striking up convo and sliding him your Digits, not so much.

I agree with that. If I gotta be all

Just to get your attention, then it really is desperate. And let's say it works, you gotta keep that shyt up to keep them

Body language classes should be mandatory.

I'm horrible with body language, I'd blame the spectrum but I believe I could get past it and learn.

 

[Prince Mongo]

it's been happening for years to me

guess some of y'all might not be so lucky

I'm ugly. The only female that's approached me since high school I thought was trying to prank me or something

 

[Prince Mongo]

It builds character.

Idk about that. I think it destroys your character after it happens enough, for men and women

 

[Weaver31]

I think either party should approach if they feel like. I do understand gender dynamics have evolved with feminism and women evolving in the workforce and doing their thang. Nowadays, heterosexual women don't even need a man to survive...only if they want sex or to reproduce. But I think a man should still be what's considered a "real man" by society. Both men and women can be good and effective leaders...but a man should take lead when necessary and at the right time. If a man have a convo with a female and there is obvious attraction there and he wants to pursue the female....he should be brave enough to ask her for her number or whatever. A female can ask too but the man should not be too scared...being there is obvious chemistry. I think females should make themselves more approachable if they are into the men approaching. Also a man should protect his woman and the woman should be the backbone of her man and look out for him.

I have mentioned on here that females have more privileges than men but real talk...evolving generations and feminism have caused some confusion with gender roles and its affecting each generation more and more. We had similar topics on here before about this and I think its good seeing how things have changed since my parents and grandparents generations.

 

[Vice Queen]

Idk about that. I think it destroys your character after it happens enough, for men and women

It is dependent on the individual. Some might takeit and learn from it, others become Elliot Rogers.

 

[Weaver31]

Body language classes should be mandatory.

You might be right. Sometimes missing signs can cause one to miss out on great opportunities. But this along with other social and people knowledge/skills increases with wisdom...living life and getting older.

 

[FSP]

It builds character.

Go away evil spirit

 

[Aphrodite]

Many women do approach men though.

 

[Neuromancer]

Idk about that. I think it destroys your character after it happens enough, for men and women

Elaborate.

 

[Neuromancer]

Many women do approach men though.

Define many.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

The average woman would have a mental break down after getting rejected a few times. They're not mentally strong enough to handle the responsibility of approaching.

They would rather sit back and criticize men for not approaching enough than dive in themselves.

 

[Vice Queen]

Go away evil spirit

You cannot have life without death.

 

[DrX]

I'll flirt. I'm great at that!

However I'm not approaching any man. That's not happening. I'm kinda old school though. Even in a relationship I'm more so willing to let the man take the lead.

I know how to stand up for myself though.

yeah but how do u expect to get the man that u want? what if hes too shy or traumatized from his past rejections?