Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage
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Right! Right!Thanks to multiple abortions
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Marriage and family laws were put in place to protect the woman and child. Most men would not do the right thing.
They already have no social repercussions for their hoing, now take away financial repercussions and I dont think thats a world you want to love and live in.
These the same dudes who clown women who arent married by a certain age but celebrate a man that isnt, as if thats logical. It literally is the exact opposite. So a man is with a woman and they are living as though they are married, he decides one day to up and leave, dummy shouldve got married so you could afford to take care of the kids he left behind.
Anyways, I had a GREAT example of a marraige in my maternal grandparents and Id give ANYTHING to get 10% of that. When my grandma died I watched my grandpa turn into a different man. Never seen him cry and here he is on the floor shaking...he lost his best friend of 58 years.
Im just glad I got a man that understands and listens. I told him I want a marriage like my grandparents and he literally talked to my gramps for hours about what my gramps thought marriage was. 2 weeks later proposed to me. We werent even 18 yet. Countdown is less than 2 years to make this dynasty happen. 4 years in the process.
Get married to a real man, brehettes that knows he can keep a wife with no problems.
#leggo #noworries
They already have no social repercussions for their hoing, now take away financial repercussions and I dont think thats a world you want to love and live in.
These the same dudes who clown women who arent married by a certain age but celebrate a man that isnt, as if thats logical. It literally is the exact opposite. So a man is with a woman and they are living as though they are married, he decides one day to up and leave, dummy shouldve got married so you could afford to take care of the kids he left behind.
Anyways, I had a GREAT example of a marraige in my maternal grandparents and Id give ANYTHING to get 10% of that. When my grandma died I watched my grandpa turn into a different man. Never seen him cry and here he is on the floor shaking...he lost his best friend of 58 years.
Im just glad I got a man that understands and listens. I told him I want a marriage like my grandparents and he literally talked to my gramps for hours about what my gramps thought marriage was. 2 weeks later proposed to me. We werent even 18 yet. Countdown is less than 2 years to make this dynasty happen. 4 years in the process.
Get married to a real man, brehettes that knows he can keep a wife with no problems.
#leggo #noworries
Thanks to multiple abortions
Yall love spewing stuff around here without links/sources.
Furthermore if you are referencing the 70% statistic it counts the out of wedlock birthrate of black children, meaning black women who are living with black men who they are not married to. Meaning chicks who got with dudes who on the #GMB tip. I have not seen any stats that separate the statistics of black single mothers and black single fathers if they are out there please post them.
To add to that you all love to brag how well black men do with the opposite sex compared to black women
so let's not pretend that there is not a significant percentage of non-black single mothers with bi-racial babies from black men walking around. You won't see much of that with black women since no one really wants us, remember 
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BrandonBanks
Arab Money
There are different reasons for some
- Some guys don't want to settle down until they are financially able to provide for a wife and possible kids properly. For some men, this happens a little later than others
- Some men don't want to get married, wanna live the bachelor life forever
- Some men have a hard time finding the right woman. There's lots of women to pick from but they aren't all right for you
- Ppl are more focused on jumping from one to the next instead of finding someone to really build with
Yall love spewing stuff around here without links/sources.
Furthermore if you are referencing the 70% statistic it counts the out of wedlock birthrate of black children, meaning black women who are living with black men who they are not married to. Meaning chicks who got with dudes who on the #GMB tip. I have not seen any stats that separate the statistics of black single mothers and black single fathers if they are out there please post them.
To add to that you all love to brag how well black men do with the opposite sex compared to black women
20% of all BM ages 16-45 are single fathers.
42% of all BW ages 16-45 are single mothers.
Check CDC, US Census Bureau, and Pew Research between 2011 and 2013.
No matter how you slice these stats, the only rational conclusion you can draw from them is that you have a plethora of BW dog-piling on a the exact same minority of BM and are having kids by them.
Thanks to multiple abortions
LadySimone
Banned
Raising kids accumulates bulls. When it's cold those kids need getting they need water to take a shower they need electricity. They need a place to live that place requires rent. Compare what your utilities would be with you loving alone for one month then what they would be for a month if you add two kids. Subtract and the difference is what your kids need just in utilities.
But the mother benefits from that, too
Using that money on yourself, only for your kid to turn on you when they grow up when they discover their mother a scamming broad.
LadySimone
Banned
But the mother benefits from that, too
Using that money on yourself, only for your kid to turn on you when they grow up when they discover their mother a scamming broad.
And that little money she getting from you she has to add hers to pay the rest of THE bills and rent clothes gas to drive your kids back and forth to school etc.
And when her bucket breaks down she got to come out of pocket to get her to work YOUR kids to school etc. you paying to help get her car fixed nope. Single mothers are poor for this very reason.
Oh and what about when your kid gets chicken pox. They out of school for a week you laying for an inoculated baby sitter because she can't take off work to stay home with your kid. She could get fired and she would be even more cash strapped.
You should pay that stuff regardless for yourself. CS is only for kids only needs, like clothes and food. Besides, child support is unconstitutional, but no one will tell you that
If that's the case, then the mother should pay me money also, so when the child is at my house, she's chipping in on the water/electricity that the child is using when he is with me.
LadySimone
Banned
You should pay that stuff regardless for yourself. CS is only for kids only needs, like clothes and food. Besides, child support is unconstitutional, but no one will tell you that
Kids need more than clothes and good. That good you buying it needs to be cooked wit gas. Has cost money. It needs electricity to prepare that good. Electricity cost money.