Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

[Art Barr]

The out of control out of wedlock birth rate is due to black women being sexually irresponsible with a limited group of men. That's why there are more single mothers in the black community than single fathers (almost 2:1 ratio).

If you're going to talk about an issue, do the knowledge first.

prolific posting,...
You can tell who really lived and who just running their mouth.


Art Barr

 

[No_bammer_weed]

:mcgeescust:
Yes Mr No weed, all of these nikkas in here have a problem with taking care of a child they created you can tell they really dont wanna do it I mean its not like you're misreading and just doing your usual 'THE PROBLEM WITH BLACK MEN IS...' for daps off The Salon

















This the poster of the year though right :conusher:

You should make that retirement permanent

And you for coli boys and no account black men in general...whats the problem, I guess we all have our biases, right?

And cats here can call other groups horrible names until their fingers go numb from typing, but once the mirror gets turned back on y'all you thrash about, cry and throw a tantrum about the unfairness of it all as you shyt ya draws.

This lil bytch ass campaign some of y'all wage against me is weird and unnecessary. Im just a brotha with ideas...hating me for it aint gunna fix your life. There's no need for you to dedicate so much time and energy against me with your retarded posts.

BTW, you selectively quoted people.

I responded to this:

5. lose their freedom - 50,000 people in jail due to child support and arrears

, forced to move into a crappy apartment and have hundreds of dollars taken from his paycheck every month from child support

And gen e yuss posts (i can sympathize with him in some respects) related to a hostility towards child support and paying for what you have created. Saying "its too much" is relative and doesnt add to the debate. Thrash and cry and exclusively blame black women, but out of wedlock families are a major problem in the black community. I know any argument against the hive mind here is treated as sin, but I made it and fukk you.

 

[MikelArteta]

i almost got married, bytch was down for me or so i thought, and she was for the first 3 years. she was also an emotional mess who flipped the switch on me 180. wasnt normal. ill never get married cause of that experience.she would have tried to ruin my life if i married or had a baby with her, she already has without it. the way i see women act as i grow older, na no way

exactly my point, people can change like that. I'm not the same person I was a few years ago, you are constantly growing and changing.

 

[MikelArteta]

Preach about "Get married, brehs" and then wonder why there are so many single mothers, brehs.

I don't have any children out of wedlock, nor does anyone else preaching gbm
Majority of single fathers are in their kids life anyways

 

[MikelArteta]

I wonder how some do these dudes would feel if their dad would have said that about their mom or if some dude did that to a female in their family? Would be like you tell her pops, nikka messing with females in my family, or that's fukked up?

My parents married in a different generation, my mom married my dad when he was making like 3 bucks a hour and lived in a roach infested apartment. My parents married in a generation where everyone did not have a spmartphone or had their ex as fb friends, where affair sites were being paraded

 

[ThePlumber]

Lets be reality for a second, most women follow hypergamy and marry up

it's absurd that as a a hard working man you can come home early from work to your wife banging the mail man, and because you made much more than she did you have to pay alimony, you have to pay child support as she gets the kids and you have to move out the matrimonial home.

 

[MikelArteta]

divorce rate is say 50%

And the rest of marriages where they stick together consist of, sexless marriages, staying together for the kids, abuse, infidelity , infidelity where a party was caught but "forgiven", open marriages, cuckhold marriages, seperated but not divorce, staying together for finances and then yes happy marriages as well

Status, looks, how much you love her or your/her kids means nothing

 

[iBrowse]

@Juicy

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy

Happy Easter, bro.

anyways, I've never dealt with a guy that avoided marriage. Maybe I just know how to pick them.

 

[ThePlumber]

Marriage brings stability in a home, an also brings an unparalleled emotional connection between a man and his women. If you don't want to get married just because:

• If your not on top of your game 24/7 she's going to resent you, and your going to have to look at the face of someone who wont let you fukk, but will get mad if you want to fukk others.
• There is a 50% chance that you'll have to give up on the life you've been working on before you me your wife.
• You'll only get to see your offspring a fraction of the time that you want to, but will have to pay an exorbitant amount of money for them.
• Have to fund your wife's life because she is used to a certain lifestyle, even though the lifestyle your used to doesn't mean shyt.
• Have a nikka fukking your wife, in a house you still have to pay for, and she wants the kids to call him daddy.

then your probably an immature loser who doesn't deserve a wife in the first place. If you cant trust somebody who you probably only have know realistically for a few years, not to mention that people are malleable and forever changing than you have some type of trust issues.
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[-----]

Most of yall aren't making enough money to get taken to the Cleaners.

As a black man there's really only a few reason not to get married

1. other p*ssy

2. You're disgusting and no one wants you

3. Ur a homo on the low low.

4. immature

Or 5. You got a stable to manage and ho's to pimp.

 

[Mowgli]

Or 5. You got a stable to manage and ho's to pimp.

Shut up Moron

 

[philmonroe]

My parents married in a different generation, my mom married my dad when he was making like 3 bucks a hour and lived in a roach infested apartment. My parents married in a generation where everyone did not have a spmartphone or had their ex as fb friends, where affair sites were being paraded

No offense but that's not what you quoted asked my good man. It said what would be your view if it happened that way would you still be kicking that bullshyt some of y'all are kicking? That was the question not about that stuff you wrote.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

And you for coli boys and no account black men in general...whats the problem, I guess we all have our biases, right?

And cats here can call other groups horrible names until their fingers go numb from typing, but once the mirror gets turned back on y'all you thrash about, cry and throw a tantrum about the unfairness of it all as you shyt ya draws.

This lil bytch ass campaign some of y'all wage against me is weird and unnecessary. Im just a brotha with ideas...hating me for it aint gunna fix your life. There's no need for you to dedicate so much time and energy against me with your retarded posts.

BTW, you selectively quoted people.

I responded to this:





And gen e yuss posts (i can sympathize with him in some respects) related to a hostility towards child support and paying for what you have created. Saying "its too much" is relative and doesnt add to the debate. Thrash and cry and exclusively blame black women, but out of wedlock families are a major problem in the black community. I know any argument against the hive mind here is treated as sin, but I made it and fukk you.

So you responded to one guy who posted a fact from the video and another who posted a scenario that is common after divorce for the average man

Im not even going to respond to the second half because not only is that a different topic but its so vague

 

[Wild self]

The out of control out of wedlock birth rate is due to black women being sexually irresponsible with a limited group of men. That's why there are more single mothers in the black community than single fathers (almost 2:1 ratio).

If you're going to talk about an issue, do the knowledge first.

Yup, the nikkas with swag, street history, and mouthpiece are the ones that these lost broads like. Tupac in a Business Suit is not an exaggeration on what many women want out of a man. Them nikkas ain't gonna settle down with some birdbrain chick with entitlement.