The husband came to his workplace with the strap.
A restraining order don't mean shyt to him.
Better than offering him to sit and discuss over an espresso. OP bugging.
So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....
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Better than offering him to sit and discuss over an espresso. OP bugging.
OP received more than one warning to stay away from the woman.OP stated it was a group photo and the wife asked him to send it her after it was taken. How is that simping?
OP needs to stay away from this broad since the husband has shown himself to be an unhinged simp liable to do something deranged, but if we're taking the OP at his word, then the OP did nothing wrong that led up to this event.
OP is carrying on a relationship with a thot that he isn’t related to nor is he involved with sexually who is using him for attention.
OP is a simp.
The husband can always get another wife. OP can’t get another life.
A lot of folks got some twisted version of 'the game' from these rappers ear hustling on some pimping and took what they heard and tried to apply it to a situation it doesn't even apply to.
That term 'don't hate the player, hate the game' came from the PIMP GAME, where recognized, reputable pimps are pimps who 'played the game by the rules', and one of the rules is you don't get violent if another pimp takes your woman by the rules and gives you a courtesy call. This was to minimize violence in that arena. Now a lot of weirdoes took that rule from that specific street game and tried to apply it a completely different arena that isn't a form of street game in order to absolve themselves of any responsibilities. In the pimp game, if you're full-fledged, you KNOW the rules and have a MUTUAL understanding.
In regular life when dealing with someone's girl or wife, ya'll DON'T have any mutual understanding of some sort of agreed upon rules, so a husband or boyfriend doesn't owe you anything. Thinking a husband or boyfriend is going to treat you like a pimp and give you a toast if you take their woman is pure fantasy. Even in the pimp game, if you're after another pimp's woman in a fashion that is outside of the rules, you're going to get disciplined.
Chopping it up with someone's girl or especially wife where a man his family and finances tied up in her is NOT going to get you the same reaction as pimps playing the pimp game or even square players who are rotating women who none of them are committed to. A married man or even an engaged man doesn't owe any other man the chance to spit game at his woman without repercussions... so expecting a pimp response from a square not in the game is going to continue to get and already has got a lot of men killed.
That term 'don't hate the player, hate the game' came from the PIMP GAME, where recognized, reputable pimps are pimps who 'played the game by the rules', and one of the rules is you don't get violent if another pimp takes your woman by the rules and gives you a courtesy call. This was to minimize violence in that arena. Now a lot of weirdoes took that rule from that specific street game and tried to apply it a completely different arena that isn't a form of street game in order to absolve themselves of any responsibilities. In the pimp game, if you're full-fledged, you KNOW the rules and have a MUTUAL understanding.
In regular life when dealing with someone's girl or wife, ya'll DON'T have any mutual understanding of some sort of agreed upon rules, so a husband or boyfriend doesn't owe you anything. Thinking a husband or boyfriend is going to treat you like a pimp and give you a toast if you take their woman is pure fantasy. Even in the pimp game, if you're after another pimp's woman in a fashion that is outside of the rules, you're going to get disciplined.
Chopping it up with someone's girl or especially wife where a man his family and finances tied up in her is NOT going to get you the same reaction as pimps playing the pimp game or even square players who are rotating women who none of them are committed to. A married man or even an engaged man doesn't owe any other man the chance to spit game at his woman without repercussions... so expecting a pimp response from a square not in the game is going to continue to get and already has got a lot of men killed.
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That husband isn't a simp. You play with a man's kids, money, or p*ssy... You're taking your life into your own hands. This was your warning, keep it up, he's going to kill you, her, and then himself.
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If this wasn’t woman (that you assume is attractive), would you be calling him a simp for the “relationship” described in the OP? Would this apply if this was a 60 year old fat woman?
Y’all have weird rules around socializing with women that make no sense. Conversing with coworkers is not, in and of itself, simp behavior.
I set boundaries for all relationships, personal or professional so there is no confusion. That’s who I am and for the most part, I have no drama or worries. Age or weight has nothing to do with anything and beauty is subjective.
Women like attention. I am sure most men past the age of adolescence would agree. Conversation with female colleagues is not simp behavior. Texting or calling them outside of work is.
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Again, how is what the OP described, simping. He never said he texted her outside of work, he said all of their convos have been work related.
And even if he did text her outside of work; coworkers can’t be friends? Does this just apply to attractive coworkers?
You are putting weird constraints on relationships between coworkers. Unfortunately (or fortunately depending how you’re looking at it) I don’t work with any women that I find attractive. I’m friendly but not really friends with any of my coworkers male or female except one. A 60+ year old Jamaican woman. We do text outside of work sometimes, but no where close to regularly. She brings me food from time to time, I’ll help her out with personal stuff from time to time (for example, I’ve helped her design funeral programs, including one for her husband when he passed). There’s nothing simpish about my behavior, we’re just friends doing regular friend shyt.
You’re allowed to be friends with women you’re not fukking without being a simp. You can call the OP a liar if you want, but if you take him at his word without putting any extra sauce on it, he hasn’t done anything simpish here.
The husband, on the other hand....
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I’ve known a few brehs who got merked by jealous side nikkas. Be wary of a desperate, thirsty male as they can be deadly when pushed.
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Its no coincidence that dude starts getting crazy after he finds out his wife is leaving him
That is THE most dangerous time for a woman to leave a man ,and it’s when most die in domestic situations
This is a pattern with crazy men
I had family whose man came to work to pick her up, saw her talking to a male coworker and pulled his gun on him
Dude was crazy (and abusive)
This husband is crazy
This ain’t a regular coil Breh just trying to protect his household like some are trying to imply.
I would be very careful OP
That is THE most dangerous time for a woman to leave a man ,and it’s when most die in domestic situations
This is a pattern with crazy men
I had family whose man came to work to pick her up, saw her talking to a male coworker and pulled his gun on him
Dude was crazy (and abusive)
This husband is crazy
This ain’t a regular coil Breh just trying to protect his household like some are trying to imply.
I would be very careful OP
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Great post. But this coming from Kev is
Didn't expect that either. Had to rep.
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I take it ops hospital doesn't have metal detectors...
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It's not the fact that the woman is leaving... Women rarely just leave, they stick around and start cheating first and then if they're certain they have a sure place to land, they leave. During this time, they start playing games with their husband and he notices and starts snooping. He confirms his suspicions and then that's when he snaps.
It's okay to leave, relationships don't work out
but don't play with a man's ego, it gets dangerous. That goes for not only women but other men too.If another man marks a ni99a out in a large group, you just played with his pride and ego. He will leave you there in front of everyone and go to prison for decades.
Wait a fukken minute, this man warned you and you continued to talk to ol'girl?
What does "indirectly" mean?
He wrote you a letter.
I am glad HR is involved.
You are going to be the talk of the hospital for a while though. Just a warning.
ETA: Is your name Shannon btw?
