Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

[sfgiants]

I just want to cum and get tired of dealing with bytches after a couple months imagine having to deal with one bytch forever
Living alone with freedom and using women for orgasms

 

[nubianqueenbee]

The problem a lot of guys here are focused on is that marriage will fail. They're not giving credit to their own abilities to make a marriage work

This. Right. Here. Sis. These brothers already have already taken the L and added up the damage before meeting that special someone, dating, and walking down the aisle.

I know that the statistics are grim for marriage these days, and many of us don't have role models to look up to that have those till-death-do-us-part marriages. But many times there might be pre marriage and marriage counseling programs in the community to help couples stay together.

But you can't go in expecting it to fail-most issues in a marriage can be worked out if both parties are committed to the marriage and to the family.

 

[Mowgli]

If you don't follow the pc lifestyle they try and shame you, they want you to get married, they want you to have that 30 year mortgage and the house in teh burbs fully furnished, they want you to consume and the family vacations.

Please describe your Lifestyle to us sir.

 

[Jahmal]

Frustrated husband creates spreadsheet of wife's excuses for not having sex with him
The man compiled an Excel document showing a month's worth of his wife's responses to his requests for sex, which she then shared online

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/rela...ifes-excuses-for-not-having-sex-with-him.html

If you want an active sex life Get Married Brehs

 

[William F. Russell]

You going to have to give me a better excuse than that B. This nikka talking about a few chicks that done got tricked on some sucker shyt or some Backdoor deals stop it fam. Majority of legal pre nups not signed under duress aren't voided stop listening to Leroy at the rib shack with this bullshyt.

nikka, did you avoid the "unconscionable" part? Even if they're not entered to under duress, courts will void Pre-nups if they're viewed as unconscionable, i.e. "unfair" or "unilaterally beneficial" to one side. Basically, they only have a limited effect.

Do the knowledge and stop talking out of your ass. Trust me, I'm a lawyer.

 

[ORDER_66]

Marriage brings stability in a home, an also brings an unparalleled emotional connection between a man and his women. If you don't want to get married just because:

• If your not on top of your game 24/7 she's going to resent you, and your going to have to look at the face of someone who wont let you fukk, but will get mad if you want to fukk others.
• There is a 50% chance that you'll have to give up on the life you've been working on before you me your wife.
• You'll only get to see your offspring a fraction of the time that you want to, but will have to pay an exorbitant amount of money for them.
• Have to fund your wife's life because she is used to a certain lifestyle, even though the lifestyle your used to doesn't mean shyt.
• Have a nikka fukking your wife, in a house you still have to pay for, and she wants the kids to call him daddy.

then your probably an immature loser who doesn't deserve a wife in the first place. If you cant trust somebody who you probably only have know realistically for a few years, not to mention that people are malleable and forever changing than you have some type of trust issues.
.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

what do you nikkas plan on doing in your 40's-50's without any kids


I have 2 uncles who don't have any kids and that shyt seems miserable as hell, who the fukk are y'all going to travel with, bring to family functions while everybody else except that 1 aunt or uncle who can't get anybody

 

[Art Barr]

Frustrated husband creates spreadsheet of wife's excuses for not having sex with him
The man compiled an Excel document showing a month's worth of his wife's responses to his requests for sex, which she then shared online

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/rela...ifes-excuses-for-not-having-sex-with-him.html

If you want an active sex life Get Married Brehs

A woman in committals declining you sex is abuse.
you never ever stay with a woman who you are intimate with who denies you sex.
Tell her the shyt over.
get your shyt or tell her to move the fukk around.


Art Barr

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

It's a bad business decision without kids involved


What can you get that you can't already get in a regular relationship? fukk some tax benefits

 

[Art Barr]

This. Right. Here. Sis. These brothers already have already taken the L and added up the damage before meeting that special someone, dating, and walking down the aisle.

I know that the statistics are grim for marriage these days, and many of us don't have role models to look up to that have those till-death-do-us-part marriages. But many times there might be pre marriage and marriage counseling programs in the community to help couples stay together.

But you can't go in expecting it to fail-most issues in a marriage can be worked out if both parties are committed to the marriage and to the family.

Actually females are the ones who check out of committals more than faithful committed guys.
Plus, real talk.....
once females get their heart broke once.
to descend into and buy into using.
plus, base finding a mate on taking and cheater swag.
they are lost and gone, forever.

As men, we are only dealing with the over abundance of lost and gone cheater swag based game females.
females are the ones with the defeatist attitude about relationships, not guys.
Y'all talk a good one, but action wise females are worthless in committals after they get played that first time, period.
like clockwork, in general females have become eic vamps by 24 consistently, now.
plus, somewhere back in 2008.
females, forgot how to actually set themselves up and create the rhythm of a committal based relationship.
that, it has been down hill for committals, ever since.
plus, females are not faithful at all and all into hypergamy as a standard rule, in general.
trying to find a female who really knows how to showcase she is a committal is a waste of time.
all because females don't know how to communicate and cultivate commitment based relationships any longer.
they stopped in general being girlfriend committal material in like 2008 across the board.
nowadays, if you in committals.
it is because you are green and don't know when females are playing the role.



Art Barr

 

[Rakim Allah]

The out of control out of wedlock birth rate is due to black women being sexually irresponsible with a limited group of men. That's why there are more single mothers in the black community than single fathers (almost 2:1 ratio).

If you're going to talk about an issue, do the knowledge first.

The HIV rate was 70% Black Female and 30% Black Male but the DL brother was solely blamed for this epidemic courtesy of negro bed wenches like Oprah. These women again messed with the same dudes who were suspect yet want to act all innocent. Feminism(Black) and white supremacy(Maury) loved to patronize certain trifling black women when they have several different baby daddies and worse...don't know who the daddy is.

The Black man has been the sole scapegoat because the aspiring hoodrat wanted to be a feminist with white supremacy backing(welfare).

 

[010101]

only real reason=new p*ssy+

 

[nubianqueenbee]

Actually females are the ones who check out of committals more than faithful committed guys.
Plus, real talk.....
once females get their heart broke once.
to descend into and buy into using.
plus, base finding a mate on taking and cheater swag.
they are lost and gone, forever.

As men, we are only dealing with the over abundance of lost and gone cheater swag based game females.
females are the ones with the defeatist attitude about relationships, not guys.
Y'all talk a good one, but action wise females are worthless in committals after they get played that first time, period.
like clockwork, in general females have become eic vamps by 24 consistently, now.
plus, somewhere back in 2008.
females, forgot how to actually set themselves up and create the rhythm of a committal based relationship.
that, it has been down hill for committals, ever since.
plus, females are not faithful at all and all into hypergamy as a standard rule, in general.
trying to find a female who really knows how to showcase she is a committal is a waste of time.
all because females don't know how to communicate and cultivate commitment based relationships any longer.
they stopped in general being girlfriend committal material in like 2008 across the board.
nowadays, if you in committals.
it is because you are green and don't know when females are playing the role.



Art Barr

My reply to the prior post, my brother, was based on the other posters that had already not considered marriage because they saw themselves as losers in divorce. I would imagine that they have a more positive outlook on other endeavors they consider in their lives-otherwise why take any chances if you are sure to fail.

I am concerned about your response regarding the resiliency of women when it comes to dating and our responses to unsuccessful relationships. You seem to be painting all women with a very broad brush. While I am sure that their are men and women that take breakups badly and may not be good marriage material, most are. I am unsure of the significance of the year 2008 in your reply.

 

[William F. Russell]

My reply to the prior post, my brother, was based on the other posters that had already not considered marriage because they saw themselves as losers in divorce. I would imagine that they have a more positive outlook on other endeavors they consider in their lives-otherwise why take any chances if you are sure to fail.

I am concerned about your response regarding the resiliency of women when it comes to dating and our responses to unsuccessful relationships. You seem to be painting all women with a very broad brush. While I am sure that their are men and women that take breakups badly and may not be good marriage material, most are. I am unsure of the significance of the year 2008 in your reply.

How can men be optimistic about an institution with a 50% divorce rate, with 80+% of divorces initiated by women?

How can men be optimistic about losing custody of children, having to pay child support and having to pay alimony (by default) in the case of a divorce?

How can men be optimistic about marrying women who subscribe to feminist values only when convenient?

How can men be optimistic about the idea of marriage when marriage presents no tangible legal benefits yet can have very serious legal detriments?

 

[LadySimone]

I don't understand why do I have to pay the WOMAN though?

She gets the money. Not the courts, not some financial agency, the woman.

I have to pay a woman, money, so that Im able to see a child that's MINE.

I can pay for whatever the child needs, WITHOUT giving the money to the woman. Why does SHE need the money? She's not my child, my CHILD needs the things I can provide, and it's clear I can provide them, because I'm being ordered to pay the money!

That's fukking insane, fukk that.

You're an idiot. So when that kid is using the water electricity and gas at his mother house you going to give him $20 a month to put on the bill? You men are so childish. Complete waste.