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Exactly

Accountability and responsibility is kryptonite to us on topic like this

I have seen sisters immediately jump to stats when they see that fake headline of black women being the most educated

When in actuality that was just for a certain time period like 8 years ago
They were only the most enrolled in 2014, friend.
 

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Myth vs. Fact With Dr. Ivory Toldson

Experts Say 42% of black women are not married, but what they don’t tell you… Let’s talk about the Black marriage crisis with Dr. Ivory Toldson.


This guy actually studies stats and how they are manipulated. Check it out.
 

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Who the fukk cares about the other figures? the number for black women is too high :snoop:
 

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You seriously blaming only women for something that requires two people?

No wonder some of these men aint got any d!ck discipline and choose to impregnate women they arent committed to. Its always someone else's fault. Men didnt realise theyre boys and those boys in their 30s and 40s, never chose to grow up and still blaming a woman for his choices like an undeveloped mommas boy.

And some yall really wanna be leaders in the community that are respected when you can't even lead your d!ck properly and respect yourself.

:mjlol:

If men chose better, had standards, had a true commitment to the family, and some discipline in their lives this would drop to single digits in 1 generation. Women follow men based on the man's standard, but yall like it the other way around.

I've made this argument before. As men, we should be raising our kids. Full stop.

Women make stupid decisions, for sure. But we're supposed to be the leaders of the community.

The problem is the Black father was pushed out of the household. 60, 70, 80 years ago, Dirty dikk Rodney wouldn't have been going around getting 7 different women pregnant. His ass would've gotten knocked out after the first baby was born and he would've been forced to raise his kids. Now the nikka might've had a family across the city later on :francis: but, there's no way the community would've let him get to 5, 6, 7 baby mamas. Most women's brothers/fathers wouldn't have been going for it so it wouldn't have gotten that far. We don't have shame or protective fathers in the community anymore :yeshrug:
 
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Interesting numbers but a bit misleading.

White women and Latinas are (probably) more likely to be married when they get pregnant.....but they often get divorced later on, ESPECIALLY white women. They'll put up with Chad until the kids are in college and then get a divorce.

This also doesn't factor in paternal involvement. Read somewhere that Black men are more involved with their kids every day than other races.

Charts like these are just fodder to make white men look good. They want ALL women to default to white men.
 

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Me and my immediate circle are all married to the mothers of our kids ain't no baby daddies over here. fukk I look like taking blame for other dudes.
Same here. Either married, divorced, remarried or single and childless. Not one baby daddy, friend.
 
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You seriously blaming only women for something that requires two people?

No wonder some of these men aint got any d!ck discipline and choose to impregnate women they arent committed to. Its always someone else's fault. Men didnt realise theyre boys and those boys in their 30s and 40s, never chose to grow up and still blaming a woman for his choices like an undeveloped mommas boy.

And some yall really wanna be leaders in the community that are respected when you can't even lead your d!ck properly and respect yourself.

:mjlol:

If men chose better, had standards, had a true commitment to the family, and some discipline in their lives this would drop to single digits in 1 generation. Women follow men based on the man's standard, but yall like it the other way around.
Its the other way around because the responsibility of having a baby lies more on the baby.....

First yall agree with "my body, my choice" now its "men are the leaders" to argue that it's the fault of men. Yes men are leaders but that doesnt mean we can lead in all areas. It's like saying because someone is smarter than another person they will always make better decisions.

At the end of the day, if a women decides to keep a baby and the man doesnt want to keep it.....the lady has the ultimate decision.
If the man wants to keep the baby and the woman wants o get an abortion, the lady still has the ultimate decision.

The pookies of the black community would struggle to make women baby mothers, especially in the asian community, why.....because the woman and the culture don't fukk with guys who aren't trying to marry....yeah they may have sex but they wouldnt dare get pregnant.

We have to have a honest conversation and admit that our women have the worst decision making when it comes to picking men and dont date for marrigae...them pop the balloon shows are a big indicator of it.

Now that's not to absolve men of all the blame, they play a part...espcially when it comes to discipline when it comes to sex and overvaluing having sex with multiple women but women control access to sex so take on more responsibility.
 
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