Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

[LadySimone]

i remember my godson mom was getting like 500 a month in child support, that was straight going to rent

Rent for the place you godson lived at? Who was paying for the water gas and electricity he used? How about food and clothes? Did you godson take the bus or get a ride to school and other places? Who paid for his transport?

 

[LadySimone]

How can men be optimistic about an institution with a 50% divorce rate, with 80+% of divorces initiated by women?

How can men be optimistic about losing custody of children, having to pay child support and having to pay alimony (by default) in the case of a divorce?

How can men be optimistic about marrying women who subscribe to feminist values only when convenient?

How can men be optimistic about the idea of marriage when marriage presents no tangible legal benefits yet can have very serious legal detriments?

Men losing custody or men not wanting custody? Most men want the women to babysit his kid. You guys are NOT trying to raise small children and cramp your bachelor lifestyle.

 

[William F. Russell]

Men losing custody or men not wanting custody? Most men want the women to babysit his kid. You guys are NOT trying to raise small children and cramp your bachelor lifestyle.

Absolutely false.

Courts consistently take away custody of children away from men, against their wishes. In fact, women enjoy having custody of the children by default.

 

[Greenhornet]

because letting women make decisions is detrimental and I support women
just not with every bodies decisions, lets be real here

women will have you doing shyt thats unnecessary then going coffin shopping at age 50
the whole point of being a man is to be one ... not save money for more closet space and buy candles and drapes and shyt
small ass dreams

 

[pococase]

Men don't get married because it's not in their nature.. and some men aren't men at all
IDFWU

 

[Wild self]

You're an idiot. So when that kid is using the water electricity and gas at his mother house you going to give him $20 a month to put on the bill? You men are so childish. Complete waste.

Rent for the place you godson lived at? Who was paying for the water gas and electricity he used? How about food and clothes? Did you godson take the bus or get a ride to school and other places? Who paid for his transport?

Men losing custody or men not wanting custody? Most men want the women to babysit his kid. You guys are NOT trying to raise small children and cramp your bachelor lifestyle.

Don't ever have kids. Period.

 

[LadySimone]

Don't ever have kids. Period.

...because you'll have to take care of them.

 

[Wild self]

...because you'll have to take care of them.

Nah, I refuse to pay CS and 100% of my money goes to the trifling ass mother instead of the kid's well being. Paying bills you owe instead of food and clothes for the kid.

 

[Rawtid]

Happy Easter, bro.

anyways, I've never dealt with a guy that avoided marriage. Maybe I just know how to pick them.

You're a great picker Juicy!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Get married in America brehs.
Court system ain't made to help black men at all.

 

[pococase]

because letting women make decisions is detrimental and I support women
just not with every bodies decisions, lets be real here

women will have you doing shyt thats unnecessary then going coffin shopping at age 50
the whole point of being a man is to be one ... not save money for more closet space and buy candles and drapes and shyt
small ass dreams

Guess what IDFWU ✌ get your own phone cuz I cut that shyt off

 

[pococase]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Alot of people here are trolls that don't want. To live the shyt they're pushing.

I can speak as a married man that family requires you to completely shift your way of thinking to be as selfless as possible. If you don't you will see the effects in your family. If your wife doesn't put u and the baby a first and you don't put your wife and the baby first the defects will be seen immediately.

Family isn't taken seriously and it's a big deal. A lot of men in this forum are incredibly immature and are working to buy gadgets from the white man and sleep with random women and in the back of their head won't mind having an accident baby with a woman who has a fat ass. But to us they spit all that hot shyt about family for daps.

So personally I think men don't want marriage because it's symbolic of a man who's is prepared to graduate to another level of responsibility and maturity. most aren't ready and use smokescreen as excuses to express this fact

Well said

 

[DarkHorse23]

Most of yall aren't making enough money to get taken to the Cleaners.

As a black man there's really only a few reason not to get married

1. other p*ssy

2. You're disgusting and no one wants you

3. Ur a homo on the low low.

4. immature

Dude I've visited MANY blogs so I know trolling and BS when I read it. Dude stop pretending to be a heterosexual man, your posts sound just like a woman. Shut your fukking face bytch

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The problem a lot of guys here are focused on is that marriage will fail. They're not giving credit to their own abilities to make a marriage work

B/c they don't have the ability and that's what they're mad about.