So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[old pig]

nikka yo ass is grass

 

[Bucciarati Joestar]

What single man goes to a woman's wedding?

This nikka is the ultimate side nikka.

Shoulda played like he was gay and made the cipher complete.

Idk...that man wasn't trying to hear nothin.

Good thing op didn't go with that excuse or else he would have had to make another thread

 

[old pig]

g’nite coli.

 

[Dad]

Most nikkas die over love for a bytch or trust in their homies

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

for anyone who hasn't realized by now, op is full of shyt

 

[heart]

I will follow HR protocol and see what happens monday.
For those calling me a bytch because I offered him coffee. What was I suppose to do? seriously. You got an deranged man with a 45 on his waste. This is texas, yes I got guns in my car, house. I'm not a simp or some hoe ass nikka.. But sometimes when someone has you dead to rights, you gotta get out of the situation.

I thought the coffee convo would calm bro down. I really wanted him to understand my POV and see he had it wrong. And yes he did indirectly "warn" me back in NOV when his wife said she would cease communication because he had a problem with it, but this was the first time he directly confronted me about it. And again, she started the convo back, not me. And I never crossed boundaries and for the last time we never fucc'd...

I'm 37, grown man, played D-1 football, this breh looked to be in his late 40s/early 50s. In a fair one, I know I could wash him, but when I was outmanned in the situation given he had the equalizer. But HR is aware now, and I will follow up on monday.

@shopthatwrecks, you know where new parkland is breh, I saw him walking going towards UTSW on medical district near harry hines...

 

[Black Lightning]

why are you texting a married woman a picture of you two together?

and more importantly, why do you have her number in the first place?

There's no way her husband comes to his job with a gun over a few harmless text.

He's leaving out some details.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

nikka about to meet his maker and ain't even get a whiff of the pussay

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Married women are usually the worst playing games. They’re so bored with their marriage that they invite drama at other people’s expense. Avoid her like the plague. I don’t entertain them at all.

 

[R=G]

Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...

First off..I don't care about any gun barrel..hostility...any of that..there is no living man that is gonna encroach my zone and walk me down. He can pace and all that..say anything to me? Ill knock all the teeth out of his mouth. Take that gun off of him that sighted as abject lesson in common sense. Try that shyt with a white boy..a timmy. A Johnny. Never me.
You got me laughing...looking for security..the fukk they go do if it gets real? Lol.

 

[concise]

And yes he did indirectly "warn" me back in NOV when his wife said she would cease communication because he had a problem with it, but this was the first time he directly confronted me about it. And again, she started the convo back, not me. And I never crossed boundaries and for the last time we never fucc'd...

Basically, you got 2 strikes because you already knew that the first warning was a warning.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I will follow HR protocol and see what happens monday.
For those calling me a bytch because I offered him coffee. What was I suppose to do? seriously. You got an deranged man with a 45 on his waste. This is texas, yes I got guns in my car, house. I'm not a simp or some hoe ass nikka.. But sometimes when someone has you dead to rights, you gotta get out of the situation.

I thought the coffee convo would calm bro down. I really wanted him to understand my POV and see he had it wrong. And yes he did indirectly "warn" me back in NOV when his wife said she would cease communication because he had a problem with it, but this was the first time he directly confronted me about it. And again, she started the convo back, not me. And I never crossed boundaries and for the last time we never fucc'd...

I'm 37, grown man, played D-1 football, this breh looked to be in his late 40s/early 50s. In a fair one, I know I could wash him, but when I was outmanned in the situation given he had the equalizer. But HR is aware now, and I will follow up on monday.

@shopthatwrecks, you know where new parkland is breh, I saw him walking going towards UTSW on medical district near harry hines...

truth is she has cheated or is cheating with someone else, but her husband can't seem to find the evidence of the other guy, so he zeroed in on you. There is someone else. Unlike the rest in this thread, I blame the wife. She playing with you while she is cheating on her husband with someone else.

I do think you're fronting a bit about not liking her, but that doesn't matter. I think everything will turn out okay

 

[boriquaking]

Damn Leslie..

 

[Commish]

OP..

If dude was really with the bullshyt, then he would have followed through with his threat.

Do you really think he would risk going to prison for the rest of his life over you? You know that if he would have shot you, that his wife will divorce him, move away and life as he knows it would be done?

I don't like insecure dudes! Next time dude shows up @ your job, get security involved!

 

[Ozymandeas]

Husband was crazy for bringing a gun but he wasn’t completely wrong either. Why you texting a married woman? You put yourself in harm’s way over something you know you shouldn’t have been doing. You better watch your surroundings for the next few months