So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[freetroit]

Cutting through alot of the BS and fukkkary that's on this board. this is really the underlying issue between a lot of men and wonen today.....women truly want to run the show in their relationships its not enough to have a provider now they expect a man to submit... And as a man that was raised a certain way I can't get down with that.

If a woman has a man who is a provider then he has already submitted because he doesnt have to use his resources to help her in the first place

Remember no one owes anyone anything so sharing resources with a woman should be enough for a man to not be emasculated in a relationship

 

[Gold]

shyt reminds me at how I was perplexed at my girl getting me a gift and some food she made...like really and she laughed at me acting so amazed at some "basic stuff" as she put it. Its like I was conditioned to not expect anything from a significant other :totheeastside:

The truth in this post...
My girl randomly got me some GUNNARs for my job cuz I was complaining about eye strain. When I opened them up, I just looked at her like .... "is somebody dying?"

It's amazing the mileage women can get with a few acts of kindness.

 

[Gold]

Ive seen women like the way you described your sister and I hate to say it but she maybe better off with a cac. I honestly can't see any self respecting black man wanting a woman like this. no disrespect

I don't want to believe that breh

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Didn't read. fukk all these bytches.

It's PAWG season in NY right fukkin now.

YOLOOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[The Mad Titan]

A woman getting a man a gift (out of concern or love) just because is signs of a strong potential life long partner. Especially in this day and age.

@Fonsworth @The Wave yall might want to invest

 

[GoFlipAPack]

"They also feel like it’s hard to meet men on their level who they feel are still down to earth. We’ve both discovered that they typically feel that when they meet affluent men of color they appear to be “above them.”
FISHER: Yes, and those men have so many choices that they’re not paying much attention to trying to settle down. And, then if they want to go and meet a regular, everyday, hardworking man, for some reason, these women feel those men are inferior to them. So no matter what they feel like they’re in a really tough place."


Well there you have it folks

 

[iBrowse]

The truth in this post...
My girl randomly got me some GUNNARs for my job cuz I was complaining about eye strain. When I opened them up, I just looked at her like .... "is somebody dying?"

It's amazing the mileage women can get with a few acts of kindness.

Bruh...we are simple as fukk to please...especially when its one of those retroactive acts of kindness where you mention something in passing that she remembers I gotta watch myself around her before I do some dumb" -esque" bullshyt

 

[iBrowse]

A woman getting a man a gift (out of concern or love) just because is signs of a strong potential life long partner. Especially in this day and age.

@Fonsworth @The Wave yall might want to invest

I'm about to send that motherfukker a "wyd" text :totheeastside:

 

[GoFlipAPack]

I'm making way too much money now to even think about marriage and risking it all. I know tons of dudes who never recovered financially after they got divorced. And the guys I know that are still married are deep in debt trying to maintain a certain lifestyle due to their wives spending habits. These dudes are gonna work themselves into an early grave just so their wives can live off both their retirement savings.
F^ck that shyt.

^^^^Amen to that.

 

[Arithmetic]

Read until the second paragraph. This mentality disregards the systematic hurdles put into place to prevent black men from achieving widespread success. When black men don't excel, it hurts the whole black community. It's a very selfish way of thinking tbh.

 

[StarGirl]

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[Gold]

A woman getting a man a gift just because is signs of a strong potential life long partner.

@Fonsworth @The Wave yall might want to invest

Its still a new relationship... but i'm probably gonna marry her. She looks like exactly like Sevyn Streeter




I just gonna clean up my life a bit.

No more finessing coli brehettes in the PMs

 

[Arithmetic]

shyt reminds me at how I was perplexed at my girl getting me a gift and some food she made...like really and she laughed at me acting so amazed at some "basic stuff" as she put it. Its like I was conditioned to not expect anything from a significant other :totheeastside:

I remember one Valentines day 3 years ago the girl I was talking to (not dating) at that time baked ME a Valentines cake and bought me my favorite cologne. Where the fukk they do that at?


I broke her heart because I didn't want to be with her. She lost it after that. Started dating a dboy who didn't give af about her. She's a lost girl now.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

First, @ this...



But, I've been fighting it, but, I'm seeing a trend in this "issue"

And its always "older," "professional," "successful," black women with the same problem of wanting a Creat-A-(Non) Player type guy that they (A) prolly ain't single (B) prolly want to play the field (C) prolly have attributes that these women shouldn't be demanding


Single and 6'4" with a PH.D.

They prolly want him to have a 9" penis and be a church going virgin

We clown women too much on thus site (so I usually dont comment) but, I'm ready to admit this is a woman issue/problem

It's always been a woman problem. I've had women tell me that exact same shyt. I have zero sympathy for them though, their student loan debt will keep em warm at night

 

[iBrowse]

I remember one Valentines day 3 years ago the girl I was talking to (not dating) at that time baked ME a Valentines cake and bought me my favorite cologne. Where the fukk they do that at?


I broke her heart because I didn't want to be with her. She lost it after that. Started dating a dboy who didn't give a about her. She's a lost girl now.

Smh...one of these coli nikkas' future wife...then they'll go #GMB