So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[raoulduke187]

was the p*ssy good breh

 

[tuckgod]

Why you texting her pics of y’all together though?

What kinda friends are y’all.

You buggin, especially if you don’t know her husband at all.

 

[African Peasant]

unless the christmas party pic was obviously work related she snitched on you
how dude know where you work or your name
I text two married women , as platonic friends, but both of them are smart enough to put me under fake names don't keep pics of me and we only text when their man ain't around. not cause it's anything shady going on but no man is secure enough for his woman to be having full conversations with another man
dude is unhinged to be pulling up like that. would you consider getting her fired for putting you in that position?

 

[Premeditated]

Well the officer filed a report and we have facial recognition and his ID that has to be filled out before the operator will buzz an employee of the hospital. So he is now banned from the facility..

not just from the hospital
he could somehow find where you live or catch you coming out the parking lot
gotta stay lurk

 

[thekyuke]

Shes cheating or was caught cheating before , now dude is paranoid and is untrusting of ANY dude that is texting her. She may have lied and used your friendship with her as an alibi to hide her dirt. Her texting you during the time she had her ring off told me all I needed to know.

I'd stay away from her if I were you. fukk around and get your brains blew out for a p*ssy you never even touched

This! OP,that's the REAL REASON she's texting you. Women do everything for a reason-not many men know how smooth they are with nefarious f'ery.

 

[Hyperion]

Nah breh, that ain't the way to do it.

I can't imagine coming into a hospital hot with a pistol thinking someone is fukking my wife and get met with that

Me: Aye, where Ashley at?!?! Tell him to get down here immediately

heart: What's good witcha breh

Me: ...nikka are you fukking my wife

heart: Now why ever would you think that

Me: You texting her pictures of ya'll together and shyt

heart: Breh have you tried the Starbucks down the hall yet

Me:

He's lucky he didn't get swung on for that alone. Man is clearly upset to the point where he brought a gun to a hospital, in what world is he going to be in the mood for a rational conversation? As if he's supposed to have civil discourse with a man who may or may not be fornicating his wife in his mind. I get he was trying to calm him down, but at that point... He should've been and left it at that.

Even if he hadn't show up with a gun that day, there's no guarantee he couldn't have come back later (or even the same day) and tried something. No sir.

Call it whatever you want. He is lucky her husband was a puccy. A real one would have beat his ass with the strength of a triple espresso.

Op is fortunate that she wasn’t a redbone with a fat ass...

“bbbubbbubbuht I was at your wedding”...

That's the kind of strength that knocks you out with your eyes open.

This part two tho, he already been warned

Right, that's the part that had me...

And yes he did indirectly "warn" me back in NOV when his wife said she would cease communication because he had a problem with it, but this was the first time he directly confronted me about it. And again, she started the convo back, not me. And I never crossed boundaries and for the last time we never fucc'd...

So if you were warned, regardless of who delivered the message... That should've been a sign for you to get outta dodge. Whenever you hear someone say "My husband/boyfriend has a problem with us talking", that's when you end it, because letting that continue will eventually lead to... Well, your current predicament.

He's approaching you. It doesn't even matter if the wife is the one initiating, because he may take it as you not heeding the warning and choosing to respond. Who even knows what goes down at their house when it's just them. She could've thrown you under the bus and said that it was you who keeps initiating, and you can't even defend yourself because in the end, you were warned not to contact her again. You did cross boundaries, because that was made abundantly clear and you continued. I get what you're saying and I understand, but that's why you have to place boundaries yourself for a reason, to prevent these exact types of scenarios from happening. Regardless of his emotional issues, that's still his wife, and I understand why he'd feel upset (even though I absolutely disagree with his actions here).

At this rate, I'd block her on everything. Press charges, see what HR says and request a transfer to a different workplace. Maybe find a means of protecting yourself. He gave you two strikes. Don't let there be a third.

 

[Atlrocafella]

nikka, once a woman is married, you shouldn’t be texting her anymore. I’ve had homegirls from high school that I’ve been super tight with, but once they got married, That type of communication ceased. Respect that mans household.

 

[---]

save your life, breh. my grandpa was murdered by an angry husband. you never know what mental state people are in. too many women in the world to be dealing with married ones

Damn!

 

[Family Man]

nikka could have died over a bytch he ain't fukking. I been said if you don't have romantic interest or intentions of fukking there's no reason for a man to be texting a woman. I don't give a fukk who it offends either. bytches ain't shyt bruh - especially nurses and hairdressers.
Brother, I know you're on the up and up but this was a hell of a way to learn this lesson.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Has a similar situation when I worked in management in retail. I worked overnight and this lady kid 40s, terribly built and ugly man came up to the store and was looking for me.

lol I heard about it after the fact tho, couple people told me to watch out cause he was crazy

only difference is I never had her number, or we never even talked outside of me giving her directions.

but she was on her phone with her and he must of have heard me tell her go do something and they was already on bad terms and he was ready to flip

he then followed it up by hitting me up on Facebook and telling some goofy shyt. I just explained to him that I’m just his wife manager and nothing more lol. He apologized and I never heard anything from her again

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

If you tryna fukk other Dudes wives, get in shape and buy a gun bro

 

[Mowgli]

There's no way her husband comes to his job with a gun over a few harmless text.

He's leaving out some details.

He's probably posting on the company internet to leave bread crumbs for detectives in case he gets merked. ah was the good guy. Don't no man want another man texting his woman on some casual shyt.

 

[kevm3]

Stop with all the texting back and forth. In your mind, ya'll might be buddies, but a lot of married men don't play that 'male homies with my wife' game. If a woman is married, it's best to just eject from that situation period.

 

[Voice of Reason]

A lot deranged simps low key justifying the crazy husbands actions. You can’t control a woman.

 

[tuckgod]

nikka, once a woman is married, you shouldn’t be texting her anymore. I’ve had homegirls from high school that I’ve been super tight with, but once they got married, That type of communication ceased. Respect that mans household.

100%

These nikkas know that though.

Some nikkas so slick they trick they own damn mind into thinking they being harmless when deep down they know they full of shyt.

I’ve done it.