Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

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I have no interest in marriage or children because I'm selfish. I like dictating my own schedule and spending my money on whatever the hell it is that I choose.

Maybe that will change in the future, but the thought of living the stereotypical married life makes me ill :scust:

This is me exactly. We all evolve throughout life (some at different paces than others). Who knows, perhaps I'll be a family man one day. But that day is not now. I'm way too selfish and enjoy doing whatever the fukk I want to do. Nothing wrong with being self aware.

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This is me exactly. We all evolve throughout life (some at different paces than others). Who knows, perhaps I'll be a family man one day. But that day is not now. I'm way too selfish and enjoy doing whatever the fukk I want to do. Nothing wrong with being self aware.

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See :salute:your honesty


Why can't people just be honest instead of blaming a divorce that hasn't happened yet and child support that they don't have yet and the evil women they keep choosing to sleep with lol
 

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This is me exactly. We all evolve throughout life (some at different paces than others). Who knows, perhaps I'll be a family man one day. But that day is not now. I'm way too selfish and enjoy doing whatever the fukk I want to do. Nothing wrong with being self aware.

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That's the thing. When people talk in absolutes at a fairly young age it's going to cause discussion.

If dudes don't think marriage is for them who could argue it but things change as you get older. Along those lines the idea that being single in your 40-50's sounds good in practice but is that really ideal once you get to that age? The same things that annoy you at 20 something with women isn't going to change much at 50.
 
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Black fatherhood in a nutshell. When his kid is walking about wearing skinny jeans and eye liner it's mommas fault.

Dikheadz.

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His son going to be calling next man daddy while wearing pink Jordans.


Sorry to burst your bubble, stupid bytch, but I have NO CHILDREN & the best part about this is that I never have to ever worry about paying child support or rearing kids with busted, uneducated ratchets like yourself!

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That's the thing. When people talk in absolutes at a fairly young age it's going to cause discussion.

If dudes don't think marriage is for them who could argue it but think change as you get older. Along those lines the idea that being single in your 40-50's sounds good in practice but is that really ideal once you get to that age? The same things that annoy you at 20 something with women isn't going to change much at 50.

I completely agree. If I dont find "the one" or have children, so be it. I'm not going to settle right now just because it may be considered a societal norm however. I'm 33... I have time. Believe me, I think about being the old head with no seeds. Its kind of scary but I know I'm not alone. There are females that will have grown children or females that dont want to have kids and are still looking for a solid relationship. One day at a time.

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Black fatherhood in a nutshell. When his kid is walking about wearing skinny jeans and eye liner it's mommas fault.

Dikheadz.

@O.G.B

I'm gonna have kids, just not with an entitled ass broad that will break up a family for checks and instant gratification.
 

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As you get older things change. Now at 29 making the most money I've ever made, stable in all facets, life going good. Why risk it?

You know what...I said the same thing at 29.
Let me tell you...it only gets better!!! I'm making even more now!!
DO NOT GET MARRIED!!

As men, we only get better and more valuable as we get older (Unless we really F it up with something stupid)...while women age like milk.
Unless she's Oprah.
 

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it's absurd that as a a hard working man you can come home early from work to your wife banging the mail man, and because you made much more than she did you have to pay alimony, you have to pay child support as she gets the kids and you have to move out the matrimonial home.

That's life in this F'd up country.
The courts are completely against the male, even though it's a male driven society.
That "Male-Driven" crap doesn't apply in the courts somehow...
 
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