Six Goddess Ends Fatphobia With Epic Fat Shaming Episode

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I think there is a line between fat acceptance, and not dehumanizing people because they are big. Some people really do go all or nothing. Like just because people are fat doesn't mean they should be treated poorly. I also think people with really low self esteem and shame will not work out. I've seen really big people in the gym and they are super self conscious and it makes me wonder how many more just won't go because of the shame. There's also studies that show that the more you shame fat people, the more they will retreat into their little hole and eat their feelings away, it's counter productive. Yea a few people may be inspired to change, but if shaming really worked, we wouldn't have any fat people. So there needs to be balance there.

The problem with your analogy is that people have to eat. So "quitting" isn't an option. Losing weight is important, but we are not teaching people HOW to eat. If you just drop the weight and still eat shyt, you're still unhealthy. I work with kids, and it's crazy how many kids think McDonald's and soda are fine as long as they aren't fat. These girls and boys will continue to consume this shyt, and then when they hit 30 and blow up, they will blame it on aging or genes. But it's really hard to deprogram someone from eating shyt after they've been doing it for decades, especially since they have to eat everyday anyway and the fast food is right there and cheap. I just think our focus is wrong when it comes to food. Michelle Obama had the right idea, it starts really early.
The problem is that fat acceptance is promoted and I have yet to see any push to stop that. I'm not sure why this is being ignored. And being upset about shaming is pointless because people will shame other people for anything. We see skinny people shamed and little is said or done about that. The simple fact is is that obesity is essentially a disease that needs to be stopped. Full stop, feelings be damned. You claim there needs to be a balance, but I posted some facts and got jeulzing in return. I mean really now. Lose weight or die. That's all there is to it.

People don't need to overeat, the analogy is sound. More so, there are alternative to smoking that allow someone access to nicotine, just like how healthy food choices and exercise can offset obesity and many of the issues that go with it. How am I explaining this to anyone in this day and age? Again, this is a lot of jeulzing for a very straight-forward issue. :mjtf:
 

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I don't like the vindictive and mean spirited nature of fat content here or on twitter. I'm someone who thinks obesity is a health crisis, and "fat acceptance" is a problem. But it feels more like misogyny when I peep the tone of these conversations. And none of this smoke is applied to fat men, who may not be on the PUBLIC "fat acceptance" wave but clearly have accepted their personal fatness as much as women, and aren't trying to lose weight.

In terms of the video the points mentioned here seem legit. We have a dangerous movement of people ignoring basic science and masking themselves in the language of an oppressed minority class. Doctors aren't backing down which is good, but more needs to be done to combat this.
 

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Stop being afraid of your woman.

Alot of y'all are getting punked I to loving all that big when you really don't because you're afraid of losing you're woman by simply telling her to work out with you.
This

One of the things I've realized is how much of what women complain about (in regards to body standards specifically) is very... fleeting.

So many women who complain will have no issues meeting the standard if it's for a guy they admire or are into. And a lot of them are not forgiving to men who don't meet the standard either.
 

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The problem is that fat acceptance is promoted and I have yet to see any push to stop that. I'm not sure why this is being ignored. And being upset about shaming is pointless because people will shame other people for anything. We see skinny people shamed and little is said or done about that. The simple fact is is that obesity is essentially a disease that needs to be stopped. Full stop, feelings be damned. You claim there needs to be a balance, but I posted some facts and got jeulzing in return. I mean really now. Lose weight or die. That's all there is to it.

People don't need to overeat, the analogy is sound. More so, there are alternative to smoking that allow someone access to nicotine, just like how healthy food choices and exercise can offset obesity and many of the issues that go with it. How am I explaining this to anyone in this day and age? Again, this is a lot of jeulzing for a very straight-forward issue. :mjtf:

I mean if you really want solutions, the fat shaming thing doesn't work. There's several empirical studies that prove it doesn't work, in fact, it's counter productive and actually makes people bigger. It's like telling a broke person with poor spending habits they need to move better and get richer. They don't know how to get rich, they will try some things they've heard about sure, but even if they end up making a little more money, they will still remain broke because they still don't know how to handle their money. For some reason shaming people is the only thing people like to talk about which just underscores this has nothing to do with concern about health because there are proven approaches to helping people lose weight, and they are not being discussed here at all.



 

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Wait y'all don't workout with y'all lady? Smfh

Bruh

Couples workout
Couples shower
Then it's time to fukk fukk
Then a healthy meal
Then that BED

Text ya old lady right now!

"Baby we finna hit these miles then them mats then a shower...then we gon fukk fukk"

Two fukks so she know it's really real

nikka eat dinner then hit that bed I bet y'all won't make two episodes before y'all sleeping GOOD as fukk
 

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It's bad enough most of these bytches are fat, but they actively try to shame other women for being in shape.

My gf who is slim and petite, told me an older black lady at her job asked if she had body dysmorphia because she was eating a salad and she's already tiny.
It's a cult. The more members they have the more sway they have over reality.

How insane does a woman who's fat have to be to ask a slim woman if she has an eating disorder.
 

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I mean if you really want solutions, the fat shaming thing doesn't work. There's several empirical studies that prove it doesn't work, in fact, it's counter productive and actually makes people bigger. It's like telling a broke person with poor spending habits they need to move better and get richer. They don't know how to get rich, they will try some things they've heard about sure, but even if they end up making a little more money, they will still remain broke because they still don't know how to handle their money. For some reason shaming people is the only thing people like to talk about which just underscores this has nothing to do with concern about health because there are proven approaches to helping people lose weight, and they are not being discussed here at all.



The problem is what constitutes fat-shaming? This is the problem. Even in the studies posted, there is little consensus among them. Again, this is the problem. We have seen situations where merely talking about obesity in a medical setting is classed as fat shaming. This a problem. It is too amorphous to take seriously and if we do, we need to figure out exactly what that is, something I doubt many people want to do. And how does this end fat acceptance? And your analogy is flawed because doctors, nutritionists, and many healthcare providers (many healthcare providers operate on a team-based healthcare model also) have the means to provide information and tools for weight loss (as I mentioned earlier). The HHS literally will help out in that regards, for free as well. There are countless workout videos too for self-directed care, community centers that cater to fat people so they can lose weight. There has never been an easier to time to lose weight outside of a famine. There's really no excuse and anything else is just trying to move goalposts or change the discussion to evade some form of accountability.
 

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Exactly. Motherfukkas love to gossip. And it be the SAME suspects in those type of threads.
How is caring about the health of women gossip.

If you're a man who has a large black family and or only dates black women it's a serious issue and is not gossip.
Your family and dating pool are both compromised and by proxy extended family. It's a public health concern.
 

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The problem is what constitutes fat-shaming? This is the problem. Even in the studies posted, there is little consensus among them. Again, this is the problem. We have seen situations where merely talking about obesity in a medical setting is classed as fat shaming. This a problem. It is too amorphous to take seriously and if we do, we need to figure out exactly what that is, something I doubt many people want to do. And how does this end fat acceptance? And your analogy is flawed because doctors, nutritionists, and many healthcare providers (many healthcare providers operate on a team-based healthcare model also) have the means to provide information and tools for weight loss (as I mentioned earlier). The HHS literally will help out in that regards, for free as well. There are countless workout videos too for self-directed care, community centers that cater to fat people so they can lose weight. There has never been an easier to time to lose weight outside of a famine. There's really no excuse and anything else is just trying to move goalposts or change the discussion to evade some form of accountability.

Yeah, I mean there's tons of stuff out there but at the end of the day, getting healthy is 90% diet. You can work out all you want, but if you keep shoveling shyt in your mouth, you're unhealthy, fat or not. There's hundreds of TikToks and Youtube channels featuring obese people doing work outs. Like LEADING workouts. They're working out, they're sweating, and then they go home and eat Popeye's because they feel like they've burned those calories so it should be all good. And a lot of the information given out would lead people to believe this. That as long as you work off the calories you put in, you should be good, but that's not how a lot of people's bodies work, and even if it does lead to weight loss, it doesn't help their insides, their arteries.
 

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Yeah, I mean there's tons of stuff out there but at the end of the day, getting healthy is 90% diet. You can work out all you want, but if you keep shoveling shyt in your mouth, you're unhealthy, fat or not. There's hundreds of TikToks and Youtube channels featuring obese people doing work outs. Like LEADING workouts. They're working out, they're sweating, and then they go home and eat Popeye's because they feel like they've burned those calories so it should be all good. And a lot of the information given out would lead people to believe this. That as long as you work off the calories you put in, you should be good, but that's not how a lot of people's bodies work, and even if it does lead to weight loss, it doesn't help their insides, their arteries.
Which is why I mentioned doctors, nutritionists, and so forth. Because it is medicalized, it is easier to run tests and all that at a lower cost and outright utilize actual medical means outside of mere discussions to have someone lose weight. Outside of that, if they have comorbidities, tests will be ran to determine if there are any other issues. More often than not, diet, be it food substitution or what not, or many other things is enough. Losing weight is enough to cut down on many issues considerably. Diabetes, one of the most pervasive, being one of many.
 
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