my younger blood brother. now please bare with me because this post may sound like a bunch of rambling and not cohesive but that's only because im still frustrated
now i've always known my brother was a lil c00n. his slick remarks about black women having attitudes, and how he would complain to me about people calling him whitewashed at school. 'because i'm not ignorant like the rest of them" is what he would say
me and my brother are polar opposites. he always got good grades, never fought, plays videogames all fukking day, never outside that much aside from him playing football for a while up until his junior year.never smoked or drank.
i was getting suspended in elementary, expelled in middle school for weed, was gangbanging in high school, selling drugs and home invasions. thankfully i smartened up after i almost got charged as an adult with attempted burglary at 17. i cleaned myself up got a job now and doing well about to move out a lil after my 20th birthday this year.
what i could never understand is, he would never say anything to me directly about what i was doing, but he would bad talk those doing the same shyt.
but on to what happened tonight. we were at my aunts house for my baby cousin birthday. so im in the back room taking a nap, my dad comes in wakes me up and tells me he got some dinner. so i get up to head to the kitchen and my mom walks past me, eyes red like she had just finished crying. i asked her whats was wrong. she just said dont worry about it and walked outside. i get into the living room and ask whats going.
now mind you my brother was in a room with 4 black women, our family, my mom, my 2 older aunties, and my 28 year old cousin
my aunt tells me this nikka was telling them how he didnt like the black girls "at his school"
because they're dirty, ratchet, have attitudes, and sleep around
as if other women don't do the same shyt
apparently my mom was mad, my cousin started to go at him but my auntie was going HARD at him about stereotyping his own women then my mom and auntie started goin at it cuz she felt like she was attacking my brother
so i look at this nikka and say you really had the audacity to say some shyt like that? what the fukk is your problem?
he spits something straight out of that passive aggressive white rhetoric "i'm not saying ALL act like that but most of them do thats just my opinion"
now it doesn't even just stop there. the conversation moves on to the presidency out of nowhere
and this nikka is sitting here in front of the whole family talking about he's supporting trump
we trying to explain how donald trump is a racist, but this uncle ruckus nikka just aint having it. talking about trump is the best for the country and he's not a racist.
i look at him and say you're sitting here defending someone who hates you nikka
how much more of a c00n could you be
my dad starts explaining to my brother about how these racists will get bolder if trump gets in office, about him worrying about us and police brutality. he tells my dad "that would never happen to me because i dont act like most black people"
and thats what pushed me over the fukking edge.
i got up and took his chin... then immediately left before anyone could stop and talk to me or anything, got in my car and now im at my girls house. my dads been trying to call me but i wont answer. i just dont even know what to feel right now. i dont know how someone who literally grew up in the hood wit me, seen what we had to go through, adapt this mentality i dont know where tf he got that shyt from...
By the way your father encapsulated in very few words about my issues with trump. You go on these far right wing sites and look at Twitter of people who endorse Donald trump and it's not just about building a wall for them.
If trump wins they view it as validation of their white supremacist views. When i say that I'm not using hyperbole. Look up these people who who post on Twitter and shyt about trump and theyre unapologetic racists. Folks talking about "uh well he is only speaking about Hispanics" and only think in the short term while not realizing a lot of his supporters view this as just one battle in a bigger culture war against non whites in this country. Op's brother and other idiots who think like this better wake the fukk up.
By the way your father encapsulated in very few words about my issues with trump. You go on these far right wing sites and look at Twitter of people who endorse Donald trump and it's not just about building a wall for them.
If trump wins they view it as validation of their white supremacist views. When i say that I'm not using hyperbole. Look up these people who who post on Twitter and shyt about trump and theyre unapologetic racists. Folks talking about "uh well he is only speaking about Hispanics" and only think in the short term while not realizing a lot of his supporters view this as just one battle in a bigger culture war against non whites in this country. Op's brother and other idiots who think like this better wake the fukk up.
It's actually not as good a question as you might think and there's a very simple answer. posters see a post of mine that they like or agree with and they give reputation points, others see posts of mine that they dislike and take away reputation points.
Let's not talk in absolutist terms here. Yes there is racism but at least currently there is some social stigma and consequences in acting out on it. I think it's insulting to compare our current situation to that of people before the civil rights movements.
It's more about power plays. Letting these people have more social and political clout is not good for black people in this county in the long term. We're moving backwards as far as our position in this country instead of forwards in this case.
It's not about changing their mind and behavior. It's about how much are we going to let these people control policies and social mores? Again I'm not speaking in absolutes but more along a sliding scale. So don't make the mistake in thinking I think blacks current position in this country is great. Also if OPs dad is of age, I think that is more of a reason to take his thoughts on the matter to heart. I'm sure he has plenty of life experience to draw from to put this in proper context.
Secondly. As I've personally said many times before, this election is chess for me especially when it comes tot the Supreme Court. Let a republican install possibly three judges and we will feel the pain for more than 4-8 years. Call it's fear mongering but it doesn't make it any less true.
I don't like Hillary that much but as long as I live in this country I'll be doing what's best for my interest and my family interest.
A choice between the lesser of two evils is still a choice for the lesser evil. Working on ideals and absolutes will often end in disappointment.
What I'm trying to figure out is, this is your brother who grew up around you and the rest of your family. Did none of ya'll have a sit down and talk to him? Were your parents not around? Did you even have any kind of relationship with your brother? Sounds like ya'll just left him on his own to develop the c00nish ideas without any type of guidance or communication.
It's actually not as good a question as you might think and there's a very simple answer. posters see a post of mine that they like or agree with and they give reputation points, others see posts of mine that they dislike and take away reputation points.
What I'm trying to figure out is, this is your brother who grew up around you and the rest of your family. Did none of ya'll have a sit down and talk to him? Were your parents not around? Did you even have any kind of relationship with your brother? Sounds like ya'll just left him on his own to develop the c00nish ideas without any type of guidance or communication.
like many other posters on here have said, troubled children usually get the most attention, the younger brother was handling his business, getting good grades while the bigger brother was putting the family through absolute hell.
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